How social are you in real life (offline)? (An anonymous pol)

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How social are you in real life? (anonymous pol)

  • Very social - love being around other people and socializing

    Votes: 20 19.2%
  • Somewhat social - love socializing but only with people i know

    Votes: 20 19.2%
  • Socially neutral - equally likes socializing and alone time

    Votes: 26 25.0%
  • Somewhat private - like to socialize only occasionally

    Votes: 28 26.9%
  • Very private - always prefers alone time to socializing

    Votes: 10 9.6%

  • Total voters
    104

melita916

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I'm an introvert when I first meet someone. Once I'm comfortable, I don't hush.

As for social life, it's my church life lol.
 
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Tintin

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I was going to post my thoughts in this thread, but then I discovered I already did that a few years ago. :)
 

Fenner

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I was going to post my thoughts in this thread, but then I discovered I already did that a few years ago. :)
I think I did too, bad married lady, bad.
 

Oncefallen

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well if you don't like my "complaining" why not just click the little ignore button and ignore me. and you can go back to telling someone having sex out of marriage is a bad thing for the 50 trillionth time.
to use your words...............Nyet.
 

Lynx

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I was going to post my thoughts in this thread, but then I discovered I already did that a few years ago. :)
Classic! Love it!

I was at the other end. I was certain I had posted my thoughts in this thread, then I noticed I had not said anything here. It was another "how social are you in real life" thread I was thinking about that I had posted in. :cool:

hey why not lets just trash forum etiquette totally, we got married and taken people hanging in singles. of course men still ain't allowed in the women only part, (talk about discriminating) might as well get us some militant atheists posting around here.
wisebeardman I submit for you a point of logic.

Given: The forum is what it is.

Given: You cannot change it or keep it from changing. This has been proven, as your many fervent attempts have been of no avail.

Observation: The forum as it is, and as it is becoming, seems to be causing you great distress. That, or something in your life is causing you distress and you are venting here.

Given: Nobody is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to participate in this forum with which you have so many objections.

Conclusion: There is a 93% chance that leaving the forum for a time will be beneficial for you. You might return or you might decide to not return, but it seems a lot like you need a break for a while.
 
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I'll talk to anyone as long as they're not a liberal.
 
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Overly social people give me pause. Why are they so friendly? What do they want? Why talk to me out of all the other choices of people around?

It's a good thing I have very strong Kung-Fu in the art of RBF. It keeps all but the most hearty and brave at a distance and silent.
THIS HAPPENS A LOT IN THE MALL. I mean, you come in and you see ladies asking "hey would you like to try this? how old are you by the way, cause you sure look 18." BS!!! I mean, Bible Study!! I'm going to a Bible Study and I will be late so, talk to you later!

Sooooo...how ya been ol' thread o' mine?? :rolleyes:
It's one of those moments when you realise that the old thread's starter is still active on CC. It's great!!
 
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People are opening up more discussion and having a great time doing it. I don't understand all the zombie hate around here... sheesh... this isn't even a controversial thread. :rolleyes: The OP did not ask a time sensitive question. It was just a conversation starter.

I agree with you. It is so ironic that those I've observed perpetually complaining about older threads being responded to have had the least to contribute constructively in any threads of late. I'd much prefer to read older educative, helpful posts than some of the garbage spouted in newer ones.
 

Fenner

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I know I'm not the only married or not single person posting in the singles forum. But I feel bad that my presence makes someone feel that angry. I am not going to stop posting in here though and I won't communicate directly with that person, as he said he is uncomfortable having a discussion with a married or taken woman. I understand, but until they tell us to stay out, I'll post here.

I'm sorry for any grief that causes this person. This matter has been discussed several times. I will ignore the remarks. I feel bad for the rest of you here if it's upsetting for you to read that.
 

AsifinPassing

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So who dug this up? Julianna was still here back then...and several others... trip down memories...
 
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AuntieAnt

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My three kids tell me I'm an introvert because I pour myself out to people and then need alone time to recharge. I think they're right. But I'm definitely a people person. I smile and say hello to young & old folks when I'm in public. People seem to want to talk to me, I think because they feel at ease around me. I'm down-to-earth friendly and don't have anything to prove, ya know? I genuinely enjoy helping people be comfortable and happy.
 

melita916

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My three kids tell me I'm an introvert because I pour myself out to people and then need alone time to recharge. I think they're right. But I'm definitely a people person. I smile and say hello to young & old folks when I'm in public. People seem to want to talk to me, I think because they feel at ease around me. I'm down-to-earth friendly and don't have anything to prove, ya know? I genuinely enjoy helping people be comfortable and happy.
auntieant is really Mama Bear :D :D :D :D

see what i did there? seeeeeeee?

auntie... mama...

ant... bear.

seeeeeeeeee?

:p
 
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My three kids tell me I'm an introvert because I pour myself out to people and then need alone time to recharge. I think they're right. But I'm definitely a people person. I smile and say hello to young & old folks when I'm in public. People seem to want to talk to me, I think because they feel at ease around me. I'm down-to-earth friendly and don't have anything to prove, ya know? I genuinely enjoy helping people be comfortable and happy.
That's the new definition of introvert. They expanded the definition because now everyone wants to be an introvert because its the new cool, just like everyone wants to be a nerd. 20 years ago, introverts and nerds were societal outcasts. To me, that new definition is really just an extrovert that needs peace and quiet to recharge.. :rolleyes:
 
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So who dug this up? Julianna was still here back then...and several others... trip down memories...
I sometimes wonder what ever happened to her. She just suddenly announces one day that she got married and then she says bye! and completely disappears from social media.. :(
 

Fenner

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I remember that Zero. Did she marry someone she met on CC?
 

Gary

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I sometimes wonder what ever happened to her. She just suddenly announces one day that she got married and then she says bye! and completely disappears from social media.. :(
People often disappear when they've been caught pretending to be someone they're not and there's no way for them to get out of it.