I have really been struggling...

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servingchrist

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Jun 15, 2009
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With my walk with God, I will get to the point here in a second but, anyways I am a youth pastor, I have been serving under another guy for almost 2 years and the days have been awesome and some days the days are pretty rough but, sometimes I feel like you know..God doesnt have the right person out there for me, I know it sounds pretty crazy but, I get this picture I will walk into my church and my girl will be waiting for me but, I know that's not true because it's sometimes not until we get fully satisfied for God until that happens.

my thing is this..I am alittle overweight and sometimes its noticable to some of the girls at my church, most the girls at my church are drama queens and I don't mean for it to be mean but, its the truth..They don't go there for the right reasons, They go for entertainment and The house of God isnt a entertainment center or a show case cinema..It's a healing station for people who need help and sometimes I feel like God will not bring my wife there because of the girls that are there, Are they a distraction? are they not my type of girl God wants..

I really dont know.
 
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pinkstix56

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Ok for starters. You seem like that type of guy who is really chasing after God's own heart. Let's face it.. would God want to set you up with someone who is a distraction? Or with someone who is walking out the same walk of faith you are on right now, regardless God is going to set you up with the woman that you asked Him for. She just has to be the wife He needs for her to be for you and vise versa. Don't rush it you're only 22. And besides when you're dating your intent is suppose to be that you are going to marry that person. This is why Giod doesn't want us to date so openly because what if that person isn't the one? Then you have shared your heart with that person who wasn't meant for you in the first place.

Take it is easy. She'll be there. No worries. But for right now.. it's about being passionate with God. And for most christian women.. it is very appealing when a guy is completely sold out for God.
 
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