EVERYTHING GOES WRONG

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Mar 12, 2014
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Yeah. I don't understand why. Why everything goes wrong. I asked God for help. Sometimes I feel very lonely and I think that no guy will ever take interest in me. Two weeks ago I met a guy. He was very kind, funny and he started texting me. I was so happy. Finally someone showed interest in me! He was very cute and he told me many compliments and I must say that I'm not very used to this kind of treatment. I was so happy. Things were going to change, I thought. And then...after these two weeks this happiness was taken away from me. I discovered that that guy had a girlfriend and he didn't tell me. Now I feel very miserable. Why God has permit to taste this kind of happiness only for a few weeks and then took it away? I feel more broken than before, now. I'm so angry. It was all a lie. Why?!
 

blue_ladybug

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Yeah. I don't understand why. Why everything goes wrong. I asked God for help. Sometimes I feel very lonely and I think that no guy will ever take interest in me. Two weeks ago I met a guy. He was very kind, funny and he started texting me. I was so happy. Finally someone showed interest in me! He was very cute and he told me many compliments and I must say that I'm not very used to this kind of treatment. I was so happy. Things were going to change, I thought. And then...after these two weeks this happiness was taken away from me. I discovered that that guy had a girlfriend and he didn't tell me. Now I feel very miserable. Why God has permit to taste this kind of happiness only for a few weeks and then took it away? I feel more broken than before, now. I'm so angry. It was all a lie. Why?!

​That guy is obviously nothing but an immature, irresponsible game player and you're much better off without him. Guys like to give us compliments to reel us in, but they also like to keep secrets. I think what you felt was a puppy love crush, and you felt flattered by this snake's words. God has someone for you, but it sure isn't this jerk.. :)
 
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edgar1994

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Something like this happened to me, the girl i thought that God had sent me, her feelings changed after half a year and we had to leave it, we can't see it now what God wants to say with this, but in the future we will see it, because this kind of experiences make people stronger.
 
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Quake10

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Oh my goodness! This is so much like me! I have been having the same type of problems! Other than the fact that i havent had a girl so interest in me like that guy did you. But i feel your pain. I dont understand either and i get very lonely and upset. This past year has been worst for me, and everything feels like its going wrong
 
Mar 12, 2014
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​That guy is obviously nothing but an immature, irresponsible game player and you're much better off without him. Guys like to give us compliments to reel us in, but they also like to keep secrets. I think what you felt was a puppy love crush, and you felt flattered by this snake's words. God has someone for you, but it sure isn't this jerk.. :)
yeah, you're right. Today at university he tried to talk to me but I didn't fell into his trap! Not again...I'm just very thankful because this thing ended really soon and I didn't become too attached to this guy!