I liked the vidio .I dident hear his whole message but it makes sence.I used to feel like that .I thought I could chang them with my love but it never worked.We have to learn to love ourselves as Christ does we are children of the most hi God.It is important that we know who we are in Christ befor we can love someone the way were sapost to,or let someone love us.Some people dont know what real love is so how are they sapost to know how to give or recieve it?