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coolgirl

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Hello my name is coolgirl and I'm curious as to why people in this world Christian non Christian think sex is everything! And y I have such a impossible time finding someone for myself. Is it the truck driver thing or me wanting to be a nation wide pastor. I was talking to someone on here thought he was a wonderful man come to find out after I went digging for truth this man is married and also a pastor LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE! how insane can one get? Entirely crazy and insane. Ans yes I am street smart and very bible smart. Sorry if I'm ranting I'm just mad
 
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It's definitely not you because this sort of thing happens to all kinds of girls, a lot by the sounds of it. Humanities sex instinct has really gone off the rails in the past century or so. It's become so publicly broadcast and showcased in movies and TV as a sign of value and health. I once heard someone explain it very well with an analogy. He said he was watching some show like American Idol, and after an hour of hearing people audition, he thought to himself, "What song would I do for an audition?". He had never been interested in singing before in his life, but after watching a show for an hour, he realized that he was starting to want what they were selling, the fame, the spotlight. The same thing is done with sex, but everywhere. And now that we have the internet pornography has become so prevalent, and yet at the same time completely hidden. It is horribly easy to access and equally as easy to hide. Without God, people do whatever they can get away with.
 

coolgirl

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And I agree and it is insanity by far. What makes me sick is this dude said he was a preacher a bishop rofl how can that be when thinking with wrong area! Either way God has major plans for me
 

Fenner

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I'm sorry coolgirl that really stinks. I would be really careful on the internet, people can hide their true selves very easily. Unless of course you go to Christian Mingle and meet someone in your area that you can meet face to face or something. The whole internet dating thing scares me.
 
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Hello my name is coolgirl and I'm curious as to why people in this world Christian non Christian think sex is everything! And y I have such a impossible time finding someone for myself. Is it the truck driver thing or me wanting to be a nation wide pastor. I was talking to someone on here thought he was a wonderful man come to find out after I went digging for truth this man is married and also a pastor LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE! how insane can one get? Entirely crazy and insane. Ans yes I am street smart and very bible smart. Sorry if I'm ranting I'm just mad
Well, maybe another truck driver that shares your convictions?
 

coolgirl

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A truck driver is what I seek but I am not looking for liers nor someone that thinks with wrong area
 
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You might let BananaPie or another moderator know about the married guy who was misrepresenting himself. :( It's a sad world.
 

coolgirl

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I do not know how to do that
 
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Oh my. Coolgirl, you may want to read the "Catfish" thread in Singles Forum.
I'm sorry their vile behavior pops up at this Christian website once in awhile.

You are welcome to report evidence, and the CC Admin Team and mods are pretty honest and thorough in keeping this site tidy & vacuumed. :D

In the meantime, may you enjoy your stay on CC.
 

coolgirl

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I've been coming here on and off since I was a teenager. But Plp like this keep me from coming back!
 

Jilly81

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CoolGirl, there will be people like the man you talked to living on this planet until the Judgement Day. Even one of the apostles betrayed Jesus. If one specifically called by the Master fell, we can't expect those abiding in our times to be different. Pray for better discernment, and report the wolves (copy/paste what they say to BananaPie or one of the other moderators in private message). These people are everywhere; instead of hiding from them, we have to simply kick them out, whether it's on this site, or in a physical church. If you want to be a nation-wide pastor, you'll have to learn to deal with these people.
 
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coolgirl

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Oh trust me I no and thank you
 
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Ugly

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I've been coming here on and off since I was a teenager. But Plp like this keep me from coming back!
If people like that keep you from coming here, then you're going to have a hard time in life, even offline. Because people like that are everywhere.

Perhaps spend less time focusing on finding a man, and instead just life your life and wait and see who you meet. Man people waste their lives striving to find a mate, and they watch their life go by, doing nothing, enjoying nothing, thinking 'if only i had someone to make me happy'. But if you aren't happy in your life single, you won't be happy married either. You'll just bring your misery into your marriage.
 

jitterbug

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I'm sorry to hear that Coolgirl. Unfortunately this world is full of that. Most people here are genuine people though. I'd hate to see the actions of one individual stop your from enjoying your time here with the good crowd. May God bless you today girl.
 

Oncefallen

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I've been coming here on and off since I was a teenager. But Plp like this keep me from coming back!
We do our best to keep this site clean of this kind of trash. Unfortunately some of them stay around much longer than they should because people either choose to not report them, or fail to provide the needed evidence to substantiate their accusations.
 

coolgirl

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I don't play games and I myself is not about not Godly things
 
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A truck driver is what I seek but I am not looking for liers nor someone that thinks with wrong area
My wife and I shared interests; the best thing of all is to be able to read the Bible together and pray. This is a such an important thing to keep in mind when considering marriage.

Blessings.