What is the most important thing to a christian who is single?

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BlessedLovedByGod

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please include your status before you answer this question. thank u! :)
 
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leelee

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Status? erm.

The most important thing to me is growing my relationship with God.
 
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Fighting4Him

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Status, as in relationship status? Single.

I agree with leelee, growing my relationship with God is most important to me. I want to get married, but I know I can't have a good, Christ centered marriage if I don't even have a good relationship with Him.
 

Blain

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I am single and a seeker of god's heart, The way i see it the most important thing- above wisdom and insight, above even eternal life is the love of god. We should let it envelope our hearts and minds and soon we will never be the same
 
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Esarin

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I am single as well.

God is the number one thing in my life. I can talk from experience that being with a nonbeliever just doesn't work... for me at least. I don't want to think it was their intentions to pull me further from God, but it seems to happen little by little. It is very important for a relationship to be blessed by God and how can that happen if they don't believe in him and his word?
 
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Schingle. Me freedom to scherve. Alscho, to schtrengthen zeh bond with me Holy Fah'zha, me Schaviour, Jesus, and alscho zeh Holy Schpirit.



Single. My freedom to serve. Also, to strengthen the bond with my Holy Father, my Saviour, Jesus and also the Holy Spirit.
 
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Theophane

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Staus: single

The most important thing to a Christian who is single is his or her relationship with God. Marital status is irrelevant to this.
 

Markum1972

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Single. Whether single or not, God is always first and foremost. Secondly (for a single person), grooming yourself for a mate. In other words, learning how to treat a mate with love according to the will of God. Of course this is only if you intend on marrying. Otherwise, you put your FULL focus on serving God, like Apostle Paul.
 
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paulr

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Most important thing - Seek His Kingdom and righteousness at all times.
Status - Single
 
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zaoman32

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Status: Single
Most important thing: bacon
 
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STATUS:SINGLE
SHARING THE WORD
 
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Single

The most important thing for me is learning to surrender one's self to God, that will put you at a place where God can use in anyway he wants, because you will make yourself available. This will allow you to mAKE THE best out of the time for which God will want you to be single for and i'f it is his will for you to get married then when you do, it will help you as well as you now life with your partner....such experiences and maturity eliminators selfishness and immaturity..
 
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Daphy_D

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Studying the word of God to help one grow spiritually...and *this is my opinion* Purity...being true to yourself
 
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LorHope

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The most important thing to me, is what my Dad always taught me to want in my future boyfriend/husband and so on. My Dad said, the man must love God more than you. And he must love me, more than anyone. That is what is important to me. =)
 

seoulsearch

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Status: At Least Partially In My Right Mind. Or, maybe in my Left Mind, depending on the day.

And no, I don't have a significant other of any type.

I know the answer we're all "supposed" to give is that the most important thing to us is God and sharing His Word... and I'm not knocking that at all, of course.

It's just that after many years of living that way... To be completely honest, I'm tired.

And the most important thing to me, God willing I have another day, is mere survival, because I do often feel I'm at the end of the rope (and the rope feels more like a piece of dental floss.)
 
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BlessedLovedByGod

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I know exactly what went wrong to the guys that I dated. I did not seek God.
Bad company corrupts. They are not christians..Hopefully I meet someone who can care enough for fellow christian believer to help me direct my paths. And vice versa.
Please pray for me to seek more him and less of me. I always fail on this one. One of the reasons why I stopped talking with guys in my country. I gave up having a christian boy friend. I just wanted to make friends. May God Bless me on this one.
 
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Theophane

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The most important thing to me, is what my Dad always taught me to want in my future boyfriend/husband and so on. My Dad said, the man must love God more than you. And he must love me, more than anyone. That is what is important to me. =)
You've been blessed with a good father, LorHope. :)
 

rachelsedge

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Status: Single

Unselfish answer: My relationship with God, and myself as a person. There are areas that I need changed by God, in my heart. I want to grow close with Him, first, before I meet someone to be my future husband. Seeking Him will always be important to me, whether I'm single or not.

Selfish answer: My time/independence. Obviously, I know that when I am in a relationship, and later down the road have a family, that I will enjoy time with them. But where I'm at right now, my time is all my own, and I like that.
 
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arwen83

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Status: Single

Beginning to think that this will be my life. Remain single, travel, write, meet people, experience stuff that I would not have the freedom to do if I had a family. Based upon what I know about myself, I almost wonder if it will be better that I remain single. And that maybe family life isn't suitable for me.