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I believe from my own personal experience that is a lack of desire for a relationship with somebody of the opposite sex. I believe it is a gift because Paul clearly says this and actually wished that all men were as he was. Perhaps he even prayed about it. It is interesting that this gift is mentioned straight after talking about self-control. I'm not going to say it's a lack of sexual desire because most people have this and is to be bought into subjection in Christ.
I find the thought of marriage to be a burden. How can this be? Likely because it interferes with a divine calling. I'm not saying it to be egotistical but I've just never had the desire to be in a state of matrimony. I'm not upset or aggrieved about it or forming a protest committee. If you are a follower of Christ you're never alone or lonely. It's a matter of what is going on inside where the real stuff happens. I'm sure there are plenty of married people who are lonely or go through stages of it. Isn't marriage supposed to solve this? No. Only God can fill the inner longing to be truly loved and valued, and it's the same for the other person.
I'd like to make it clear it's not because of external factors that I believe I have this gift. It's always been an internal thing.
I find the thought of marriage to be a burden. How can this be? Likely because it interferes with a divine calling. I'm not saying it to be egotistical but I've just never had the desire to be in a state of matrimony. I'm not upset or aggrieved about it or forming a protest committee. If you are a follower of Christ you're never alone or lonely. It's a matter of what is going on inside where the real stuff happens. I'm sure there are plenty of married people who are lonely or go through stages of it. Isn't marriage supposed to solve this? No. Only God can fill the inner longing to be truly loved and valued, and it's the same for the other person.
I'd like to make it clear it's not because of external factors that I believe I have this gift. It's always been an internal thing.