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Have you ever tried to take a relationship into your own control, thinking that you could do something that was not what God wanted but that was still OK because it felt right ?
What did you do ! Was it exciting ? Was it coool ? (Let's not get toooo personal here, huh )
Did you start to quit going to church with your boyfriend/girlfriend and things turned sour?
Did you begin to compromise on 'bases' you would go to?
Did you just gloss over the fact they told you that they 'were a Christian but church wasn't that important to them?
Did they say things that affected your walk with Christ, maybe, attacked you, even, but you just brushed those thoughts aside because you REALLY, REALLY liked them ?
What happened ?
Was it a good or a bad thing, you think, looking back, that you took control of a relationship in a manner you felt it should go?
I'm going to take this thread a step further and, maybe, I should make a different thread.......
Do you think that Christ should be in total control of a man and woman married relationship ONLY, or, for single folks seeing each other in a relationship, does that same rule of thumb apply, guy is to be submitted to by girl?
We know, per Scripture, that Christ is head of the church and of man, and, that man is head of the woman; that's what Ephesians 5 says. Wife is to submit to husband IN EVERYTHING.
Anyhoo, but, what do you think? Oh, and, BOTH of the wed ones should have a deep appreciation and respect, or, 'reverence,' for Christ in the relationship? I think that means, in how they treat each other, the understanding of being respectful and not demanding. So should singles too have that same 'reverence' of Christ in their relationship? Of course, we know that answer. But, WHAT about to each other, what level of respect, submission is to be there, if any, in your mind?
Does it seem unfair that a guy and gal liking each other should treat each other with such a serious respect and admiration and that the girlfriend, as long as she goes out with Him, should submit to Him ?
I'm JUST asking this question.
Now, it's your turn to get TITANIC on me, fire away! Fire away !
What did you do ! Was it exciting ? Was it coool ? (Let's not get toooo personal here, huh )
Did you start to quit going to church with your boyfriend/girlfriend and things turned sour?
Did you begin to compromise on 'bases' you would go to?
Did you just gloss over the fact they told you that they 'were a Christian but church wasn't that important to them?
Did they say things that affected your walk with Christ, maybe, attacked you, even, but you just brushed those thoughts aside because you REALLY, REALLY liked them ?
What happened ?
Was it a good or a bad thing, you think, looking back, that you took control of a relationship in a manner you felt it should go?
I'm going to take this thread a step further and, maybe, I should make a different thread.......
Do you think that Christ should be in total control of a man and woman married relationship ONLY, or, for single folks seeing each other in a relationship, does that same rule of thumb apply, guy is to be submitted to by girl?
We know, per Scripture, that Christ is head of the church and of man, and, that man is head of the woman; that's what Ephesians 5 says. Wife is to submit to husband IN EVERYTHING.
Anyhoo, but, what do you think? Oh, and, BOTH of the wed ones should have a deep appreciation and respect, or, 'reverence,' for Christ in the relationship? I think that means, in how they treat each other, the understanding of being respectful and not demanding. So should singles too have that same 'reverence' of Christ in their relationship? Of course, we know that answer. But, WHAT about to each other, what level of respect, submission is to be there, if any, in your mind?
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing[SUP]b[/SUP] her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30for we are members of his body. 31“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[SUP]c[/SUP] 32This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing[SUP]b[/SUP] her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30for we are members of his body. 31“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[SUP]c[/SUP] 32This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Does it seem unfair that a guy and gal liking each other should treat each other with such a serious respect and admiration and that the girlfriend, as long as she goes out with Him, should submit to Him ?
I'm JUST asking this question.
Now, it's your turn to get TITANIC on me, fire away! Fire away !