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I am writing this thread because I think that we all need to take a moment. Sometimes we crave a romantic relationship with someone special. We imagine what they would be like. Kind, intelligent, unique, creative, intuitive- whatever you dream. We think about how we would go places with them, hug, watch movies with, have someone to talk to, arms to hold you. But we have to decide if this is something that we want, or if it's something someone deserves. Should we be in a relationship because we want something or because someone deserves it? We all can confirm that a relationship is about them. A relationship is about being selfless. We should not do things because it makes us feel good, but because it makes someone else feel good. Now we've come back to why I am writing about this topic. So many of us are yearning for a relationship with someone that we have never met. Does this mean that maybe it is about... us? Now, it is good to want to love, protect, and support someone, but the thesis of this post should not be overlooked. Are we feeling lonely, or are we feeling selfish? Are we looking for a relationship so that we can be somebody? Could we do more to exude selflessness? Are our motives as right as we think they are? This thread is not here to put you on the spot, to judge you, to belittle you, or to challenge you. It is simply to get us to think about what real reasons there are behind feeling "lonely." Is this an emptiness that could be filled by God and doing his works? Are we lonely, or are we selfish?