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Hi,
I am writing this just to get some feedback as to what you all think. Last week I asked a guy from my church, whom I'd been admiring from a far, if he'd be willing to go on a movie date with me. He agreed. I was surprised but excited that he accepted. We went to the show and we spoke briefly about ourselves. We did not hold hands or anything. I dropped him near his home afterwards. I mentioned that sometimes in the days, I'm alone at home and if he wouldnt mind coming by sometimes for us to just hang out. The next day he texted that he'd be willing to do this. By the following day I told him I'd be free so he came by. We watched a dvd in my room. I reached out to hold his hand. He was rather shy. He leaned over to me tho and i kissed his forehead. He soon said that he thought I'd be more assertive towards him so I leaned over and kissed him. He got all into the kiss. After a while, we left out. The next few days I didnt see him, but I noticed from his texts to me that his mood had changed towards me. I asked him what's wrong? He said nothing, but eventually he explained that he was not interested in me at all and that he regrets doing anything with me at all. He went on to say he never wants what happened, to ever happen again! I was a bit shocked. He seemed interested in me when he was kissing me. I didn't force him to do a thing!! He had even said he liked me and how i was pretty then so how come his mouth has changed?? What do you guys think??..is he just making an excuse...or is he just an immature child who doesn't take responsibility for their actions?? I feel like writing a note to him telling him off, but then again I think, to just let this immature child go away. He is 21 years and somehow i thought he'd act more mature than he has just over one kiss!!
I am writing this just to get some feedback as to what you all think. Last week I asked a guy from my church, whom I'd been admiring from a far, if he'd be willing to go on a movie date with me. He agreed. I was surprised but excited that he accepted. We went to the show and we spoke briefly about ourselves. We did not hold hands or anything. I dropped him near his home afterwards. I mentioned that sometimes in the days, I'm alone at home and if he wouldnt mind coming by sometimes for us to just hang out. The next day he texted that he'd be willing to do this. By the following day I told him I'd be free so he came by. We watched a dvd in my room. I reached out to hold his hand. He was rather shy. He leaned over to me tho and i kissed his forehead. He soon said that he thought I'd be more assertive towards him so I leaned over and kissed him. He got all into the kiss. After a while, we left out. The next few days I didnt see him, but I noticed from his texts to me that his mood had changed towards me. I asked him what's wrong? He said nothing, but eventually he explained that he was not interested in me at all and that he regrets doing anything with me at all. He went on to say he never wants what happened, to ever happen again! I was a bit shocked. He seemed interested in me when he was kissing me. I didn't force him to do a thing!! He had even said he liked me and how i was pretty then so how come his mouth has changed?? What do you guys think??..is he just making an excuse...or is he just an immature child who doesn't take responsibility for their actions?? I feel like writing a note to him telling him off, but then again I think, to just let this immature child go away. He is 21 years and somehow i thought he'd act more mature than he has just over one kiss!!