Big screw up >_<

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Levichevett

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Has something ever happened thats just made you realize how much of a bad person you are? I screwed up so bad like I was just hanging out with my boyfriend and some of his friends and we were really high and drunk and hes 18 so he was driving too and then we got pulled over by the police so yea that wasnt good. I had to stay in a cell until my parents came to get me and it was so awful. Like I didnt get charged with anything but then the police were trying get my bf in trouble because hes been like properly arrested for it cos hes been caught a few times before and then like because the sex age limit is 16 they were tryna get me to make a statement against him but we never had sex so they cant charge him with that anyway. But like the police saw my cuts and stuff so they gave my parents the name of this hospital place Ill put a link down when I find it but it looks horrible and my parents are thinking of sending me there cos they deal with like drugs and cutting and eating problems and all that but once you go there youre basically just labelled as crazy forever now and like Ive only just started to actually like try at school and my grades are getting better but now all thats messed up cos Im just gonna get sent away. Like I know that I need to stop I dont want to end up in jail or dead or anything but I dont want to go there either I just want things to be normal and happy again.
 
blue_ladybug

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Levi, oh Levi. You are ruining your life hanging out with the types of people like your ex-bf.. Until you get help for your problems, things are NOT going to get better. Let this incident be a lesson for you.. You are headed down a dangerous path, and you're going to regret it one day soon. I think some time away in the hospital would work wonders for you. No outside influences, no temptations to get into trouble, you can just focus on God and getting better. :)
 
damombomb

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It could be the Lord is bringing you to a place where he can get your attention one on one. Listen to him. Life is a learning experience. I would listen and pray his will for your life. we have all made mistakes and learned from them. I would also
turn from the boyfriend thing and live a life pleasing to the Lord. He wants a real relationship with you.
I would cry out to him.
Lord push him forward in you and make yourself real to him, let him hear your voice and understand your words.

Your sister in Christ Jesus (Our Lord).
 
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Levichevett said:
Has something ever happened thats just made you realize how much of a bad person you are? I screwed up so bad like I was just hanging out with my boyfriend and some of his friends and we were really high and drunk and hes 18 so he was driving too and then we got pulled over by the police so yea that wasnt good. I had to stay in a cell until my parents came to get me and it was so awful. Like I didnt get charged with anything but then the police were trying get my bf in trouble because hes been like properly arrested for it cos hes been caught a few times before and then like because the sex age limit is 16 they were tryna get me to make a statement against him but we never had sex so they cant charge him with that anyway. But like the police saw my cuts and stuff so they gave my parents the name of this hospital place Ill put a link down when I find it but it looks horrible and my parents are thinking of sending me there cos they deal with like drugs and cutting and eating problems and all that but once you go there youre basically just labelled as crazy forever now and like Ive only just started to actually like try at school and my grades are getting better but now all thats messed up cos Im just gonna get sent away. Like I know that I need to stop I dont want to end up in jail or dead or anything but I dont want to go there either I just want things to be normal and happy again.
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I can "almost" see speaking this way since your vocabulary has yet to develop. But you went to the trouble of actually typing out that silly Valley Girl jargon nearly a dozen times. That's a lot of work for nothing.
 
blue_ladybug

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Willie-T said:
I can "almost" see speaking this way since your vocabulary has yet to develop. But you went to the trouble of actually typing out that silly Valley Girl jargon nearly a dozen times. That's a lot of work for nothing.
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How is your response even relevant to what Levi wrote? Who cares if he used the word "like" a dozen times. He has more to worry about than correct grammar. :/
 
Willie-T

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blue_ladybug said:
How is your response even relevant to what Levi wrote? Who cares if he used the word "like" a dozen times. He has more to worry about than correct grammar. :/
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In reality, I suspect there is a distinct tie-in to the mess he wants to make of his life.
 
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Levichevett

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In reality, I suspect there is a distinct tie-in to the mess he wants to make of his life.
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What does that even mean? That I get high cos I dont spell?
 
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Levichevett

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If I go Im not going until the beginning of february so ive got some time to decide or not
 
blue_ladybug

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Levichevett said:
If I go Im not going until the beginning of february so ive got some time to decide or not
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February is only about two weeks away, and since you're only 14, your parents CAN have you involuntarily committed. That means THEY sign you in and you're there until you complete the program and they sign you out..
 
