finding the right person..

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Jun 15, 2009
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Somebody once told me that finding the right person is very hard and very wrong. It is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there. You'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you. And don't rush things 'coz somewhere, somehow God is preparing somebody for you.

You can never be perfect, the person you love can never be perfect. But both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the two of you.
But, no relationship is complete without God - that is why we have marriage. It's a bond not only between you and your loved one but also with God.

Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right person - it's because we expected too much and we decided on our own. Let God do the work. You may call it "waiting time" but while you are waiting... pray. Let God guide you always. He knows
better.... No, He knows best.

Love is not what you think it is. Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are
overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love.

Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying one self for the sake of someone very important in our life. Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.

When we think we're in love, the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us. We say this phrase: "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received!" But after a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty
quarrel we then say: "You are the biggest mistake I've ever made in my entire life!" Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-
V-E? Are you really deeply into it?

Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever", "Till Death do us apart", etc. would end up "Never", "We should part ways...", "I'm no longer happy
with you", "My love for you is DEAD!" Many times after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree,we thought: "He/She ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come." But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is he/she the right one?" and "When is the right time?" That makes us stick to whom we are with.

Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible, partnership also goes along with it.
 
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kristine1028

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very well said. :)
 
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drum4thelord

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You have a tremendous insight for a younger person. I am in turmoil because my sperated other has a problem with living my life for the Lord. She does'nt want to be there. I need someone to share in this joy and happiness in this way of life'but it is so hard to find someone in a small town,lol.