Use Singleness to Spend More time with God

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EMT-NC

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most folks dont know me but im calvin 40 years old been single all my life never been married no kids but here is what bugging me inside concerning the single issue


why is it that every time i try to talk to someone thru online dating service that i get put on the back burner when i tell them my weight they seem to push me aside see im overweight 350 plus right now does this have a impact on trying to find a friend in someone Yes it seems too


being overweight is not healthy that is why im trying to make some eating habits changed to where i eat less and not much eating at restaurants as i use too

i sing bass in a southern gospel ministry and sometimes that is a task in itself

today im not feeling very well got a bad cold been coughing up stuff from it just feel bad all over

please pray for me i surely can use it

spiritually i need help got some bad things in my life bad habits that i wish would stop thanks
calvin
 
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NazariteNation

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#2
You got the bug that's swept across the state (NC) too huh? BTW - I live in Hickory. My noses has been running, i've been sneezing and felt like I was about hack up a lung a day or two ago. I don't catch colds are flu very often but this one is a doozy!
 
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Abing

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#3
this is one great topic.. BUG!!! errrr i mean yeah "use singleness to spend more time with God."

 
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Cobblepot

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#4
I hope you get to feeling better.
 
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hersecretrefuge

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#5
I totally understand your weight issue...I struggle with it too. It's in my family.

A good book for you to read, (I dont know how much you read) is called Grace & Addiction. If your interested, I could go further and find out the author, I cannot remember his name off hand. But this book is powerful in the Lord and can help shine some light in this area of your life that is so tough to battle with!!

Let me know if you want to read it sometime.
 
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TJ1780

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#6
Don't worry, if the girl really loves you , the weight is something she wouldn't care.
 
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Abing

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#7
coool. now we're talking about weight :p

hahah okay im gonna shut up :D
 
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roaringkitten

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#8
"--that man looketh on the outward appearance; but God looketh upon the heart." 1 Samuel 16:7

While there may be habits to break in our lives, man tends to look on the outward appearance....But what is really important is our hearts.


"Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised." Proverbs 31:30
 
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ChristianVegan

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#9
Have you lost any weight yet?