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BlackDove?

I am just curious why the over dramatics?

Sure...I have told friends I felt like leaving.

But I didnt make a thread and have a grand finale ta doo about it?
Take some time out if you want.
Nobody forced you to go.
I wanted to ask the same thing but I felt it would be rude.

BlackDove, getting over dramatic is never good and I think that's what Skylove is saying as well. Don't take it in a wrong manner, it's only for your good so that you won't be over dramatic in the future. I have known a few teens who are over dramatic, I don't mind it, I just try to help them out. But once I'm done helping them I ask them to never be so dramatic again. Drama can be good at the right times, like while joking around with a good friend.

We could try talking and solve the problem if you want? Or else if your leaving then I wish you the best and may God bless you.

Your not worthless like MM said, your very precious in the sight of God.
 
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TheBlackDove

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I wanted to ask the same thing but I felt it would be rude.

BlackDove, getting over dramatic is never good and I think that's what Skylove is saying as well. Don't take it in a wrong manner, it's only for your good so that you won't be over dramatic in the future. I have known a few teens who are over dramatic, I don't mind it, I just try to help them out. But once I'm done helping them I ask them to never be so dramatic again. Drama can be good at the right times, like while joking around with a good friend.

We could try talking and solve the problem if you want? Or else if your leaving then I wish you the best and may God bless you.

Your not worthless like MM said, your very precious in the sight of God.
ok tell me why then? what have I done to give me worth nothing aka worthless he has agape love for me he needs no reson to love me he just does
 
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ok tell me why then? what have I done to give me worth nothing aka worthless he has agape love for me he needs no reson to love me he just does
Think about it as the love of a parent towards his/her child. Don't children make mistakes? Don't their parents still love them the same? God doesn't just love us. He loves us because we are His creation, His children. It's an unconditional love. Our soul has worth in the sight of God and that's why He sent Jesus to die for us. Our soul is precious to God, nothing can be precious if it has no worth. God's love for you is personal.
 
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Bible tells us that He loves us so much that He even knows the number of hairs on your head, that He loves you so much that He has engraved our names on His palm.

Matthew 10:30

30 And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered.

Isaiah 49:16

16 See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands; your walls are ever before me.
 
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there is NOTHING God sees good in me NOTHING I am not worthy not good not ANYTHING the only reson I will be able to enter Heaven is becase of Jesus Christ
I wish everyone was humble enough to admit what you just did. Seriously, it is ok to see nothing good in your carnal man... none of us have anything to boast about our selfish flesh. But that's just the beginning. What God started in you and all of us, He is completing day by day, dear brother & friend.

Don't be discouraged, please. If there's anything I've learned in all my years walking with Jesus is that every trial I go through, God is breaking down a barrier in me so that I can experience more freedom and peace. We're growing spiritual, maturing in our mind in Christ, we will have growing pains. Some pains more intense than others.

Please don't go because you feel discouraged. We need you as much as you need us, son. The Word says when one hurts, we all hurt because we're one in the body of Christ. And when one rejoices, we all rejoice! We're like swords, iron sharpening iron.
I know you believe that in your heart.

I can honestly say what a tremendous blessing to have a young man like you here with us. What a fantastic testimony to God that you desire to be in fellowship and friendship with His children. And we desire that friendship & fellowship with YOU, too!

I pray the Lord comfort your heart and ease your mind... I pray you realize you are not alone, that we all experience the same things throughout our lives. Please reconsider, BlackDove/Wolfgang.

I also ask that you forgive me if I posted anything harsh and ignorant that may have effected you. I want to grow and learn to be more like Christ, so you can always feel free to be honest with me, ok?
 
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Yikes... I did not realize I was in the teen forum. :p

 
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ok tell me why then? what have I done to give me worth nothing aka worthless he has agape love for me he needs no reson to love me he just does
You already know that He doesn't need a reason, so why does it plague you that He doesn't have one? (Other than because He is Love, of course.)

He doesn't love you because you have worth, you have worth because He loves you. He loves us all. You're right that you didn't earn it; none of us did. So don't ask what you did to mean something to God, because the answer is always "nothing", but that doesn't make you nothing to God.

How would you feel if someone insisted that what was near and dear to you was worthless, useless, and has no meaning? Just know that though you may not intend to, you are insisting the same about one of God's own treasures: yourself. How do you think He feels about that? Ask Him.

I take it you have not asked God what you mean to Him. Ask Him, and stop asking yourself.
 

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there is NOTHING God sees good in me NOTHING I am not worthy not good not ANYTHING the only reson I will be able to enter Heaven is becase of Jesus Christ
GOD DOESN'T MAKE JUNK.. he sees alot of good in you.. stop getting down on yourself..
 
