So how do I find a girlfriend when your own friends won't help you find one?
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There are plenty of sites online that you can buy one.
...okay, in all seriousness, though, open your eyes. I believe many women are just WAITING and it's excruciating. A man that steps up and makes a move - starting a light conversation can be pretty impacting. Beyond that, I just don't understand this concept of "finding a girlfriend." It doesn't sound healthy as it implies searching. And sometimes in searching desperation can be blinding. But people have been finding one another for thousands of years... naturally in a variety of environments. Just be cautious and make sure you're seeing clearly looking at God
...okay, in all seriousness, though, open your eyes. I believe many women are just WAITING and it's excruciating. A man that steps up and makes a move - starting a light conversation can be pretty impacting. Beyond that, I just don't understand this concept of "finding a girlfriend." It doesn't sound healthy as it implies searching. And sometimes in searching desperation can be blinding. But people have been finding one another for thousands of years... naturally in a variety of environments. Just be cautious and make sure you're seeing clearly looking at God
Oh no! Your friends won't help you find a girlfriend! That sucks dude! Okay I'll give you a tip since I'm such a nice guy! Ladies love bald guys so you have to shave your whole head . So after you do that, just go to a random girl and say
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Works like a charm. Trust me.
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I'm going to make this short and sweet... *ahem*... "Stop looking!!"
I've noticed that you post regularly in the threads, always very obvious that you're searching and searching for a girlfriend... well... to most girls desperation is a huge turn off. So stop looking and just let it fall into place. God already has your love story mapped out, and mine, and every other Christian out there. He wants to be in charge. He wants you to be patient so that he can provide the ultimate best for you. Also, seek God, not girls, and you will find exactly what you desire. "A girl's heart should be so lost in God, a man will have to seek Him in order to find her." I LOVE this quote and it's so true! In my mind, it's the same the other way around. The man I eventually end up with, is going to be lost in God. We're going to find each other through Him... not because we're constantly looking.
I apologize if that was blunt, but I'm just going to add one more thing. Pray for her. Not FOR her in this way: "God please bring me my future wife." No, no... pray FOR her in: "God, please watch over my future wife. Protect her, love her, guide her in your ways. Make her the amazing woman you want her to be." etc. All the little things you want FOR her, tell God about. He already knows you want her... but He has to make her just right first.
Good luck.
I've noticed that you post regularly in the threads, always very obvious that you're searching and searching for a girlfriend... well... to most girls desperation is a huge turn off. So stop looking and just let it fall into place. God already has your love story mapped out, and mine, and every other Christian out there. He wants to be in charge. He wants you to be patient so that he can provide the ultimate best for you. Also, seek God, not girls, and you will find exactly what you desire. "A girl's heart should be so lost in God, a man will have to seek Him in order to find her." I LOVE this quote and it's so true! In my mind, it's the same the other way around. The man I eventually end up with, is going to be lost in God. We're going to find each other through Him... not because we're constantly looking.
I apologize if that was blunt, but I'm just going to add one more thing. Pray for her. Not FOR her in this way: "God please bring me my future wife." No, no... pray FOR her in: "God, please watch over my future wife. Protect her, love her, guide her in your ways. Make her the amazing woman you want her to be." etc. All the little things you want FOR her, tell God about. He already knows you want her... but He has to make her just right first.
Good luck.
Dot, no offense here, buddy..but I have a feeling that the reason your friends don't want to help you is because they can see that you are too afraid to even help yourself. Am I right? If that's the truth, then you've got to get over your fear and nervousness around girls. I used to be the same way when I was around your age. I put women on a pedestal in my mind and they were these incredibly beautiful, seemingly perfect beings. I realize now that they are just as clueless and imperfect as we are. Once you grasp that truth you'll realize that talking to a girl is just like talking to a guy. Of course you'll want to smile and be on your best behavior too.
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So how.....help me?
Go to McD's. Wait for group girls walk through door and start singing 'All By Myself' song quietly while in front of them in the line , waiting to order.
A lot of things have to fall your way, like their being a line when the bevy of.beauties walks in, but that's where prayer comes in. Pray it to happen, DotHackNothing, or, don't . Just depends on if you want something or nothing to happen .
Be courageous. Maybe see the movie Courageous not a bad idea either. I don't know, I not seen it, but sounds logical , anyway.
Go to McD's. Wait for group girls walk through door and start singing 'All By Myself' song quietly while in front of them in the line , waiting to order.
A lot of things have to fall your way, like their being a line when the bevy of.beauties walks in, but that's where prayer comes in. Pray it to happen, DotHackNothing, or, don't . Just depends on if you want something or nothing to happen .
Be courageous. Maybe see the movie Courageous not a bad idea either. I don't know, I not seen it, but sounds logical , anyway.