81 Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend.

[Liamson]

Questions like the following could be fun to ask your boyfriend:

1. What was your first impression of me?
2. What is your idea of a perfect house?
3. How many times have you been in love?
4. How pretty do you think XXX is?
5. What are the qualities you like in me most?
6. What are the qualities you dislike in me most?
7. What do you think about marriage?
8. What do you think about a live in relationship?
9. Do you hate your boss? Why?
10. Where would you go for your dream holiday?
11. What’s the craziest thing you have done in your life?
12. Who is the one person in your family you cannot stand?
13. What is the most embarrassing thing you have done in your life?
14. What was your first date like? Where did you go?
15. If you won the lottery, what would you do with your money?
16. If your house caught fire and you could only take one thing and run out, what would it be?
17. Who are you closer to, your mom or dad? Why?
18. If you came across a magic lamp and had three wishes to make, what would they be?
19. Are you addicted to anything?
20. What is the one thing about yourself that you hate the most?
21. Do you believe in superstitious things?
22. Are you afraid of ghosts?
23. Who is your role model?
24. Do you like children?
25. Describe the worst date you’ve been on.
26. What are your views on religion?
27. What would you change about yourself if given a chance?
28. What is your dream job?
29. What is the most adventurous thing you have done?
30. What is the most expensive thing you have bought for yourself?
31. What is the most expensive thing you have bought for someone else?
32. What has been your craziest Dream?
33. What would you do if your best friend told you I was bad for you?
34. What is the worst thing you ever did to a friend?
35. What is the nicest thing you ever did for a friend?
36. How much money do you dream of having?
37. Which car would you like to own?
38. How often do you lie?
39. Who is your favorite celebrity?
40. Who is your most hated celebrity?
41. Tell me something about yourself that no one knows.
42. What was your most memorable event growing up?
43. Do you like hunting?
44. Would you like to keep a dog, if yes, what would you name it?
45. If a great looking girl came up to you while I was there, what would your reaction be?
46. Who is your childhood hero?
47. When did you have your first crush?
48. Have you ever liked a teacher?
49. Do you consider yourself a happy person?
50. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat?
51. Would you like to go to the moon?
52. Do you believe in the after life?
53. How special a memory is your first love to you?
54. Do you like being drunk?
55. When did you start drinking?
56. Have you ever stolen something?
57. What was the craziest dare you were ever given?
58. How old were you when you started dating?
59. Do you ever dream of winning a Nobel Prize? If yes, for what?
60. What word first comes to your mind when asked to describe me?
61. What word first comes to your mind when asked to describe yourself?
62. Which animal would you like to be?
63. Who is your favorite cartoon character?
64. Do you believe in God?
65. DO you believe in Vampires?
66. Were you popular in High School?
67. Do you like old people or do you think they are a nuisance?
68. Have you ever committed a crime?
69. Have you ever said, “I love you” and not meant it?
70. Have your ever driven drunk?
71. What was the craziest party you’ve ever been to like?
72. Do you like my friends?
73. Do you believe in plans to save the World in some way?
74. Have you ever been jealous of either of your siblings?
75. Have you ever been jealous of your best friend?
76. Do you believe that a girl should always earn less than her man?
77. Which super power would you most like to have?
78. Do you believe in soul mates?
79. Do you believe in love at first sight?
80. What do your friends think of me?
81. Have you ever liked your one of your best friend’s girlfriends?



I don't expect anyone to try and fill this out but, It is good to ask good questions that are not easy to answer. I think we cannot afford to skim, be shallow, or merely touch upon the deeper issues of what is going to make or break a relationship.

Even the way people dodge touchy questions can be a sign that there is something else going on.

For some questions there are no simple answers but getting the conversation started can be hard without a good spark.

 

[Chrissy77]

Yikes! Maybe you should clarify at what point in our relationship should we ask these questions.

All you men on CC contemplating dating me, you better read through the list and prepare your written essay.

Drat!!! There went my hope of ensnaring myself a man on CC!!!!

 

[MidniteWelder]

Haha Liamson,
I think I'd be all like...
"Let's talk about this over a nice day while we're Salmon fishing at the River
No no, not on the way, gotta wait till the poles are cast and we're already fishin
Here you get the special lure ZZZZZIIIING, ok now what were you sayin"

 

[Chrissy77]

Ahhh someone doesn't like 50 questions lol.

