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Everyone's a "stranger" at some point. If you don't put yourself out there you'll never meet anyone new.
As long as you don't say something offensive or drop a cheesy line, yes making the first move is a major plus. Also, being straightforward is going to weed out the types of girls that want to play games. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache.
As long as you don't say something offensive or drop a cheesy line, yes making the first move is a major plus. Also, being straightforward is going to weed out the types of girls that want to play games. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache.
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Thank you guys for the advice. I'll try to apply these. Maybe what's wrong in me is the fear that I will run out of girls that I like. That if this one rejected me, I will have a hard time to look for the girl who is single and attractive for me. Maybe I'll just have to visit more churches.
Can you please pray for me, if you have time, that I can win this struggle. And I will inform you if I have any improvements... Thanks a lot!!!
I'll still ask questions regarding this matter if something bothers me... =)
Can you please pray for me, if you have time, that I can win this struggle. And I will inform you if I have any improvements... Thanks a lot!!!
I'll still ask questions regarding this matter if something bothers me... =)
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Man--
Don't focus on girls...it will ruin you...remember the advice at the end of proverbs...31:3...Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings...
Do not go to church or churches looking for girls--this is futile...
Look for God in church...and become close to Him...and when you reflect Christ, Christian girls will love you because they love Christ...but if you go to church or churches looking for girls...they will spiritually ruin you...for your mind being off Christ, you will perish in your quest for girls instead of the Lord...and Christian girls will see how vain you are, focused on them and not God...
The only Rock is the Lord...girls shift more than the sea...
God bless and I hope this helps
tony
Don't focus on girls...it will ruin you...remember the advice at the end of proverbs...31:3...Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings...
Do not go to church or churches looking for girls--this is futile...
Look for God in church...and become close to Him...and when you reflect Christ, Christian girls will love you because they love Christ...but if you go to church or churches looking for girls...they will spiritually ruin you...for your mind being off Christ, you will perish in your quest for girls instead of the Lord...and Christian girls will see how vain you are, focused on them and not God...
The only Rock is the Lord...girls shift more than the sea...
God bless and I hope this helps
tony
I want to affirm what has already been said about BE YOURSELF! You cant be anyone else, if you try, you will be phony. RELAX. Yes, ask questions, but not yes or no, ones that start with who, what, where, when, why and how....these are key in getting to know ANYONE. (Be careful not to make it sound like an interview though!) I can only speak for myself when I say - NO to weird, cheesy and sometimes downright strange pick up lines. Girls (generally speaking) look for someone who will listen to them bleat on...and sometimes on...and sometimes on some more! By listening, I actually mean taking notice too, cos girls are good at checking just to make sure you heard them! Lastly, YES, (this girl at least) PREFERS guys making the first move....initating conversation...asking out...whatever.
ALL THE BEST GUYS!! ABOVE ALL THESE THINGS - SEEK GOD, because there is nothing more attractive to a Christian girl than a guy who has his eyes firmly fixed on the Lord!
ALL THE BEST GUYS!! ABOVE ALL THESE THINGS - SEEK GOD, because there is nothing more attractive to a Christian girl than a guy who has his eyes firmly fixed on the Lord!
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I have come to the conclusion that a person can never become un shy...So the chances of you meeting a guy or girl then asking them out (if you are shy) is zero. Now you know what.... If you are shy and there is someone you like... you should be careful because it could also seem like your NOT intrested! Which very well may be the case..... im just sayin.................
