DIVORCE

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singleparent

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In the few day's that I have been in this site or on it I am amazed at the amount of broken believers some in my place and outher's well in there place.What is happening to our world is relationships that cheep in todays world.Is the enemy that persuasive that he is so successful? Or is love thought of as just another cheep comodity to be bartered with like so many apples?DAVID
 
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OreoSoleil

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Umm,yeah that went through my mind tonight -- two friends i grew up with -- their husbands left them. It's crazy
 
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jjones76

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I think Satan is on a massive attack against the family as a whole!! I never dreamed I would be divorced and raising two kids on my own either. I have loads of my friends either getting divorced, or thinking about it. I hate it that it is now "normal" for kids to have divorced parents. I'm only 33 and remember being in school and only a few of my friends had divorced parents. My kids - well - most of them have divorced parents and only a few who still have the same 2 parents. It's really sad!! I fear to get into another relationship because of the mentality so many people have, that if it doesn't work out, just get divorced.
 
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singleparent

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And thefunny thing is we all know how our God feels about it yet we charge right into it?Perhaps our courtships werent long enough can one really fall out of love?Oh I know after time we put yhe hurt behind us but truly to just quit? Seems defeatist to me and I know in my heart it is wrong! How is it I wonder our spouses that is the ones who choose divorce cant see this?DAVID
 
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Wug

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I only have a couple friends that don't have divorced parents
 
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jax

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I think there is such a rush to get married, then the first time there's a problem, a rush for a divorce, the world is spinning so fast and we are trying to run with it and it isn't happening..
 
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BellaFlor

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singleparent said:
In the few day's that I have been in this site or on it I am amazed at the amount of broken believers some in my place and outher's well in there place.What is happening to our world is relationships that cheep in todays world.Is the enemy that persuasive that he is so successful? Or is love thought of as just another cheep comodity to be bartered with like so many apples?DAVID
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I very agree. And that's also something making me sad, that it is even so very normal for many Christians getting divorced too, nowadays. There is sure often a reason for most divorces, but at times I think it might be to easily taken in.

I do struggle with many things in my marriage, and being still very newly wedded, it feels quite different than what most newly wedded experience during their first years. I sometimes envy the fact that our marriage start wasn't like it normally is for most newly weddded people, nor my experience of our Wedding Day, and it saddens me. We do are brought together by God, but we don't have a easy start of marriage like many seem to have. I do try my best encouraging myself with that me and my husband will get much much stronger through this all, and when other hardships will come up later in our marriage we will pull through even much easier and with more strenght in the Lord together than what many others will do.

Marriages are to be worked on as well, one shouldn't enter in marriage thinking everything will go fine, and that there will be few difficulties. If we have to many dreams we might end up more disappointed than content. I at times feel unhappy, and we have been now married for soon 7 months. Marriage isn't always a dance on roses, this I truly know now very early since we married. I still struggle with much hurt inside of me, and it takes time dealing with this. Still I don't give up fully, and I do know God will help us through, and heal and restore our relationship. I am not a person that gives up that easily, though I do can feel very helpless sometimes too. But we just have to keep on trusting God, and let Him keep on working in us and with our relationship.
 
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asamanthinketh

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yeah, people take marriage and their spouses lightly and when their is one problem they just give up because by law it is allowable. personally my mother had two divorces and has now been remarried for the third time and it has brought pain and spiritual death into my life. she didn't even select a man who would also love me as her daughter. so when seeking a divorce know that it is a ripple effect and that you are huring many people's lives
 
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singleparent

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It does hurt lives other than the two spouses more to point as the previous bloger pointed out the little ones and for me that really is what hurts not to say I am not in pain and torment but I can allmost look past that twords the children.You know she was unfaithfull but I in and by the Grace of God have gotten past that and would heal this if it were up to me but its not so I am waiting on Gods perfect will as possibly absurd as that may sound to some it makes sence to me.Even my pastor said biblicly I have a right to divorce but it feels like I ma quitting?And yet I won't to move on?Go figure that out!
 
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