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At least you have full hair like Fabio - I had to start shaving at 21; so count your blessing my friend.
Second, I'm not good looking and always considered that to be a blessing; it's a blessing because if a girl likes you then you know she likes you for who you are. So, my brother, if you are not really good looking like some of the celebrities, count your blessing because you will know she likes you for who you are when you have that first girlfriend.
Lastly, unless you are identified in Christ and determined to honor God with your body in the context of sexuality, it's gonna be very hard to keep yourself away from sexual temptation, especially when you have a girlfriend. So again, consider this as a blessing and an opportunity to find and identify yourself in Christ.
(Psss.. Girls really like guys who are passionate about what they do - and there's nothing sexier than a Christian man whose life is wholly and fully devoted to God from Christian women's perspective.)
Second, I'm not good looking and always considered that to be a blessing; it's a blessing because if a girl likes you then you know she likes you for who you are. So, my brother, if you are not really good looking like some of the celebrities, count your blessing because you will know she likes you for who you are when you have that first girlfriend.
Lastly, unless you are identified in Christ and determined to honor God with your body in the context of sexuality, it's gonna be very hard to keep yourself away from sexual temptation, especially when you have a girlfriend. So again, consider this as a blessing and an opportunity to find and identify yourself in Christ.
(Psss.. Girls really like guys who are passionate about what they do - and there's nothing sexier than a Christian man whose life is wholly and fully devoted to God from Christian women's perspective.)
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Of course, it's not unfair that I've never been given a chance is it? No we couldn't have that at all. That's too ethical to even contemplate. Neither is it unfair of the extremely callous comments that have been made.
My sour attitude is mainly towards single females and a few others that are just horrible. That isn't going to change anytime soon. I could change it in an instant but you need to understand that people reap what they sow. That was their attitude towards me when I was younger so goes around comes around yeah?
My sour attitude is mainly towards single females and a few others that are just horrible. That isn't going to change anytime soon. I could change it in an instant but you need to understand that people reap what they sow. That was their attitude towards me when I was younger so goes around comes around yeah?
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I consider myself good-looking and I am still ostensibly single.
Women seem to care more about confidence than anything else. If you master that, you can smack Brad Pitt.
Also, wear a UND hockey sweater. The ladies like those more.
Women seem to care more about confidence than anything else. If you master that, you can smack Brad Pitt.
Also, wear a UND hockey sweater. The ladies like those more.
Sorry you've had bad experiences, but saying Women are awful, is not nice. We're not awful. Yes you've encountered some awful women, I've also encountered some awful men in my life. I've been groped, cat called and also told at times that I'm to fat, by a man here or there. I was objectified in a way. Do I hold it against all men? no.
Popclick is right on you're attitude towards women in general stinks.
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Oh well, their attitude towards me stinks too. I'm not going to blame my attitude for that. What if I come across or are introduced and they have a judgmental, condemning look on their face? Yes it has happened all too often. One time I was minding my own business. My fault? Nah. Nice? Heck no. There is no cotton wool with this one.
No wonder here the marriage rate is the lowest since 1973 and we have one the lowest birthrates in the OECD.
No wonder here the marriage rate is the lowest since 1973 and we have one the lowest birthrates in the OECD.
I´d like to appologize for we, as ugly or rejected men: We´re not fair! Sorry! That´s true, and we cannot blame human race for rejections, backslides or lacks (that´s true, in my case). But I can assure CC´s readers that there´s something wrong, since the very beginning, and that´s SIN (a thing that twisted values).
If you have read novels like "Wuthering Heights" you can confirm where our treasures are: Just call it wealth, sex, beauty, etc. And I´d like to thank Firewire for reminding me these words: "...people reap what they sow...". I spent decades hurting people the way I wanted and the way I could. Those lesson and pains I received gave me the experience I needed to know and, in fact, I don´t think those affliction will pass away or cease, because I acknowledged I´m sure where I´m going and am convinced I´m crazy enough to avoid the "togetherness" of a family, and someone here has noted me detachment, a thing that´s making my way easier, though I can bravely long for that perfect love bond I haven´t found to glue. Perhaps I´m one of those Jesus thought of when telling His disciples: "Mat 19:12 For example, some men are celibate because they were born that way. Others are celibate because they were castrated. Still others have decided to be celibate because of the kingdom of heaven. If anyone can do what you've suggested, then he should do it."
To the rest of the world, as Jesus said, I would say: Luk 23:31 "If people do this to a green tree, what will happen to a dry one?"
Rejection -in its many forms- are ways of emotional castration, division, divorce and spiritual struggles, within men and also women.
It takes times to see it this way but, the deepest root of this is SIN, and the tearing down of the altars of our selfish EGOs.
If you have read novels like "Wuthering Heights" you can confirm where our treasures are: Just call it wealth, sex, beauty, etc. And I´d like to thank Firewire for reminding me these words: "...people reap what they sow...". I spent decades hurting people the way I wanted and the way I could. Those lesson and pains I received gave me the experience I needed to know and, in fact, I don´t think those affliction will pass away or cease, because I acknowledged I´m sure where I´m going and am convinced I´m crazy enough to avoid the "togetherness" of a family, and someone here has noted me detachment, a thing that´s making my way easier, though I can bravely long for that perfect love bond I haven´t found to glue. Perhaps I´m one of those Jesus thought of when telling His disciples: "Mat 19:12 For example, some men are celibate because they were born that way. Others are celibate because they were castrated. Still others have decided to be celibate because of the kingdom of heaven. If anyone can do what you've suggested, then he should do it."
To the rest of the world, as Jesus said, I would say: Luk 23:31 "If people do this to a green tree, what will happen to a dry one?"
Rejection -in its many forms- are ways of emotional castration, division, divorce and spiritual struggles, within men and also women.
It takes times to see it this way but, the deepest root of this is SIN, and the tearing down of the altars of our selfish EGOs.
