Broken heart.....

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Love009

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I've never really had my heart broken, but close to it. Ha ha I know this is a really sad forum but I felt led to do it. I'm sure there are many out there who feel this way or have in the past felt this way. Share your broken heart story/ this can apply to girls and boys :)

My heart was in a whirl. My head was reeling. I could barely stand up. Only because I knew I would see him soon. This feeling was insanely unstoppable. No matter how many times I told myself to calm down it wouldn’t happen. But I knew when he did come I’d feel like I was floating on a cloud. I know it sounds cliché but that’s exactly what it feels like. When you know you’re about to see someone you love you get really excited and when you do actually see them your heart drops and you hope they catch it. Sometimes they do, but sometimes they don’t. That’s how you get your heart broken. You give your heart to someone you love, but they don’t catch it. They drop it and leave it there on the ground for you to pick up the pieces. That’s when it hurts the most. When you know you have to get back down on the ground and pick up your broken heart. But it’s not easy. Every time you go back down you remember when he use to look at you and smile. You remember when he’d hug you and you felt like you never wanted to let go. But the thing about it that hurts is that you know that you won’t ever have that feeling again because he threw your heart on the ground. That’s what it means to have a broken heart………………………….






And of course there is hope for the broken hearted. And there will be someone to pick up the pieces. Ha ha you guessed it! God will :)
 
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sportygirl

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For mine was I had been single up till that point, and found this guy that liked me back. And he was truely a great guy, but i wasnt ready and neither was he. We started off in complete faith in God and in our relationship. But as the relationship went on it just slowly started to go away and was just about us. Eventually we saw ourselves together forever and he promised he wouldnt hurt me. THis gave me up even when things got worse, how could he have said those words and not meant it. Well eventually we realized we werent good for each other (he realized, i came around later) and it ended. I felt lost and confused and the fact that there was another girl in his life tha was my friend made it worse. Everyone tim eI thought of him I would cry, I would miss the good times, ignore hte bad. Thats what it feels to have your heart broken.

I agree though there is hope in God and he can mend a broken heart better than anyone else, if you trust in him. He has done me good, the past month and I am thankful.
 
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i once knew this girl in school she was smart beautiful but what attracted me to her was her personality she accepted me for who i am (a gaming geek artisict athesist) and loved me for me and not what i was. and i accepted her ( chrisitan) i loved her for who she was, a kind person who had a smile that can warm anyones heart. our relationship was going so well but then her church found out about our relationship and werent happry they basiclly said to her either i become a christian or she and her family well be kicked out of the church and then her family told her that they will kick her out of the house if they got kicked out by the church. i went to the church and told them my view and how it was unfair they just told me the same thing i told them i wouldnt become one of you but ill also wont destroy her love for the church and her family

i left her i broke her heart and i broke my own
 
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swimlove2029

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oh my gosh when i read this it made my heart beat faster and it made me think about this guy that i like so much that it drives me crazy!
 
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Love009

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Oh wow i'm sorry Zavok, that must be hard. I will be praying that God picks up your hearts and mends it. He has someone out there for you. :)
 
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yoej_ogart

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Nice forum:).. for me? a broken heart would be, having to look at Jesus's face filled with disappointment towards me! I mean.. yeah I've been hurt my guys who said they loved me but I toughened up, now I don't date at all. It's over rated lol until God brings me the one.. but I realized the way I was hurt wasn't really getting my heart broken, because the heart breaking isn't just a temporary pain, I think. It's more of a mournful pain.. like once it's been broken it takes a miracle to be healed.. which is why Jesus is right there to catch you when you fall instead of that dumb dude or chick haha.. but anyways! lol.. My heart may be torn having to see all these tragedies happening.. but the only thing that would ABSOLUTELY break my heart open.. would be having to look to Jesus's face on Judgement day, when I have failed everything without trying.. That would break my heart not some guy, THAT I can get over haha well God bless PEACHES:)
 
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vinni

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The worst thing is when someone says she likes you a lot (and you've practically just met her) and pays many compliments, she makes you fall for her, some days later says she dreamed with your hug and stuff and suddenly she almost doesn't even talk to you anymore...!

I'm SO awful about understanting reactions and relationships and girls... T_T

Thank God I overcome things really fast :B (Like if it's not her, it isn't and I wont enforce it, I can forget it, and maybe God has someone better for me...) Sometimes idk if that's right :x

Oh, by the way, Love009, your first post was an awesome poem ^^
 
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Zeebra

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I've had my heart broken twice, and now I'm giving myself a break from guys altogether... I mean I have my life ahead of me, and I don't need guys ot break it... If I know someone is right for me, then I'll go for it but .. That rarely happens. Anyways, Yes I've had a broken heart and I don't want to feel that way ever again!.Certain guys just know just how to break someones heart, It's almost like they are planning it the whole time hey are dating us. Or however you'd like to put it. I mean yes, there are defiately great guys out there, but at my age or even 15... you shouldn't get into a serious relationship, it hurts too much in the end, if it doesn't work out. I've learnt to much about the whole broken hear thing, for my age... My first boyfriend was at the age of 11. And I wouldn't let him go for two year after he broke it. ... The next one was after I moved... last january I moved here... And I met this guy in April ... And he ended up breaking my heart in August. All I'm trying to say is that it's a total bad idea to have a boyfriend at my age. I believe that it's very rare to actually marry the person you fall in love with in grade 10 or 11... And your probably not going to have this guy in your life for the rest of your life.... People have to face it, there is only one love to last a life time, and thats from the one your marry. And there is only one love that will last an eternity, and thats from God. Anyways I hope I never offended anyone. If so I give you permission to bash me out. But I'm just speaking my mind... My story is a long one..A very long one... And it was hard to go through, if you'd like to know about it, message me.. It's too long of a story to wrte in here. But remember if you ever need a friend, God is there, and he will help you through your mistakes, he helped me out of my difficulties! =] God Bless everyone!
 
