(Repost) Girls 15-18 Talk to me

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Simo1138

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any girl out there want to talk with a 16 year old gamer disney fan and total nerd? Happy to talk to you, especially girls in the Northern KY area (if you're from there you know the area, lower OH, and IN) Because let's face it. I've been desperate for the girl God would want me to someday marry. If any. I'm not talking long term commitment though people, just like a girl to talk to, maybe have an off chance of finding one I might want to date someday.

Did I sound as pathetic as I did in my head there?

(Sorry for the re post, corrected the spelling error)
 

blue_ladybug

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any girl out there want to talk with a 16 year old gamer disney fan and total nerd? Happy to talk to you, especially girls in the Northern KY area (if you're from there you know the area, lower OH, and IN) Because let's face it. I've been desperate for the girl God would want me to someday marry. If any. I'm not talking long term commitment though people, just like a girl to talk to, maybe have an off chance of finding one I might want to date someday.

Did I sound as pathetic as I did in my head there?

(Sorry for the re post, corrected the spelling error)

hello and welcome to CC.. This is NOT a dating site. You're 16, too young to date. Focus on being a kid, and let God take care of who HE has in mind for you. When you're old enough and HE knows you're ready, he will send you the perfect person. You shouldn't say you're "desperate" for a girl. You're not even ready for a girlfriend, let alone a marriage!!
 
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Renarose

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Hey I am serena and just wanted to talk
 
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any girl out there want to talk with a 16 year old gamer disney fan and total nerd? Happy to talk to you, especially girls in the Northern KY area (if you're from there you know the area, lower OH, and IN) Because let's face it. I've been desperate for the girl God would want me to someday marry. If any. I'm not talking long term commitment though people, just like a girl to talk to, maybe have an off chance of finding one I might want to date someday.

Did I sound as pathetic as I did in my head there?

(Sorry for the re post, corrected the spelling error)
Yes..........
 
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ray_james

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The one thing you should never admit to a girl is that you are desperate, just sayin'
-ray
 
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WolfGaming

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dude if you pray for God to send you a girl and you are strong in the word man he will trust me she will be amazing and you will know God sent her.
 
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Ugly

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any girl out there want to talk with a 16 year old gamer disney fan and total nerd? Happy to talk to you, especially girls in the Northern KY area (if you're from there you know the area, lower OH, and IN) Because let's face it. I've been desperate for the girl God would want me to someday marry. If any. I'm not talking long term commitment though people, just like a girl to talk to, maybe have an off chance of finding one I might want to date someday.

Did I sound as pathetic as I did in my head there?

(Sorry for the re post, corrected the spelling error)
If you were truly trusting God you wouldn't need to go sniffing around random females while airing your desperation to rush God before you're even old enough to consider marriage. You'd be content to sit and wait patiently for His timing.
Why not use your time to focus on your own walk and make sure you will grow into the kind of man that would be of benefit to a woman. The biggest requirement for a good spouse is selflessness, which is not something i see in you by this post.
 
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jakayden2

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Chill dude :)
 

mailmandan

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The one thing you should never admit to a girl is that you are desperate, just sayin'
-ray
Right. Girls respond to strength and confidence, not "desperate total nerd." ;)
 

Channa

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Please. This is not a dating site.
You'd better look for a sport to do instead of creeping girls out, sorry :/
God will send you the right girl on the right time, no worries.
God Bless ya!
 
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Simo1138

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If you were truly trusting God you wouldn't need to go sniffing around random females while airing your desperation to rush God before you're even old enough to consider marriage. You'd be content to sit and wait patiently for His timing.
Why not use your time to focus on your own walk and make sure you will grow into the kind of man that would be of benefit to a woman. The biggest requirement for a good spouse is selflessness, which is not something i see in you by this post.
Yeah...I'm sorry...
 
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Faith_KT

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Hello! I'm Catherine but I like to be called feather. Its my middle name lol. I think what you said is true.
 
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WolfGaming

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why don't instead of trying to get girls to talk to you why don't you become friends with a girl and maybe start talking with her and get to know her it is the man's job to seek the girl.
 
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Haha.. good u keep trying but yea... sweet but a bit lame... j/k cya
 
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WolfGaming

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lol oh be nice he is lonely
 
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Arigirl

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#18
Don't worry. You just have to be patient and wait for the person God has for you :) There's no need to make a post and try to get girls to talk to you. God will show you who he wants you to talk to when the time comes.
 
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Arigirl

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Lol. That is true Ray. You have a point. Coming from a girl's perspective, we'll feel pity towards a guy that does this type of thing but never really consider dating him because we'll look past his personality and only see that he's lonely. We'll want to encourage and help him, but we need someone strong that offers security for a relationship.
 
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_Kim_

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Awee Guys cut him some slack! No need to bash him!