 

[Liamson]

Pfft, I don't like 50 questions or dates feeling like interviews but, there are questions that people simply fail to ask and they wind up being deal breakers.


I wanted to put this here so people could see and think about what to ask and how to ask it.


Not so that she can pull this out and beat a guy over the head with it. lol.

 

[Relena7]

I know most of the answers to these with my BF.

@Chrissy, I suspect these are good questions to ask one at a time over many weeks or months, starting from the least heavy topics. There is no right or wrong point in a relationship for em cause everyone is different. They make good conversation topics too.

 

[Loveneverfails]

Good questions. I managed to find out the answers to a good majority of these questions long before my bf and I entered into an exclusive relationship. It was important to me to find out the answers to some of these before even considering this guy as potential marriage material. To top it off, I got all this information directly from him without even asking him questions. I'm just a sneaky conversationalist and also highly observant. Muahaha. >:]

 

[Nautilus]

Im up for answering all those, I just dont know who is up for reading them all...lol

 

[Relena7]

Alternate thread title:
"81 ways to make the man you've only just officially started a relationship with squirm uncomfortably in his seat."

lol

 

[SparkleEyes]

I think it is critical to ask questions of the guy/gal you are seeing in order to get to know them. Speaking from experience, you want as much disclosure BEFORE marriage as you can get.

HOWEVER, a few of these questions are rather silly. For example, #4 "How pretty do you think Xxxx is?" I don't care if he thinks Jennifer Aniston is pretty. I am not going to ask him...if he tells me who he thinks is good looking, that is fine.

 

[Nautilus]

See when he said how pretty do you think XXX is I though he meant porn and I was like than an awkwardly worded question...your way of looking at it makes more sense.

 

[Fenner]

82 Do you put the toilet seat down?

 

[arwen83]

Clearly Liamson, you and I have different definitions of 'fun'

 

[Liamson]

if you google 81 questions You'll see that I cut and pasted this from another website.


If on a 1st or 2nd date someone sat down and asked me this, I would feel very awkward. And I suppose a lot of what I would say might be construed as a deal breaker or something. Context would be necessary

 

[Nautilus]

82 Do you put the toilet seat down?

I don't know do you put it up for us when you're done? lol

 

[MissCris]

I don't know do you put it up for us when you're done? lol

Bahaha my husband has asked me this...and...I might've glared at him for a while until he agreed that he should put the seat down...

(he totally doesn't, and I MIGHT have fallen in a couple times...he says, "What kind of person doesn't look where they're sitting?"...then I have to glare some more...oh man, it'd be so much easier if men would just...get their own bathroom...haha)

 

[maxwel]

81 Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Wow... I don't even have a boyfriend.

 

[Ariel82]

some of those questions you can gather your own answers without ever asking them outloud:

how often do you lie?

how do you know their answer isn't a lie?

answers to questions I think people should get before getting married are:

1. do you believe in God? how often do you attend church? do you read your Bible? will you be willing to pray with me daily?

2. what are your views on marriage and commitment? is it life long? is it based upon the Bible?

3. what is your relationship with your family and friends?

4. how do you handle people you don't like? are you able to work in a group with a person you don't like on a project?

5. how do you handle fights and disagreements with ME? can you read nonverbal signals of when I'm mad? do you care enough to learn to communicate with me?

6. What are your feelings on kids? how would you want to raise them? homeschooling/public school? discipline? breast feeding, etc.

7. how do you plan to run your household? job? rules? division of labor? etc.

ok...........i wished i could sleep now lol.

i know there are more then one question but i put them in categories and sub questions. people will likely change them but you get the idea.
1. God 2. you and me relationship 3. family relationship questions 4. work/associates 5. fights 6. kids 7. daily routine stuff.
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[Donkeyfish07]

lol....did you create the questions and type them out yourself? I bet that took a long time to put together.

 

[Descyple]

On a first date, I would want a woman to ask me only one question............. Paper or plastic? (which of course means "After we finish our MacDonald's Happy Meals, do you want to throw up in a paper bag or a plastic bag?").

Good times!!!