Interracial relationships;the bold step in our time

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Bukola

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It is a great achievement to have a godly successful relationship,it takes a lot of work and sacrifices.However thinking of interracial relationships double work,double sacrifices,doubt,resume,tradition,stereotypes,biblical supports seeming hazy,what do u think are its strength,weaknesses,threats, opportunities and thriving factors in our age.
 
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ServantStrike

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Not sure what you mean about biblical support seems hazy.

Biblically, I have never seen any passage that can be used against interracial marriage. Societally, perhaps it depends on the society, but I think many have made steps towards acceptance, and in many cases nearly complete acceptance. There will always be a few people who will just not accept it, but at least here where I live it doesn't seem to be the big deal it was 30 years ago.
 

PennEd

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As a youngster I remember thinking it shocking if a black and a white were together.By my 20s I had completely, 100% changed my mind on this issue,realizing that there is only one race. If it wasn't skin color it would be nationality, if not nationality it would be region, or height or if one wore glasses... One of Satan's most potent weapons is to try and divide people any way he can. I'm much more concerned about a believer marrying a non-believer.
 

DuchessAimee

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I'm bi-racial (tri if you count Hebrew), and I know several people who are mixed. Where I'm from it's not a big deal to be with someone who is of another race.
 
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Shouryu

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Considering that I am half Asian, and have never been in a relationship with an Asian, technically all my relationships have been interracial, and no one batted an eyelash.

If the two people involved don't have an issue, then there is no issue.
 
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ServantStrike

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Well the OP is from Nigeria.

Perhaps inter racial relationships there are the equivalent of gay marriage here in the US.
 
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Catlynn

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Been there, done that, got the baby. Ain't no thang. :p Well, the interracial part anyway.
 
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Ugly

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In America, generally speaking, mix race dating is not an issue. True, there are always those who have to go against something. But generally those who are against it come from a racist point of view to begin with. And there is nothing biblical to infer that mixing races is wrong. In fact the bible says 'we are all one in Christ'.
 
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DragonSlayer

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We were all literally one race in the beginning right after Adam and Eve.
We will be literally one race again right after the first resurrection,
at the physical and spiritual image of the New Adam : Jesus-Christ !
 
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There is nothing in the bible against interracial marriage. The only reason some still aren't accepting of it yet is because they feel the children of mixed race will have a hard time finding place in society. My grandmother believes that. But she's not racist. I think interracial marriages are healthy.
 

Pipp

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I've actually been thinking about this subject quite a bit lately. I see no Biblical issue against it , but a lot of people I know do not accept it . If you searched you ancestors out real good you would see that we are all a mixture of all kinds of people. Finding someone with the same exact background would be impossible.
 

maxwel

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I've actually been thinking about this subject quite a bit lately. I see no Biblical issue against it , but a lot of people I know do not accept it . If you searched you ancestors out real good you would see that we are all a mixture of all kinds of people. Finding someone with the same exact background would be impossible.
I agree.
It's really taken some time... but I'm finally starting to like earth girls.

: )
 
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Conotocarious

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It is not as taboo as it once was here. For good reason, by and large.

I find the opposite extreme alarming. Mixed dating is not hailed as morally good or bad in the Bible.
 

Pipp

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Maxwel may I be the first to tell you.... EARTH GIRLS ARE CRAZY !
With that being said. . Good luck sir :)
 
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Ugly

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Maxwel may I be the first to tell you.... EARTH GIRLS ARE CRAZY !
With that being said. . Good luck sir :)
That made me think of an old movie....
 

Pipp

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Ohhhh I know exactly what you're thinking... it just hit me lol
 
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Relena7

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My mom is white, my dad is Mexican. It took me years before I was even aware that my parents were "interracial". To me they were just my parents.

I'm so used to seeing mixed races date I don't even think about it.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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I grew up around all nationalities of people..all kinds of languages spoken...every skin color you can imagine,and I loved it! I was never raised racist,and I find it beyond laughable when I hear any person who claims to be a Son or Daughter of The Most High Living God make racial comments or stereotypes,or say that people of a different skin color are wrong for dating or being married. Unless of course they own a bible that specifically says:"Do unto other's as you would have them do unto you,unless of course they are of a different skin color,then all bets are off."
 

Loveneverfails

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Across the globe, there are numerous ethnic backgrounds represented, but we are all of one race: human.

Bi-ethnic marriages are not as much of a "bold step" in some developed western countries such as America, where a wide variety of ethnic peoples coexist. I can see how and why these types of relationships are seen as taboo in less developed countries, where the vast majority of people are of the same ethnicity.

Despite some people truly having deep-set prejudices against people of particular skin colors, I believe the potential for marriage problems in these situations come from a difference in culture, not "race". It is quite possible for two white people to come from completely opposing cultures and have nothing in common, and therefore have a more difficult experience if they were to marry.

Marriage is hard regardless of whom you marry, but it's true that people from extremely different cultures may face more challenges along the way, especially if they do not have an open mind and a selfless heart. That said, if both people have a right attitude, desire to learn and embrace the culture of their spouse, and have the support of their loved ones, a bi-ethnic marriage can actually be quite a beautiful thing.

My parents are from two completely different worlds. They have had many struggles when it comes to cultural differences, but they have also had many triumphs that are unique to multi-cultural marriages. I myself am Filipino-American, and I'm dating a young man who was born and raised in Asia, and we have already encountered some challenges (as well as some exciting and fun blessings!) that would probably not exist if he and his family were born in America.

I think it all depends on the hearts and attitudes of the individuals. :)
 

Cee

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Lots of people believe the Song of Solomon was about an interracial relationship...