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yes 69 7.01%
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yes...if commited 62 6.29%
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Old June 23rd, 2009
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How so? and what about what the bible says about it??
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I was not a virgin when I met my husband and neither was he. If there is one thing we would change about ourselves.... we wish we had kept ourselves until our wedding night. We had sooo much "baggage" to deal with because we had had past sexual relationships.

Please take it from someone who knows................ wait 4 ur wedding nite.... it wud just b the icing on the cake!
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I had abusive relationships. Felt guilty that I hadn't kept myself. because of my guilt I held on to the relationship, thinking it would work out.... but we were just wrong for each other.
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The majority of girls I know know good single Christian guys, but they arent their ''type''. I think most times people want a Fabio when that aint realistic.
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That is so totally out of the question! No sex before marriage... the bible is absolutely clear about that! I'm wondering at the question itself being asked!!
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I was not a virgin when I met my husband and neither was he. If there is one thing we would change about ourselves.... we wish we had kept ourselves until our wedding night. We had sooo much "baggage" to deal with because we had had past sexual relationships.

Please take it from someone who knows................ wait 4 ur wedding nite.... it wud just b the icing on the cake!
baggage can come to play in a marriage even if both are virgins. For example sexual abuse, that can mess with a persons "love life"
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I'm looking forward to my wedding night.
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I have had it and its, in my opinion, tremendously overrated.

Then again, we did nott care about each other beyond on that night.
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More than likely thats why you felt it was over rated... when its done in the right context its not over rated.
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Sex before marriage might seem like a good idea at the time, but afterwards that isn't the thoughts going through your mind. And it doesn't leave you feeling peaceful.

Waiting allows you to really get to know the one you are dating and if he/she is worthy he/she will want to abide by your wishes. Which only proves more so that person is for you.
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More than likely thats why you felt it was over rated... when its done in the right context its not over rated.
I have no doubt in my mind.

The whole context was dead wrong.
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Boxme smile!!! you look like you are mad at someone!! Sam tick you off again??
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Boxme smile!!! you look like you are mad at someone!! Sam tick you off again??

pffft... thats what you think lol
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Boxme smile!!! you look like you are mad at someone!! Sam tick you off again??
No one ticked me off.

I just have an ugly smile. It has to come naturally.
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I'm only teasin hun!
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Waiting till my wedding day will only make it that much better. I know it'll be worth the wait!
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You should definitely wait 4 marriage! Not only because its what the Lord wants 4 us, but having premarital sex, knowing its wrong, eats you up with guilt! I, unfortunately made that mistake when I was 18 yrs. old. Even though I know that God forgave me, I still have 2 live with that guilt!
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The majority of girls I know know good single Christian guys, but they arent their ''type''. I think most times people want a Fabio when that aint realistic.
Send their discards my way then
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I actually know someone named Fabio. He's my cousins brother. Fortunately, he's happily married and has an adorable son.
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