Accepting YOUR creative invitation? What is the way? Girls please look but GUYS vote

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GreenNnice

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Well, I am jumping to conclusions regarding my other thread . But what do you think is the best way for a girl to respond to your creative way of asking her out?

Here's the creative ask out you do: 'hey, this has been good , be careful or I'll need to go get a latte and take you with me.'

Poll responses are listed. Ok, guys , :)
 
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GreenNnice

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The choices are as follows for that above coffee question. Girls do their opposite 'asked' poll publicly so tho no actual poll format, your vote is definitely PUBLIC.

CHOICES OF HER TO YOU AFTER YOU creatively have asked her out for coffee.

Just a quick response, not more than a sentence, or, two , of support, let's just fire off our opinions on this subject that believe you me frustrates our gender highly.

A. She smiles at your invitation for coffee creatively.

B. She smiles and says , 'OK.'


Please speak in words your answer, NOT put the letter. Well there you go, thanks, gents, for helping ladies everywhere know the best way to take that next step IF they really like you, ust let her know how REALLY clueless we really all are :D
 
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GreenNnice

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The choices are as follows for that above coffee question. Girls do their opposite 'asked' poll publicly so tho no actual poll format, your vote is definitely PUBLIC.

CHOICES OF HER TO YOU AFTER YOU creatively have asked her out for coffee.

Just a quick response, not more than a sentence, or, two , of support, let's just fire off our opinions on this subject that believe you me frustrates our gender highly.

A. She smiles at your invitation for coffee creatively.

B. She smiles and says , 'OK.'


Please speak in words your answer, NOT put the letter. Well there you go, thanks, gents, for helping ladies everywhere know the best way to take that next step IF they really like you, just let her know how REALLY clueless we really all are :D

God bless !
 
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See_KING_Truth

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GreenNnice said:
Here's the creative ask out you do: 'hey, this has been good , be careful or I'll need to go get a latte and take you with me.'
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The above is what I call a hint. If I were to say something along the lines of this, I would follow up with a direct question: "Do you want to go grab a coffee?" or whatever...

I don't have any format or guidelines for speaking with women. I am not one of those guys who practice pick-up lines and their facial expressions in a mirror haha. I trust my intuition and I say what fits and feels right in the moment.

Thinking too much about what to say in these situations will most likely lead to studdering and stumbling over words. Not that I have that experience or anything similiar ;)
 
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GreenNnice

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See_KING_Truth said:
The above is what I call a hint. If I were to say something along the lines of this, I would follow up with a direct question: "Do you want to go grab a coffee?" or whatever...

I don't have any format or guidelines for speaking with women. I am not one of those guys who practice pick-up lines and their facial expressions in a mirror haha. I trust my intuition and I say what fits and feels right in the moment.

Thinking too much about what to say in these situations will most likely lead to studdering and stumbling over words. Not that I have that experience or anything similiar ;)
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---ok, S_K_T, and, by the way , you'be been playing with PhotoShop much too much lately:D, but what about those two answers A. and B .

If you say, ' hey, that was a funny joke, don't make me laugh so hard or my stomach will need my favorite chai herbal tea. Hmm, actually, I just may ask you to coffee because I can still laugh at your jokes and my stomach will be being soothed at the same time.

Now , S_K_T , how do you respond? WHAT do you want the girl to say or do next?

A. Smile.
B. Smile and give a slight verbal 'interest' cue like 'ok.'
 
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See_KING_Truth

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I am really indiffernt G_n_N

As long as I can tell that what I said didn't go in one ear and out the other lol :D
 
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GreenNnice

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See_KING_Truth said:
I am really indiffernt G_n_N

As long as I can tell that what I said didn't go in one ear and out the other lol :D
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Ok, so, you would ask her out just from a smile, IF you had just before that asked her an inviting coffee question, you wouldn't't need a smile and a response.

I think that is what I hear you saying S_K_T. but am I really hearing your indifference correctly? :D
 
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See_KING_Truth

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It depends on the smile, sometimes they can be misleading. The reason I say I am indifferent is this: I can usually, but not always, get a clear response from body language. That's it for tonight, I'm goin to bed. :D
 
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GreenNnice

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See_KING_Truth said:
It depends on the smile, sometimes they can be misleading. The reason I say I am indifferent is this: I can usually, but not always, get a clear response from body language. That's it for tonight, I'm goin to bed. :D
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Yeah, fair enough , . I guess this thread's dialogue is two-person, LOL. THAT'S OK, S_K_T , just hope you get your face and index finger fixed up, looks like you're in a lot of 'twisted' pain, bro. Best advice , don't look in the mirror this morning and really bum yourself out, just go straight to a nip and tuck :D
 
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I'd say you're way too focused on the details of all this. I spare myself these problems by not asking out women until i know there is a genuine true interest going both directions. Once i have established an obvious true connection, then i ask them out. I have no interest in putting myself out there for someone i don't really know to reject me because they don't know me enough to really have any idea how they feel about me. As a result of this attitude i rarely if ever face rejection, never have 'bad dates' and never waste my time on someone i'm not sure of.
Also it spares me from having to come up with typical pick up lines and trying to 'read' and worry over a woman's response.
 
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WEll "yes" is generaly considered the best way, otherwise we are left feeling awkward and stupid for having bothered to ask. Course in my case its usually because they generally have ignored me or made some pathetic attempt to make a no seem like something I should have expected. "I'm sort of seeing someone" is usually what I get.

How do you sort of see someone? its like saying you sort of have a child. you either do or you don't, even if you and the child don't live together.
 
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thakayo

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“Friends are angels who lift our feet when our own wings have trouble remembering how to fly.”
 
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Ugly said:
I'd say you're way too focused on the details of all this. I spare myself these problems by not asking out women until i know there is a genuine true interest going both directions. Once i have established an obvious true connection, then i ask them out. I have no interest in putting myself out there for someone i don't really know to reject me because they don't know me enough to really have any idea how they feel about me. As a result of this attitude i rarely if ever face rejection, never have 'bad dates' and never waste my time on someone i'm not sure of.
Also it spares me from having to come up with typical pick up lines and trying to 'read' and worry over a woman's response.
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Ditto.

I don't play roulette with women. I prefer to know exactly what I'm getting into.
 
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GreenNnice

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I must've admit, guys, the girls kked your heines when it camera to them helping YOU understand the best way to así them out.

I pitching out there for girls to understand we guys are clueless , opten, about the next step-by-step after doing a creative 'ask.'

They've let YOU know their preference of being asked by you OUT. Is it creative approach , direct, indirect.

So...maybe you can help them too please (reading the top of the thread if you need to know where to go from here, but basicaly, when we guys ask them out creatively, which they will tell you they like or not in other thread, you then would prefer what before REALLY saying them out next...choices, and, I will affectionately one more:

A. Laugh
B. Smile
C. Verbal cue, like 'ok' , that's said in 'I like you' body language and facial expresión but is still non-commital.

Do any of these EXTRA clues help you decide to take a step beyond the creative ask? Which one is your favorite? Quick 'why' sentence is good too.

God bless !
 
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