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Zeebra

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AND remember, God always has a plan for you! He will match you up with a great Guy/girl ... Unless thats not the best thing for you... He'l only do whats best!
 
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Zeebra

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#10
AND what Yogi said... Dating is over-rated.
 
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Zeebra

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#11
Also ... I wrote a song just after we broke up .... Haha I was totally depressd for a while... Just thought I'd share it with you ... I thought I knew what falling in love was at this time, so don't mind some of it .. haha:


Not Just another Love Song
Written By: Sierra Arbeau
Preformed by: .....

V1: My mama always told me we don't always get our way,
we never get the chance to say the things we want to say,
The things we feel way deep down inside,
All we can ever do is hide,
In this life of drama and hurt,
You tried to make the scene work,
I keep thinking that I'm just another prop,
But whenever I think of you I get this feeling and it never seems to stop,
So I keep thinking,

C: What if we were meant for each other,
Look back to the times when we were together,
All the times you held me tight,
All the stupid little fights,
All the laughs we would share,
Laugh so loud but we just don’t care,
I just want you to hold me like you did before, baby.

V2: That’s all I've got to remember,
How we felt about each other,
But of course that’s ancient history,
Love is just another one of life’s mysteries,
Love is something we all want to give,
It’s something we all need to live,
It’s something never to regret,
How could you so easily forget?


C-What if we were meant for eachother,
Look Back to the times when we were together,
All the times you held me tight,
All of the stupid little fights,
all the laughs we would share,
laugh so hard but we just don't care,
I just want you to hold me like you did before.


V3 (ending) : Well this is not just another love song.
We might fight, but we must get along,
Nothing can ever come between us, and maybe,
I just can't handle loosing you like this baby...


We always rant about eachother,
But we must stay so strong together,
I love you, and you loved me,
what ever happened to the love story...


C: What if we were meant for each other,
Look back to the times when we were together,
All the times you held me tight,
All the stupid little fights,
All the laughs we would share,
Laugh so loud but we just don’t care,
I just want you to hold me like you did before baby!!
It shouldn't take this long, This is not just another love song..
 
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butterflylady

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this is a little different:my soulmate does not want to talk to me! he broke my heart to spread the word of God. i know i should be happy. but im trying to find Jesus. im trying to be strong. i've cried all the time when he left me. i thought he cared abou me. i thought he loved me! i thought we were soulmtes! but i saw him in cchat, he ignored me. he treats me like crap. he wants to bring up the past all the time! he lives to be petty and immature and stupid and we both end up in tears!
 
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Ugly

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this is a little different:my soulmate does not want to talk to me! he broke my heart to spread the word of God. i know i should be happy. but im trying to find Jesus. im trying to be strong. i've cried all the time when he left me. i thought he cared abou me. i thought he loved me! i thought we were soulmtes! but i saw him in cchat, he ignored me. he treats me like crap. he wants to bring up the past all the time! he lives to be petty and immature and stupid and we both end up in tears!
Soul mates don't exist. The concept of a soul mate is based in pagan teachings, and holds zero biblical foundation. God did not create two people for each other, He created people for His joy and to worship Him. The idea that God created you for another person and vice versa is not valid.
Though i am sorry to hear the hurt you've gone through.
 

GOD_IS_LOVE

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Mar 16, 2009
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this is a little different:my soulmate does not want to talk to me! he broke my heart to spread the word of God. i know i should be happy. but im trying to find Jesus. im trying to be strong. i've cried all the time when he left me. i thought he cared abou me. i thought he loved me! i thought we were soulmtes! but i saw him in cchat, he ignored me. he treats me like crap. he wants to bring up the past all the time! he lives to be petty and immature and stupid and we both end up in tears!
And you're 32...?
 
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Jordache

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At 14 I had a friend. He was a pastors son and I was screwed up and thought I was a Christian. I remember tellin him one day that no one my age ever liked me. I'd been chased all my life but only by grown men who had no business messing with me. After school that day he pulled me aside and said, "I think you're incredibly nice, incredibly kind, and incredibly pretty." Yes I remember the words verbatim. It was the first time anyone of the male persuasion had ever told me I was pretty. I was shocked to say the least and that is why I can describe every bit of that meeting in detail though its 14 yrs old. I trusted this boy with some difficult secrets and he always listen though he had no idea what to say.
We were pondering whether or not we should go out. After a few weeks something happened. I don't recall what, but I do remember that it was very inconsequential in the grand scheme of things. A week before I had received a horrifying email from another friend that he net wanted to talk to me again, that I was crazy, and that he hated me. To the best of my knowledge, all I ever did was seek his help. However, even though I was barely coming out of my shell and there were few people I felt I could talk to, he was a 14-yr-old boy and he responded as such. Anyway, my other friend was much more important to me but I came home one day to a similar email beginning with "I thought I liked you, but I guess I was wrong." He followed with never wanton to speaking with me again and a few other not so nice things. At 14, this was the first person I'd ever entrusted my secrets to. He was the first peron i ever really felt safe with. He was the first person to tell me I was beautiful...EVER! Now he hated me and I didn't understand why.
I couldn't talk. All I said was, "No, no, no..." My mom almost kept me home from school. I was devastated, betrayed, broken hearted to the nth degree by my first love.