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If I heard a guy lie to a female friend of mine online about something to make himself sound more appealing to her, I would tell her privately in a heartbeat for her protection, since I believe that people who lie about the little things will most certainly lie about the big issues of life. It wasn't an exaggeration or anything where gray area would come into play, it was a complete contradiction about something another guy had asked her a couple of weeks ago.
As King Solomon says, it is the LITTLE foxes than can ruin the vine... As a trained investigator and interrogator, I have found this to be absolutely true.
The dilemma: If the friend is a GUY, how do you tell him that another woman lied to him about something without sounding catty? Do you just keep quiet?
I was thinking the best thing to do might be to be quiet for now. If he really isn't interested in her, it's a non-issue, right? If he is though, at some point, I think I would have to risk him becoming upset with me by warning him, wouldn't I?
I read people pretty well and this set off an alarm inside of me, one that is very difficult to ignore. I don't want my friend to be hurt.
Help....what would you do?
As King Solomon says, it is the LITTLE foxes than can ruin the vine... As a trained investigator and interrogator, I have found this to be absolutely true.
The dilemma: If the friend is a GUY, how do you tell him that another woman lied to him about something without sounding catty? Do you just keep quiet?
I was thinking the best thing to do might be to be quiet for now. If he really isn't interested in her, it's a non-issue, right? If he is though, at some point, I think I would have to risk him becoming upset with me by warning him, wouldn't I?
I read people pretty well and this set off an alarm inside of me, one that is very difficult to ignore. I don't want my friend to be hurt.
Help....what would you do?