Jesus said a lot of things and the bible says a lot of things that means 1 thing and meaning multiple things.
"I know its about my time to date but I dont wanna be thirsty for it."
You said you don't want to be thirty for it which reminds me of Jesus's work, believe in me and you will never go thirst again.
Originally he said thirsty as in the Holy Spirit will flow onto you (Luke again). But what if he also meant not being thirsty for worldly things and ways of the world?
my concept...
But yes I'm in same position as you, not in any relationship as i'm 24yrs. And when many people see my face to face, they would instantly get the impression that I probably have a girlfriend. Others will think and say I probably like talking/chasing to girls. Which any of their words does not describe me.
I was never desperate to get into relationship. It was just recent that my dad said something and got me thinking, this was also when I had the porn addiction and wasn't in Kingdom of God or worshipping Jesus spiritually.
Basically I was getting into dating sites and looking to meet women from there, all because my friend got me into it.
Things just wasn't working out. And when I asked Jesus to lift my addiction from me which he did and I was cleansed. (my testimony)
In fact before that I was getting in contact with another woman but she seems to like texting only.
When I was cleansed, I could see I had one choice to make:
I either give her up and live my life to Christ.
or
Continue to get in contact with the woman and see what will happen.
The devil likes to test people and lies, he likes to offer what people want and desire for worldy goods. I'm glad I wasn't getting in touch with her because I was on Pay As You Go phone and I was basically wasting my credit/money on her. She's also 22 'living her life', many should know what this means. It means doing everything like going out with friends all the time, clubbing, drinking, following worldy ways etc. Because I gave her up I'm now in more connection with Jesus.
We if focus too much on worldy things, we would have more time for the world and less time speaking/contact with God.
In fact I told her I have a life changing experience and now following Jesus spiritually. She replied "you're joking".
I had to make it straight to her, told her I will be deleting my dating profile, if she still wants to contact me she can txt me or find me on Facebook.
From there on, I heard no word from here! As you can see...'testing'
All these happened in May!
So in your position.
If you want to avoid the hunger, better to avoid all secular music, romantic movies, magazines etc. Just anything that talks about dating/relationship.
It's much like me, if I don't want to fall into the sinful trap of watching porn, I better avoid ANYTHING to do with sexuality.
If you really want to date I would suggest you try dating sites but hey. Every person has their decisions to make and can make their own decisions.
But I wouldn't recommend dating sites to you, you'll encounter a lot of people. Especially men who likes to play games and other men who like talking garbage to women or men who likes to harass women. Same thing with women, they want men to contact them, play silly games and act more like princess.
Dating sites are not for me.
I decided that if I want a girl friend, she HAS to believe in Jesus or a Christian. The thing about 2 people becoming 1 is that, both will share the same affinity and influences. So if 1 partner likes doing this, the second partner will gain that habbit and start doing the same thing.
I would just suggest you get a Christian guy/date a Christian guy.
