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KaylieJ

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I am beginning to think that all christian guys are a lost cause. Are there any decent guys out there anymore? They all seem to be wrapped up in video games. It seems like that is all they know how to talk about. I cant seem to find a decent guy who isnt wrapped up in video games and actually has a personality. And who doesnt already have a girlfriend. Just wondering.
 
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luke15chick

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I've never met one like that. I guess it depends what circles you are in. In the college circle you should find more diversity than that.
 
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KaylieJ

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#3
Well I havnt gone to college yet. Hopefully I will someday find a decent guy that I can one day marry. There have been a lot of guys that I was intersted in but then I find out that they already have girlfriends. And the only guys I have had like me are addicted to video games. Hmm maybe it has something to do with were I live I dont know.
 
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KaylieJ

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nothing unless that is all they know how to talk about.
 
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What's wrong with video games...?

nothing is wrong with video games......... but when your sitting in front of the t.v. day in and day out or all you can talk about is how you stood in line at best buy for 15 hours in the rain with your tent waiting for the newest video game to come out.............. thats when you know you need help. Im sure there are 1-800 numbers for that
 
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KaylieJ

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#7
Finally someone who feels the same way I do thanks Jaylynn83
 
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become_the_generation

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#8
Haha im a guy and im like this is soooo true!!! i personally dont like video games but yeaaa i know what ya mean! I would say Im a decent guy...lol. Not to boast like that since we are only supposed to boast in the Lord. But I'm just waiting for the Lotd to put somebody in my life and i do believe that He has and im superrrrr excited if He did cuz she is amazing but i jsut need to pray about it and focus first and foremost on serviing the Lord in the ministry then if He wants to do that too sweet deal! haha thats my opinion. But i do feel bad for christian girls who are looking for a good christian guy cuz like there isnt a whole lot but lemmee tell you when you do he is gonna be amazinggggg!!! :) haha everybody have a super blessed day byeeeee
 
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voiceoftruth

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I know lots of decent guys and i haven't even been to bible school.

I just know a lot from when a went to youth group.. and some from church.
 
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ariannaaa

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#10
oh kaylie you're still in HS! don't worry about a thing! I'm a junior in college and none found yet but thats ooooooook! not to be discouraging but, maybe in God's plan you won't meet your [i hope better than decent!] husband until your 30. so don't worry that there are no decent guys left. i can assure you there are some, and who dont play video games haha.. theyre just hiding! lol.. but don't worry about it :)

and hey, if you do meet one that seems decent-aside from the video games.. maybe take that as a challenge.. and it means you just have to be that interesting that he'll drop them to spend more time with you :) could be fun, right? haha good luck cya :)
 

Kakashi

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I like video games, but they don't absorb my life....anymore lol.

I'm told I'm a decent guy, if a bit weird, so that's a good combo lol. College is unpredictable about meeting decent people. It's rare for me to find anyone I even enjoy conversing with at mine, but I go to a small college( 5,000 people or so)

You're 18, don't worry about it. I'm 21 and going to graduate in a year, but I'm just kinda being relaxed about it all. In Mathew it says not to worry because it does not add a single second to your life, so why do it?
 
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SamIam

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I play video games all the time, I wont leave the house with out a controller in my hand... Are you saying women dont like this???
 
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KaylieJ

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#13
I am saying I dont like it
 
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ariannaaa

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#14
lol kaylie i think samiam may have been being sarcastic
 
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pinkstix56

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Wow thats all you could think of was video games? Girl christian guys can be abusive ..etc. Just wait on God because he'll send the right one to you.
 
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lil-rush

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I play video games all the time, I wont leave the house with out a controller in my hand... Are you saying women dont like this???
bahaha... nice.
 
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ministada

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#17
Pray and ask God to send you a man of God. A man of God is the best man in the world. God will give you a Good man. You just have to be patient and wait on the Lord. Trust in God and have faith. Anything that you ask for you shall recieve. God is a Good God. I am waiting. I have a relationship with God. Pray when you feel lonely and read your bible. God have a man that is just for you.God bless you .I'll pray that he send you the perfect man.
 
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Sparkyyyyyy

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I wouldnt mind meeting a girl who likes video games, but I'm having trouble meeting a decent girl altogether lol
 
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I wouldnt mind meeting a girl who likes video games, but I'm having trouble meeting a decent girl altogether lol

I'm having a problem meeting decent single girls my age. Though even if Idid, then there's the hard part of getting her like me.
 
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kingzkid

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just curious where you are meeting these fellas. what do you talk to boys about? What sort of conversations do you start? guys your age want to fit in just like guys any age and video games is a definite easy way to fit in with other fellas. hang out with some of your girlfriends in a place that doesn't involve video games or malls and i bet you find a guy who is interested in something else.