Tips for asking women out.

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Ritter

Ritter

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So the election is over. I'm back home in a largely evangelical territory, and since I have more time on my hands, I thought I'd give this actively seeking out and dating women thing a try.

Mind you this is uncharacteristic of me. Usually I'm the type to start a friendship and let nature take its course. Well, for once in my life I think I'll leave it all on the field and be that annoying pursuant male.

So, ladies and gentlemen, here is where I'll open the panels and let you tell me how to ask out complete strangers or people you have not seen in months.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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Club them over the head and drag them back to your cave... but I'm from an older generation obviously.

 
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twofeet

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AgeofKnowledge said:
Club them over the head and drag them back to your cave... but I'm from an older generation obviously.

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I like your style....simple but effective....no room for misunderstandings...nice one!
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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As a modern twist on the "clubbing them over the head" suggestion... Nowadays it seems to be most effective to find a way to appear with said person on:

1. a talk show in which chairs are thrown (nothing says, "I'm interested!" than hurling folding chairs at each other).
2. a reality show that never stops (show those Jersey Shore-ians who's boss!)
3. (appearing in) court together. Nothing will show your interest more than telling your side of the story to Judge Judy.

:D

All jokes aside... best wishes, Ritter!! You're a great guy and for what it's worth, I think any girl would be flattered that you had asked her out.
 
AAAPlus

AAAPlus

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Ritter said:
So the election is over. I'm back home in a largely evangelical territory, and since I have more time on my hands, I thought I'd give this actively seeking out and dating women thing a try.

Mind you this is uncharacteristic of me. Usually I'm the type to start a friendship and let nature take its course. Well, for once in my life I think I'll leave it all on the field and be that annoying pursuant male.

So, ladies and gentlemen, here is where I'll open the panels and let you tell me how to ask out complete strangers or people you have not seen in months.
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I think you're making a terrible decision and you should go back to the friendship taking its course thing.
 
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violakat

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First,
PRAY,
then
PRAY, and then
PRAY some more,
then go ask her out.
 
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_Ryan_

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Just make it seem normal, do not seem like your pressuring them, just call them up and ask if they want to go for coffee or a quick lunch just to catch up on things, DO not make it seem like a date.
 
Ritter

Ritter

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AAAPlus said:
I think you're making a terrible decision and you should go back to the friendship taking its course thing.
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It appears to me that people who go by this method have better results than me.
 
Ritter

Ritter

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_Ryan_ said:
Just make it seem normal, do not seem like your pressuring them, just call them up and ask if they want to go for coffee or a quick lunch just to catch up on things, DO not make it seem like a date.
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Funny, this is why I've been told to make it clear it is a date so as to alleviate confusion.

C'mon ladies, surely there is a way you would like a man to ask you out.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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I'm against asking out a complete stranger, you never really know what your getting.

With that being said, why not just be straight up... hey i think your interesting or i wanna talk to you or i like you do you wanna go ............. then whatever it is you wanna do.

In my opinion that is much better than some random, sooooo wanna go out sometime. When a guy says that to me my automatic thought is... why.
Making it clear why your asking what your asking i think is important, because it clears up a lot of those questions we have in the beginning
Is he tryin to date me
Is this just a friends thing

Ohhh and if your gonna go with this approach i wouldn't recommend saying i think your pretty wanna go out or what have you. That gives the impression you just wanna date her cause you like how she looks. Say something about her personality or character. Guarantee you'd get a good response.
 
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Jullianna

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Ritter, use the KISS method:

1. Hey, wanna go get a cup of coffee?

2. What kind of movies do you like? There are some good ones out now. :)

(The new Bond is great btw!)

Wear that suit! It's very bondesque! :D
 
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zaoman32

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I lost my phone number can I have yours?
 
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Relena7

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Go to a costume store.

Buy a giant squirrel mascot suit.

Put squirrel suit on, don't forget the giant head.

Stand in front of her house, and hold up a sign that says "I'm nuts for you" with some little hearts drawn on it.

She won't be able to resist...unless she has a nut allergy. Then she'll just think you're weird.


You're welcome. :D:D:D
 
zeroturbulence

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Relena7 said:
Go to a costume store.

Buy a giant squirrel mascot suit.

Put squirrel suit on, don't forget the giant head.

Stand in front of her house, and hold up a sign that says "I'm nuts for you" with some little hearts drawn on it.

She won't be able to resist...unless she has a nut allergy. Then she'll just think you're weird.


You're welcome. :D:D:D
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The sad part is this is probably the best advice so far.
 
PopClick

PopClick

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Going up to a random stranger... that's hard to pull off. I've only seen it done correctly ONE time. What made it "right" was partially the fact that he left her alone after she said no.

Well... he did ask her if she was sure. But that was okay. :D
 
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GRA

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Be yourself.

Be honest.
Be sincere.
Be genuine.
Be a gentleman.

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[ Think: 'scraping, scratching audio sound' - like a record needle being pushed across and off of a platter... ]

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OH - NEVERMIND... :(

I just remembered... :eek:

I am 50 and still single. :eek:

Don't listen to me. ;)

This does not work. :confused:

It never has. :p

This [apparently] is not what women want... :rolleyes:

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