do u think god would bring us a mate that we are not physically attracted to

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grace

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I have often said that, Someone can be VERY physically attractive (by societys standards)...yet have a very ugly heart..and their good looks can not make up for what their heart is lacking. BUT, they can be very average (by societys standards)...yet have an amazing heart and that amazing heart covers many things.

I also feel...that to me...BOTTOM LINE, whomever I am with...I have to be able to look at them, and with everything I am be able to say..you are the best person I know. If I can do that...I will already be attracted to all facets of that person.
 

DinoDillinger

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Dillinger it would be hard to be married to someone your not attracted to, so just because women may not be the visual ones here, i feel its necessary to be attracted to the one your going to date or be married to. I have talked to alot of guys who were very attractive but the more i got to know them the less attractive they became, and ive talked to some guys that were not attractive at all, but there personalities made them very very attractive. I find that the unattractive men are more with it and have much more personality than the attractive men do...
Leilaii425, it sounds like you copied me!

No matter who you marry, they wont always be physically attractive. But if you truly love someone, I believe they will be beautiful in your eyes.
 
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Leilaii425

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Leilaii425, it sounds like you copied me!

No matter who you marry, they wont always be physically attractive. But if you truly love someone, I believe they will be beautiful in your eyes.

pfft... you only WISH i copied you...
 
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Leilaii425

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Actually, I wish i had so much to say that I could surpass 200 posts in under 10 days.

...... i wish my name was something akin to a dinosaur.. but we dont all get what we want do we.
 

DinoDillinger

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...... i wish my name was something akin to a dinosaur.. but we dont all get what we want do we.
Just so you know, it's from the flintstones. Which was a dinosaur but not pronounced like the dino in dinosaur. that just doesn't make sense.
 
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Leilaii425

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Just so you know, it's from the flintstones. Which was a dinosaur but not pronounced like the dino in dinosaur. that just doesn't make sense.

i never watched the flinstones, nor any other cartoon besides fragglerocks and the carebears. I was saying that simply because i wish my actual name had the word dinosaur in it, but thank you for that information, im sure i can relay that back to anyone else i see that makes the same mistake i did.
 

DinoDillinger

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i never watched the flinstones, nor any other cartoon besides fragglerocks and the carebears. I was saying that simply because i wish my actual name had the word dinosaur in it, but thank you for that information, im sure i can relay that back to anyone else i see that makes the same mistake i did.
Well thank you, but I wouldn't tell anyone that I watched the carebears if I were you.

some things are best left unsaid.
 
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Leilaii425

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OHH DONT YOU WORRY, IM NOT GONNA TELL ANYONE I WATCHED THE CAREBEARS WHEN I WAS 4 YEARS OLD.. THAT COULD BE VERY AWKWARD
 

DinoDillinger

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OHH DONT YOU WORRY, IM NOT GONNA TELL ANYONE I WATCHED THE CAREBEARS WHEN I WAS 4 YEARS OLD.. THAT COULD BE VERY AWKWARD
See now just qouting this I'm worried people will think I watched the carebears when I was four.
 
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Leilaii425

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See now just qouting this I'm worried people will think I watched the carebears when I was four.

you could only be honored if everyone here thought you watched the carebears! better than the flinstones im sure
 

DinoDillinger

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you could only be honored if everyone here thought you watched the carebears! better than the flinstones im sure
Ha!!

um yea....then everyone's respect would skyrocket further when I admitted to playing with barbi dolls as a child.

I'm not sure you have my best interests at heart.
 
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Leilaii425

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Ha!!

um yea....then everyone's respect would skyrocket further when I admitted to playing with barbi dolls as a child.

I'm not sure you have my best interests at heart.

im shocked you would think that of me! We have been best friends for the past 15 minutes and you think i wouldnt have your best intrest at heart, i dont want you to admit you played barbies while you watched the flinstones, i just simply want you to admit CAREBEARS ARE BETTER
 

DinoDillinger

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im shocked you would think that of me! We have been best friends for the past 15 minutes and you think i wouldnt have your best intrest at heart, i dont want you to admit you played barbies while you watched the flinstones, i just simply want you to admit CAREBEARS ARE BETTER
You haven't even seen the Flintstones, I have seen bits and pieces of carebears.

I would rather sit through a Barney marathon!
 
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Leilaii425

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You haven't even seen the Flintstones, I have seen bits and pieces of carebears.

I would rather sit through a Barney marathon!

im glaring at you right now! barney! you would rather watch barney!!!! I have seen enough of the flinstones to know their rediculas.. bunch of cavemen drivin around in a car with their feet... and excuse me young man... but how would you dont like the carebears if you havent ever SEEEEEEEEEN IT
 

DinoDillinger

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im glaring at you right now! barney! you would rather watch barney!!!! I have seen enough of the flinstones to know their rediculas.. bunch of cavemen drivin around in a car with their feet... and excuse me young man... but how would you dont like the carebears if you havent ever SEEEEEEEEEN IT
I've heard it, the singing ugggh.
 

DinoDillinger

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admit it! you have seeeeeeeeen the devine carebears! you used to sing along and say CARE BEAR STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARE
wow that brings back memories, I'm pushing them back down to that place where you keep childhood embarrasements and akward blind date memories.
 
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Leilaii425

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wow that brings back memories, I'm pushing them back down to that place where you keep childhood embarrasements and akward blind date memories.

please.. dont talk about blind date memories, i finally got the screaming in my head to stop!!! WHY WAS HE CRYING... WHY WAS HE YELLING HE WAS A LOSER AND CRYING WWHHHHHHHHYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!! oooohhh oops im sorry.
 

DinoDillinger

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please.. dont talk about blind date memories, i finally got the screaming in my head to stop!!! WHY WAS HE CRYING... WHY WAS HE YELLING HE WAS A LOSER AND CRYING WWHHHHHHHHYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!! oooohhh oops im sorry.
It could have something to do with being on a blind date in the first place. Usually when friends set you up, it's because they are worried about you.