Ok, simple question: Do you believe its wrong to date? Do you believe when the right person comes to you you'll automatically know thats the right person for you?
Because I have been dating this boy for two months, and he's scared if God is telling us we are not meant to be. He said he's happy with me but he's so anxious over the things he's doing it's simply led to this. He has been anxious about wanting an answer from God and now it's overwhelming me because now I don't know what God does to tell you that's the one, and if there's even a point to be dating this boy. I'm falling for him, which is wonderful but at the same time painful, because I don't know what to think of it.
I decided to ask the woman who saved me, and she told me God wants us to be together because we both want what God wants, want to follow his word, and have no intentions but to love the way God wants us to love each other. And if he insist to keep praying and I keep getting anxious, to let him go because as a promise of God he will bring him back. And somehow, that promise has been keeping me strong but I don't know what else to do or think beside pray to god and read his word.
I have to admit, most people would agree it's stupid to stress about if God is showing you your soulmate or if blinding yourself.
But I simply don't know how to think about it. I do feel like God sent me him into my life and this relationship was meant to happen, but within our own time (since everything was going well) to find out if God sent us to be together for eternity.
I don't know if I should add more, but if there's more details anybody needs to know, ask away. I simply need a Christian's point of view, a married one would be nice, and possibly anybody who guides people into the word of God.