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On the contrary, it would be wrong to have the absence of attraction toward someone of the opposite gender......Well, it wouldn't be terribly wrong, but wrong nonetheless.
And yes, as stated above, we must practice self-control. There is a time for everything, and the time for hanky-panky is after marriage.
And yes, as stated above, we must practice self-control. There is a time for everything, and the time for hanky-panky is after marriage.
S
Your body is created for sexual attraction. That like every other wonderful thing that God Created, satan longs to turn into a perversity and sin. So it is not feeling sexually attracted to a person of the opposite sex that is sinful or wrong, it is bind ing yoruself to them through sexual intercourse when you have no intention of being married to them. Thankfully God wipes that clean when you become a Christian; but for people who accept Christ I am not certain how that whole thing works.
Give that a dating relationship, prior to the insanity of the" modern" era based entirely on the perverse and pedophilic "research" of Dr. Kinsey, was actually a means to determine compatibility and interest between two people with the desire to BECOME MARRIED then it makes no sense to assume that it should be based on sterile feelings and a complete lack of physical attraction. Becasue trust me, if there is not physical attraction or sexual desire between two people the marriage can invariably fail based on that factor alone.
Honestly, if you are eyeing this person as a potential marriage partner however, I would say the more imporatnt question you should be asking yourself is,"are we financially compatible in our desire for success." ROTFLOL! That is actually a greater indicator of success...HA!
Give that a dating relationship, prior to the insanity of the" modern" era based entirely on the perverse and pedophilic "research" of Dr. Kinsey, was actually a means to determine compatibility and interest between two people with the desire to BECOME MARRIED then it makes no sense to assume that it should be based on sterile feelings and a complete lack of physical attraction. Becasue trust me, if there is not physical attraction or sexual desire between two people the marriage can invariably fail based on that factor alone.
Honestly, if you are eyeing this person as a potential marriage partner however, I would say the more imporatnt question you should be asking yourself is,"are we financially compatible in our desire for success." ROTFLOL! That is actually a greater indicator of success...HA!
S
God, since the beginning of time, intended for his creation to be fruitful. Whether we are referring to Adam and Eve, or Noah's sons and their wives. God has always desired that two believers unite in marriage and produce a godly seed, according to the bible.
Without sexual attraction, procreation/reproduction would not only lose its allure, but being fruitful and multiplying may very well become unpopular. God did not create us as asexual beings, but rather, beings who are able to feel, sense and enjoy pleasure.
The times of intimacy between a husband and wife are very private cherishable moments reserved for them alone. Sexual desire is normal, but unhealthy, immoral or ungodly lust, is a desire to possess something through imagination or physical involvement. The bible states clearly that our bodies, are the temple of the Holy Spirit. It also says, that the body was not made for sexual immorality, but for the Lord. So, its not simply the natural, God given desire to have sex, that should cause one to feel that they've sinned, but what occurs in the mind and with our bodies, that we should be watchful for.
Without sexual attraction, procreation/reproduction would not only lose its allure, but being fruitful and multiplying may very well become unpopular. God did not create us as asexual beings, but rather, beings who are able to feel, sense and enjoy pleasure.
The times of intimacy between a husband and wife are very private cherishable moments reserved for them alone. Sexual desire is normal, but unhealthy, immoral or ungodly lust, is a desire to possess something through imagination or physical involvement. The bible states clearly that our bodies, are the temple of the Holy Spirit. It also says, that the body was not made for sexual immorality, but for the Lord. So, its not simply the natural, God given desire to have sex, that should cause one to feel that they've sinned, but what occurs in the mind and with our bodies, that we should be watchful for.
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us cristians are just human to but are morals and the way we do things are different. there is nothing wrong with having feelings like this,it is only natural.having a boyfriend ithink is okay,i think if they were christian and you went to church together and believed in the same things.how do people become married? being in a relationship for a while first then getting engaged? so this is naturally how a relationship starts. i don't believe in being with a person in a sexual way unless i'm in a serious relationship with them, and view to have them as a potential life partner. i know it is hard to resist the temptation in not having sex untill you get married but i think many of us have not? i also think it will be impossable to live your whole life without sinning at least a few times yes? as i say it is your mind,heart,body and soul that knows what it wants, and what is right. i ask the farther of my church on ocasions if i'm really unsure or something is really on my mind.
I will feel sorry for you if you are sexually attracted to someone and they are not sexually attracted to you in return. Makes for a very bad marriage that will lead to a life of sorrow. The apostle Paul says not to worry if you are past the flower of age. It would be interesting to know how many of these people who are telling you to wait waited themselves or are still waiting.
Things to consider are your age. His age. Your experience. His experience. Your reason for wanting sex. His reason for wanting it. Do you even like each other? Any chance of disease? Pregnancy?
Sex is a natural desire made and created by God. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Besides, if the sex is bad, then the relationship is doomed. Move on.
Things to consider are your age. His age. Your experience. His experience. Your reason for wanting sex. His reason for wanting it. Do you even like each other? Any chance of disease? Pregnancy?
Sex is a natural desire made and created by God. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Besides, if the sex is bad, then the relationship is doomed. Move on.
J
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