Long distance breakup

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jsr1221

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Need some advice on how to get over a breakup with someone who leaves you for another person they met at a Discipleship training program. This girl was thrilled at the idea of me moving to Colorado to see her. Then just a few weeks later she said she fell for someone while serving Christ. Now she won't even say a word or even acknowledge that I ever meant something to her. We met on here and she actually pursued me. I fell for her the more we talked and now it doesn't even seem she cares.
 
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Shouryu

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Need some advice on how to get over a breakup with someone who leaves you for another person they met at a Discipleship training program. This girl was thrilled at the idea of me moving to Colorado to see her. Then just a few weeks later she said she fell for someone while serving Christ. Now she won't even say a word or even acknowledge that I ever meant something to her. We met on here and she actually pursued me. I fell for her the more we talked and now it doesn't even seem she cares.
The answer is...

Move on.

She's not giving you much choice in the matter, since she's cutting you off. So there's no point in you hanging on to hope here. Considering how quickly she flopped on her feelings, 1) it's clear that she wasn't as invested as you were (or think you were), and 2) why would you still want to be with someone who so quickly shifts affections at the drop of a hat?

Just some food for thought.
 

blue_ladybug

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Feb 21, 2014
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The answer is...

Move on.

She's not giving you much choice in the matter, since she's cutting you off. So there's no point in you hanging on to hope here. Considering how quickly she flopped on her feelings, 1) it's clear that she wasn't as invested as you were (or think you were), and 2) why would you still want to be with someone who so quickly shifts affections at the drop of a hat?

Just some food for thought.

​Yupp, I agree with Shouryo on this 100%!!