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Levichevett

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Well their going on holiday tomorrow and thier not coming back until the 10th so they cant really do anything til then at least so if I get my brother on my side he might able to stop them if they decide to forse me to go but idk i might just go anyway like maybe go for a few days or a week or something and if i dont like it then ill go home
 
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Levichevett said:
Well their going on holiday tomorrow and thier not coming back until the 10th so they cant really do anything til then at least so if I get my brother on my side he might able to stop them if they decide to forse me to go but idk i might just go anyway like maybe go for a few days or a week or something and if i dont like it then ill go home
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Levi, you can't look at the place you're in right now in life and then treat your healing this flippantly. You don't like your life; you're cutting, doing drugs, getting drunk, giving into same-sex attraction, dating an older man that should know better than dating a child, and it's all leaving you miserable. So many of your posts here are cries for help. This (going to the hospital) is really a hope for you. Please give it a chance. Not only do you need an earthly physician but you need the Great Physician. Call on God; He is well-known for turning around any situation and cleaning people up from the inside out. You are in the perfect position to let God work in you, because you already know you're no good on your own; you said so in the first line of the OP. Levi, you are going to have such an amazing testimony when this is all said and done, and God will use you to work in so many people, but you have to surrender to God and His will. Die to yourself and your flesh, and let Him have you.
 
blue_ladybug

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I don't think you understand, Levi. If you go to this place and your parents commit you, you CANNOT sign yourself out until the program is finished. You can't just leave "if you don't like it". That's the whole point of involuntary commitment: so that the person can't jump and run and sign themselves out when they're tired of the program.. And even if YOU voluntarily commit yourself, make sure to stick it out so you get the help you need.
 
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Levichevett

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I don't want to go but I guess I'm going to have to go I don't really have a choice do I and they have so many rules I don't think I'm going to like it much
 
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[FONT=Trebuchet, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Heb. 12.[/FONT]10[FONT=Trebuchet, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. [/FONT]11All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.12[FONT=Trebuchet, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Therefore, strengthen the hands that are weak and the knees that are feeble,…
Levi, God be with you at this time.[/FONT]
 
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Levichevett....You need JESUS CHRIST in your life, living and growing spiritually together as a team. It's evident that you can't continue to live this thing called "LIFE" successfully in the way that GOD intends you to. He has an awesome plan for you. It's totally up to you to discover it by discovering GOD...'nuff said!!!!!
 
blue_ladybug

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​Levi, having to follow the rules at this hospital, will be good for you. It will bring structure and obedience into your life, along with the knowledge that you're doing what's right. It WILL all work out for the best, as long as you keep God in the mix. :)
 
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blue_ladybug said:
​Levi, having to follow the rules at this hospital, will be good for you. It will bring structure and obedience into your life, along with the knowledge that you're doing what's right. It WILL all work out for the best, as long as you keep God in the mix. :)
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Thank you to the person who repped me on this comment. I truly appreciate it. :)
 
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Levichevett

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Some of the rules are so stupid like I think one of thems that you cant go on your phone after 8pm but I have online friends who im really close to who are only on around that time so I wont be able to even talk to them for however long I stay there for and it sucks I care about these people and its just frustrating me so much and they have like a bedtime and stuff Im not 5 I know when Im tired and Ill go to bed when Im tired this probably sounds really pathetic to other people but these things are important to me and I dont see why some of these rules are there when they dont effect the things their trying to help me with but idk Ill see what its like when I get there maybe those rules can be stretched a bit
 
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Haha, well alot of times fighting the rules can lead to trouble : p

I have a job that has me all over the place with my schedule, one day I get to sleep in and not get up for work until 8 am, and then the next day I need to get up at 1 am to get there in time : p You just kinda learn to go with the flow after a bit of time : p

Try to work in things you want to do in between those times, ask your friends to be online earlier, if they can, so you can visit. Try to wake up as early as you can so that you will be tired when its time for bed. It will become easier the more you allow yourself to flow with their times : p
 
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