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ok tell me why then? what have I done to give me worth nothing aka worthless he has agape love for me he needs no reson to love me he just does
I apologize Wolfgaming if I seem to be sabotaging your thread. But you got me to thinking. As a grandmother of a 17 yr. old, if my grandson were to ask me what has he done that's worthy of my love, I'd have to say just because he is mine. He doesn't have to do anything to hold my heart. I love everything about him. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ Sometimes he forgets to keep in contact with me but I still love him. Sometimes he does something as simple as sending me a happy smiley text, and I feel like I was kissed by the Holy Spirit. It thrills me when I hear from him. I just love him because he is my grandson. I can't explain it. Ever since he was a newborn, I loved him like he was a little prince. I stare at photos of him and tears well up in my eyes because I'm so happy he calls me Grandmom. He can't do anything to make me stop loving him. Just because he is exactly who he is.

If I, being so horribly imperfect and at times so selfish and ignorant, can love my grandson with such depth of heart & soul and see him so precious & worthy & valuable to me, how much more does Father God look at you with love? How deep and wide and magnificent and intense must God's love be for YOU! Why? Because you belong to Him. You are priceless because of Whose you are! You're God's own. That is all the answer you need, dear. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
 
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to all that know me I am Wolfgaming and this is good bye I am going to ask to be I.P banned anyway bye
And youre still here, what's up kid, why the thread. Sis is confused
 

blue_ladybug

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Stop acting like a debbie downer. You know very well that God thinks you are priceless and beautiful. God considers you worthy enough to have created you!! And you're acting like a 2-year old right now. You ARE good enough, because God does NOT make worthless creations.. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start showing us the love of Christ that we all know you have.. :)
 
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there is NOTHING God sees good in me NOTHING I am not worthy not good not ANYTHING the only reson I will be able to enter Heaven is becase of Jesus Christ
Actually, this is quite true. Are you hoping to be seen as extra special? None of us gets that kind of honor. That's where the thankfulness to Jesus comes in. Thankfulness for a chance to walk around on this Earth, continuing to do the things He did and that He asked us to keep doing in His place.

He's no longer here in human form to go down to the local Boy's Club and volunteer to help be a mentor to screwed-over kids whose families have all but crushed the hope of life out of them.... But YOU are.

He's no longer here in human form to go down to the Children's Hospital, and hold babies, or read to little kids, or just spend time with a child who won't have that much more time in this world. (They need volunteers for exactly these things.).... But YOU are.

He's no longer here in human form to go down to the Old Folks Retirement Home, and let the old people see a smiling young face, when all they see day-in-and-day-out are other shriveled-up seniors, waiting to finally die..... But YOU are.

You express a concern that you aren't wanted or needed or appreciated.. Well, there is a whole world out there full of people who feel the same way... and THEY have a reason. You got any desire to do as Jesus asked us all to do, and go make a few hours of THEIR time a little brighter?

Think about it a little.
 
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One thing we all need to do, Kid, is get our minds off "going to Heaven." Jesus didn't call us for just that. He had something MUCH more important in mind. He asked us to start living, right this very minute, for Him.

Contrary to what a lot of people will tell you, that does NOT mean to start "looking all Holy" and obeying a list of rules. It means to live your daily life as He would live His if He had not given up His life so that you are now able to do this mystical thing called, "living for Him."
 
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I wish everyone was humble enough to admit what you just did. Seriously, it is ok to see nothing good in your carnal man... none of us have anything to boast about our selfish flesh. But that's just the beginning. What God started in you and all of us, He is completing day by day, dear brother & friend.

Don't be discouraged, please. If there's anything I've learned in all my years walking with Jesus is that every trial I go through, God is breaking down a barrier in me so that I can experience more freedom and peace. We're growing spiritual, maturing in our mind in Christ, we will have growing pains. Some pains more intense than others.

Please don't go because you feel discouraged. We need you as much as you need us, son. The Word says when one hurts, we all hurt because we're one in the body of Christ. And when one rejoices, we all rejoice! We're like swords, iron sharpening iron.
I know you believe that in your heart.

I can honestly say what a tremendous blessing to have a young man like you here with us. What a fantastic testimony to God that you desire to be in fellowship and friendship with His children. And we desire that friendship & fellowship with YOU, too!

I pray the Lord comfort your heart and ease your mind... I pray you realize you are not alone, that we all experience the same things throughout our lives. Please reconsider, BlackDove/Wolfgang.

I also ask that you forgive me if I posted anything harsh and ignorant that may have effected you. I want to grow and learn to be more like Christ, so you can always feel free to be honest with me, ok?
thank you so much but this is a convicon problem ): I NEED to go I will not be going to hell becase I turned this site into an idol
 
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you know what I can put a nice sugar coting on this but I prob mostly wanted atinchen before I left
 
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you know what I can put a nice sugar coting on this but I prob mostly wanted atinchen before I left
Nothing wrong with that. All of us do.... and some of us call ourselves "adults."
 
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TheBlackDove

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Pride Pride


a very very sad sin witch I have fallen into