Write a Letter to Your Future Spouse Thread

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G4JC

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Hello Everyone,
I got the idea to write some encouragement to that special person which I've never even met or know. If others are interested you may do the same, I would take this time to search the scriptures and honestly ponder what you would tell someone during a period of time when neither of you know each other and are seeking God so that you may find him or her which is hidden so well in Him. :)

Okay... here goes...

[HR][/HR]
Dear Future Wife:


This is not a random love letter. While I do not know you personally while I write this, I wanted to tell you how much I have thought about you and what you might be like in light of scripture. Knowing that you are already born again through Jesus Christ - It is my heart to give you encouragement on your Christian walk until the day we meet.

Indeed - Who can find a virtuous woman? Proverbs 31:10-31 describes your characteristics. I have met several people in my short life time on earth already which have fallen short of this description - because their mouth did not speak wisdom and their beauty was vain. They proclaimed Christianity, but with time they fell away from the faith and their tree failed to bring forth good fruit (John 15).

Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. - Galatians 5:19-24

May you continue reading the scriptures regularly (Acts 17:11) and strive to do everything which is written in therein (Joshua 1:8). For the time will come when you will need to stand up for your faith. Do not compromise.

Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. - 2 Timothy 4:2-4

Many will try to cast doubt on your faith and the Bible. Do not doubt God's inspired Word - for without a solid foundation there is nothing to turn to in a world of secular relativism. The bible is absolute.

Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution. But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived. But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. - 2 Timothy 12-17

I pray it is not too late and that you will continue to abstain from sexual immorality (What Does the Bible Say About Abstinence?). From Hollywood to MTV the perversions in this generation abound and try to sway our mind to diverse lusts. But you are set apart (What Does the Bible Say About Being Set Apart?).

For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever. - 1 John 16:17

Do not give into the provocative fashion trends. True beauty is from the heart..
In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. - 1 Timothy 2:9-10


Think on good things that you may keep your heart and mind.
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. - Philippians 4:7-8

Please remember the true meaning of Love...

Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.
- 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a (NKJV)



Together, our house will serve the Lord (Joshua 24:15). I pray that some day we will cross paths, but until that day we must not our Love for the Lord grow cold - we must endure to the end!

And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved. - Matthew 24:12-13

Love God First. Share the Gospel.
I will wait for you. I ask you only do the same for me.

With all my heart, <3
Your Friend In Christ ✝
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[HR][/HR]

 
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dear future wife.


yes i took the last cookie, dont divorce me



love ya
 
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Nicee

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Dear My love,
Nothing about me is Perfect. I have a lot of issues, but maybe you can help me with them. I know you got issues too. Don't worry, I'll help you with them too. You already know this, but there gonna be fights in our relationship, but that the best part of our relationship. How we handle our fights will determine how good our relationship is and how long it's will last. I can pour out my heart in this letter, but I don't want you to get to know too much about me. You have to meet me first and get to know me better. If you're reading this. It mean that you're already my wife and I'm happy to be your husband.
I love you and I'll always love you.
 
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ww_21

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Dear Future Husband,

As long as you supply (your wife) with bacon, donuts, steam games and geeky toys from thinkgeek we cool bro, WE COOL!!

Your Future Wife.
 
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DarlinNadia

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My Beloved,
If You made it this far... God is with you. Amen.
Your Beloved.
 
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UpstateNYChristianBro

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Dear my bride,

I have always loved you and always will love you as I am loving you now because of your love for me! You have looked beyond my challenges in my life with my Deafness, with my blindness in my one eye, and with my arthritis, and for my short statue of 5' 3".

I love you for who you are because you really care for me. I have prayed for you since I saw you in the dream in January 1985 when God showed me clues and introduced you as my bride. Oh my bride, you are beautiful! I love your hair, your complexion.. but that is just the outside. I love your heart, your beauty inside. Your faith is so strong and you have shown me your love. You have shown me Word of God as you support me as my wife.

God has shown me you will become my wife, the mother of 3 beautiful children. First born is Isabella whom God showed me and told me to name her. There are 2 more children. Beautiful twins. A boy and a girl.

Thank you for praying for me throughout the years, my beloved bride. I love you so much! I am crying when I write this. And that is for a fact.

I saw you again in few more dreams. The followed up to the first dream in 1985. That was in 2001, and 2 more in 2002. Those are part of the dreams that went on beyond the 1985 dream.. I saw you are sitting so beautiful and pregnant with our daughter. That was the final dream. The other dream was when God showed me whom I should marry when someone else wanted to marry me and God said no.

I wanted to apologize that I married the wrong one and back slide.. but I am now right with the Lord. And ready to take you into my arms. I am now ready to marry you, my beautiful bride!

For now, where are you my bride? Funny, this is the tile I am having for my autobiography.

I love you forever my bride!! Thank you for reading this. God bless you always my love and I ask the Lord to bless you everyday while waiting for you to come along.. and for being with me.

