I feel i will never find love.....advice?

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Grizz

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Im 19 and was currently involved in a long term relationship that ended about 8 months ago. It ended because we realized we weren't compatible anymore and ever since then i felt like i would never find love again. I've been waiting for god to send me the girl i am meant to spend my life with but after all the time waiting i am feeling hopeless. If anyone has any advice on what to do or words that will help me feel better please leave a message
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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You're 19, chill. You have like 60 years to find someone.
 
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Iokua08

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Haha, bro, your only 19 years old just like me! You have recently ended a long term relationship, so its safe to say that you may just be having withdrawals from not having a companion. In fact, don't expect to find that one right away, everything is in God's time, and he will bless you with the "ONE" when he feels you are truly ready. You have your entire life ahead of you, so lets not rush the process. Sounds like something another chatter on here brought up. Kakashi threaded a topic about BF/GF idol worship. To sum it all up, young people nowadays are looking for the person that they think will be compatible for them, and in the process are just plain distracted from what your true needs are. I suggest that you stop being concerned about who that girl will be, don't focus all your attention on it and spread the attention to other parts of your life. Remember that God works in mysterious ways, and most times its when we least expect it. Just Keep your head up!
Josh
 
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Grizz

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Ya you guys are right, im talking as if im 50 and my life is almost over. i have my whole life to to find the "one". i think im just hurting, and missing my ex gf and i need prayer to get over it, thanks for the advise
 
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nix

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"there is more God has for us during a season of singleness than just learning the art of misery and impatience" -saving my first kiss by lisa velthouse..
 
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IceAngel

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You will find the one meant for you. Never doubt what the lord is always there for you. He does things in his own time
 
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Janwaz

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hey believe in yourself that you will find someone :) God always has his ways
 
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heartsong

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I will pray for you...
in the meantime you could try pouring yourself into some kind of service...I have found that putting the focus on someone else and serving them helps...
 
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Saved_With_Purpose

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Alright first off brosef. . .The fact that your 19 and ended the relationship like 8 months ago and it was a long term relationship means you more than likely started at 16. . .yeah you've got to be careful cuz unless you are mature enough to get into a relationship and are ready for MARRIAGE then you should stay out of the relationship realm. And that goes for everyone else. And everyone else seemed to pin the tail on the donkey on this subject. You have lots of time man. . .I like what heartsong had to say. Try to serve in some way possible. . .the more time you spend with God will lessen you being lonely. Now you can't get away from it completely, but if you get into a relationship what makes you think your never going to be lonely? Just trying to put it in a different perspective on it for ya. Also what is your schooling like right now? I mean if you do get into a relationship and get married then you deside to go back to school you'll just have to juggle your relationship with God, job, spending time on your wife, class time, homework, kids, (if you have them) and then you can spend time on yourself. Now this is extremely broad and more than likely won't happen, but it so happens that i'm bored and my mom tells me this every time I miss class or complain about going to school. Lol. So yeah many blessings to you man and know that God WILL take care of you. :)
 
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