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servingchrist

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will somebody please help me? for years I have struggled in finding the right girl for me, before I got saved It was easy for me but, now I cant find a christian girl to date me because of my past, they're has been times in my life where I cannot sleep or eat because of it and I know thats totally crazy but, I feel like Im just searching for something that will never come to pass, I pray daily, I read my bible daily, I seek god but, dont see nothing happening..why is that? am I a bad person because im a youth pastor? do I deserve it? am I being punished..

I cried out to God everyday and no answers come, I pray with mom and still see no results, please help me!!
 
Kakashi

Kakashi

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servingchrist said:
will somebody please help me? for years I have struggled in finding the right girl for me, before I got saved It was easy for me but, now I cant find a christian girl to date me because of my past, they're has been times in my life where I cannot sleep or eat because of it and I know thats totally crazy but, I feel like Im just searching for something that will never come to pass, I pray daily, I read my bible daily, I seek god but, dont see nothing happening..why is that? am I a bad person because im a youth pastor? do I deserve it? am I being punished..

I cried out to God everyday and no answers come, I pray with mom and still see no results, please help me!!
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Certainly it's not cause you;re a youth pastor. A good leader needs a good wife for support.

if you can;t eat or sleep cause you can;t find a girl, then I think that means you aren't focusing on the right things. " Seek first the kingdom of heaven and these things will be given unto you" Whenever God blsesses us, it's in his own time and i t's the correct time always. You;re 22, just chill and try to find peace with God, take a nap, get some food and try and think about all the thing God HAS given you and be at peace with it. I'm not saying theres anythign wrong with seeking after a woman. Shoot, I'd like that myself. however, don't let that pursuit consume you and your mind.


I'd say more, and probably with better logic, but right now my brain is soo tired lol
 
J0Y

J0Y

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Kakashi - u hit the nail on the head brother!!! You are on to it man!!!
I cant add anything...only affirm....
servingchrist - you are still young....enjoy your singleness man, it is a blessing or burden - the choice is your own attitude to it! ;)
 
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