why can't i find a boyfriend? what's wrong with me?

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Nov 18, 2009
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i haven't had a boyfriend since very early this year. but no other boys seem to like me. am i really that hideous? :(
 
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FixYourWeave

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First i must say, im sure your not hideous! Also your only 13 years old! What is a 13 year old doing with a boyfriend in the first place. I really dont think you need one, your to young.
 

eugenius

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I remember you said somewhere that you are shy and sweet. Stay that way and you will make some guy very happy in a few years. I wish there were any shy sweet smart girls left.

Don't worry about it at such a young age. Kids are pressured to date so early now a days. Its wrong.
 
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voiceoftruth

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I havnt had a BF in 4 and half years and you know what its the bets thing ever for me. I Got lots of great guy friends. i think i am still to young for a boyfriend anyways. But i know you are probably to young as well. I dont agree with anything to do with age as being to young but its maturity level.
Maybe your not ready for a boyfriend. God has so many plans for you right now as a single person. I am learning to grow by myself as a single person before i put a guy in my life that is more then a friend. Anyways if you ever wanna talk I am willing to listen I will pray for you alright. God bless you
 
Nov 18, 2009
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thanks. maybe you're right. i have lots of guy friends. i should just live my life and not worry about dating. :)
 
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kiwi_OT

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i haven't had a boyfriend since very early this year. but no other boys seem to like me. am i really that hideous? :(
You and Dothackzero should hook up lol. you both talk about the same stuff

And another thing - your 13 years old!! You should be focusing on school, making friends and building a relationship with Jesus. Your going through puberty so your hormones are out of wack and your probably a little boy crazy - but gosh! Love yourself first aye? Learn to depend on God and your own attitude for reinforcing your own healthy sense of beauty not boys! 13 year old boys dont know how to recognise the beauty that you have in the Lord so just leave off relationships til your 16 at least. Hang out with them, even flirt if you want to but dont depend on them for your happiness.
 
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CurlyGirlGrace

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thanks. maybe you're right. i have lots of guy friends. i should just live my life and not worry about dating.
Heck yes! Don't worry about dating. Life isn't about finding Mr. Right but about letting God change us into Miss. Right. And you know what...even if Miss right never gets a boyfriend that doesn't make her worth ANY less. Not an ounce. Life is not about finding some guy but about living for God's glory and let me tell you...when we jump into the Christian life and start trying to live with God's will in mind rather than our own (which usually includes some rich hottie) then life starts to pick up pace and fulfill those deep desires we thought only a man could fill. And a lot of times, once we have matured and become strong women of faith God will bring a wonderful man into our lives. Bottom line though...even if he doesn't do that, we need to learn to be okay with being single because having romance and a mate is not all that this life is about. It shouldn't be our number one goal. our number one goal should be wrapped around serving and glorifying God. Hope that helps some.

Also I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19 and I am sooooo glad I waited. Dating can bring a lot of heartbreak into your life.
 
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sweet_eyes

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honey, i am 23 and have never had a bf or even been on a date for that matter. I know God will send you someone when the time is right.