It seems that there are many many different relationships that we have with friends. In the past, I often would consider friendships as negative if they hurt my relationship with God. Recently, though, I have a friendship that has left me confused.
I have been talking to my best friend almost every day for the past almost 3 years. We have some short conversations and some truly deep conversations, like close friends do. We are both Christians and seeking to lead God centered lives. Through all of that, we are diametrically opposed on most of the truly significant issues. It has always been this way, and often created tension as a result. I felt like many of our discussions did help bring me closer to God, and to question/solidify/correct my beliefs on the topics. As more time has progressed, it has become ever more apparent that we won't agree on many core beliefs (theological, philosophical, political...). I don't want to be a fool who just surrounds myself with yes-men who share all of my beliefs, but it seems like too often we are flirting with sinful anger in our disagreements. To further complicate things, my friend has been struggling with faith for the past few years as well as general self-worth, so I am also trying to take that into account moving forward.
I don't give up easily, but it feels like I am often fighting to keep the friendship. Has anyone else had a close friendship with someone very different than them? Is there ever a "valid" reason to end such a close friendship? Is there any biblical insight that anyone can share with regards to this? Or any other wisdom?
I have been talking to my best friend almost every day for the past almost 3 years. We have some short conversations and some truly deep conversations, like close friends do. We are both Christians and seeking to lead God centered lives. Through all of that, we are diametrically opposed on most of the truly significant issues. It has always been this way, and often created tension as a result. I felt like many of our discussions did help bring me closer to God, and to question/solidify/correct my beliefs on the topics. As more time has progressed, it has become ever more apparent that we won't agree on many core beliefs (theological, philosophical, political...). I don't want to be a fool who just surrounds myself with yes-men who share all of my beliefs, but it seems like too often we are flirting with sinful anger in our disagreements. To further complicate things, my friend has been struggling with faith for the past few years as well as general self-worth, so I am also trying to take that into account moving forward.
I don't give up easily, but it feels like I am often fighting to keep the friendship. Has anyone else had a close friendship with someone very different than them? Is there ever a "valid" reason to end such a close friendship? Is there any biblical insight that anyone can share with regards to this? Or any other wisdom?