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K
Well i am a guy so i don't know if my thoughts will count to you, but i myself would never consider being with someone who does not belong to my faith.
I don't care what anyone says if a person is an atheist then don't expect any loyalty and faith from them. I am not saying they wont be so but i do ask what binds them to moral order? Yes and i do know some so called "christians" can and are a lot worse, but these people are not true Christians but false deceivers and hypocrites.
In the end the choice is yours and there is no sin in being with a non-christian. Just make sure he holds true to your values and qualities in life and things should be fine.
I don't care what anyone says if a person is an atheist then don't expect any loyalty and faith from them. I am not saying they wont be so but i do ask what binds them to moral order? Yes and i do know some so called "christians" can and are a lot worse, but these people are not true Christians but false deceivers and hypocrites.
In the end the choice is yours and there is no sin in being with a non-christian. Just make sure he holds true to your values and qualities in life and things should be fine.
U
Bad idea. Period. We are not called to date people to call them into the faith.
Lets say you have get married and have kids. How can this man be the spiritual head of your household when he simple 'isn't bothered' by your faith? How can he be an example for your children? How do you explain to your children how important you faith is, and at the same time try to tell them why daddy doesn't pray with them or read his bible, yet you still married him, instead of someone who prays and reads their bible?
Also, if he doesn't even have a biblical or Godly foundation in his life what's to prevent him from becoming involved in other worldly ventures?
Lets say you have get married and have kids. How can this man be the spiritual head of your household when he simple 'isn't bothered' by your faith? How can he be an example for your children? How do you explain to your children how important you faith is, and at the same time try to tell them why daddy doesn't pray with them or read his bible, yet you still married him, instead of someone who prays and reads their bible?
Also, if he doesn't even have a biblical or Godly foundation in his life what's to prevent him from becoming involved in other worldly ventures?
B
Thank you for the comments, I am taking into consideration what you all have said and have decided to take your advice.
Living in society today is so hard you have temptations all around you.
I have had one non christian boyfriend and that didn't work so I don't know what makes me think this will work either...
I am going to wait to see what our God has planned for me.
Living in society today is so hard you have temptations all around you.
I have had one non christian boyfriend and that didn't work so I don't know what makes me think this will work either...
I am going to wait to see what our God has planned for me.
The problem with dating nonbelievers is that they don't share the same value system as we do. Christians (should) have their minds on heavenly things, whereas the nonbelievers only focus on the things of this world. That creates a disconnect between the two and unfortunately, it's more likely that the unbeliever will bring the Christian down than vice versa.