I can not wait to see you my love!!

Again, where are you my bride?

Love, your husband to be.
 
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Nodmyheadlikeyeah

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Dear future husband,

Do you have good credit?
This is my favorite store and i've been trying to get a Credit card here for like ever.... so if you could either work here or have good credit that would be super helpful! Thanks :)

From
Me
 
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justamom81

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Dear future Husband:
I don't know where or who you are, but know that each and every day I pray for you. I pray for your heart to be open to God, open to finding me, open to loving my children as if they were your own. I pray that while you wait for this woman, you foster a close relationship with the Lord and trust Him to lead you to me.
I want you to know that though the path I've taken to you has been winding and long, I'll get there eventually. And when God lets us meet, all our struggles and all our hardships will have been made worthy. I long for you. I am sometimes impatient, I am sometimes stubborn and it is so hard to wait patiently at some moments. But know that I am doing all I can to grow this heart while I wait. I know you're gonna be worth it. I know I'm gonna love you beyond measure.
Take care my love. Be strong in the Lord, don't give up. I'm out here.
Love Always,
Your Wife-to-be.
 
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Dear future Husband:
I don't know where or who you are, but know that each and every day I pray for you. I pray for your heart to be open to God, open to finding me, open to loving my children as if they were your own. I pray that while you wait for this woman, you foster a close relationship with the Lord and trust Him to lead you to me.
I want you to know that though the path I've taken to you has been winding and long, I'll get there eventually. And when God lets us meet, all our struggles and all our hardships will have been made worthy. I long for you. I am sometimes impatient, I am sometimes stubborn and it is so hard to wait patiently at some moments. But know that I am doing all I can to grow this heart while I wait. I know you're gonna be worth it. I know I'm gonna love you beyond measure.
Take care my love. Be strong in the Lord, don't give up. I'm out here.
Love Always,
Your Wife-to-be.
Hi there! good to see you on the forums. God bless His Word to you.

The sort of husband you might eventually have may be affected by how your Bible reading and prayer habits are now. If these are your priorities, then it's more likely that a future husband will have them as his priorities also.

I know my wife and I love to read the Word together daily and pray.
 
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FireWire

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No. There is nobody to write to or *invalid protocol specified*

You don't write a letter to somebody that doesn't exist.
 
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MidniteWelder

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#12
Dear future husband,

Do you have good credit?
This is my favorite store and i've been trying to get a Credit card here for like ever.... so if you could either work here or have good credit that would be super helpful! Thanks :)

From
Me
Dear future wife
They have pre-declined my credit card due to pre-anticipated over the limit charges and late fee's.
I'm sorry we aren't able to spend much time together as you had hoped since I am working extensive overtime as a display of my caring sacrifice to pay off the accumulated debt incurred.

But hopefully soon...Keep the light on for me :)

 
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SabbieWabbie

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Dear future wife
They have pre-declined my credit card due to pre-anticipated over the limit charges and late fee's.
I'm sorry we aren't able to spend much time together as you had hoped since I am working extensive overtime as a display of my caring sacrifice to pay off the accumulated debt incurred.

But hopefully soon...Keep the light on for me :)

The light will be left on..in the lounge...where your bed will be (aka the couch) lol.
 
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MidniteWelder

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The light will be left on..in the lounge...where your bed will be (aka the couch) lol.
So you can surprise me with breakfast in bed in the morning in exchange for not waking you :eek:
That's very sweet of you... :eek:
You always did know the way to a mans heart is through his stomach
 
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IamRachael

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Dear Future Husband,

Hi, I know that God will cross our paths someday. Even if I still don't know who you are. I will be loving you with all my heart because I do believe that you are God`s greatest gift to me.

Love,
Your future wife <3
 

Nautilus

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Jun 29, 2012
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Ha, tricked you...guess youre stuck with me now...
 
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Nodmyheadlikeyeah

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Dear future husband, (who the Lordith recently reavealdith to me you indeedith have great credit)

In light of this recent revelation i have something i'd like to discuss. Firstly age, I hate to tell you in a letter like this, but i may be a liiiiiiittle older than you. Just think... Demi and Ashton! Yes, i realize they are no longer married! Ok, whatever forget that last part.... My point is, i'm not getting any younger so are you busy tomorrow?? If not tomorrow.. the next day? I'm willing to wait for you as long as it takes like 6 months.

-Waiting patiently (but seriously, hurry up)
Holly





 
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Lady: God has told me that you are to be my husband.

Man: Well, if so, I would have thought that He would have 'told' me also....
 

lil_christian

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Dear Future Husband,

While I will have to wait until I'm at least 30 to even date you,

As long as you supply (your wife) with bacon, donuts, steam games and geeky toys from thinkgeek we cool bro, WE COOL!!

Your Future Wife.
Pretty much what dubs said with the exception of the part that I added. XD