- Loves the Lord our God with all his heart, mind, soul, and strength
- Treats my friends and family with respect
- Has a good sense of humor. Like JimJimmers said, it's not necessarily that they're always funny, but that they appreciate humor. I also appreciate someone who can make me laugh, though to be honest it's not that hard to do that.
Along with that, it'd be great if he doesn't get tired of my laughing...I'm not twirling-my-hair giggly, but I am easily amused.
- Understands my introverted qualities. For example, don't push me to talk if I'm not ready. Trust me, I will eventually talk when I've had time to think things over, and I need my alone time. Though, sometimes when I cry I want a hug and not to be by myself.
- Appreciates nature/God's creation
- Deep thinker. I ask a lot of questions and like deep discussions, so if he doesn't, that might be a problem. Along those lines, he needs to be a spiritual leader, especially since many of my questions/deep discussions are theological.
- Good smile/eyes. The smile always gets me.
- Likes car rides with the windows down and music going loud
- Is patient. I can be fickle and weird sometimes; I can be very simple or very complex
- Has a few dents in his armor, meaning that he's fought some battles in his life. I've fought many in mine, and if he's lead a cozy, comfortable life with few battles, I'm not sure I'd be able to connect on that level.
That's way more in depth that I intended. Now I feel picky. Oh well. I gotta be somewhat picky if I'm going to share my life with them for the rest of my days.