Honestly, not by posting a thread like this. It tends to attract what a friend calls "creepers." Just actively run after Christ, and look around and see who is running the same speed as you. Volunteer to serve. As with finding "a good, christian woman," it isn't something that just happens. It is done through observation and participation while you, yourself, grow in Christ.
Probably not the direct answer you want, but probably the best I can give.