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Love559

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i have a friend that is always constantly doing anything tto bring others down including me! She is so annoying and bugs alot! I ask god to give me patience with her but it doesnt seem to work! She always tells other people things that are between us just so they can think wrong of me! but i know if i just stop talking to her she will get so mad and tell everyone our secrets! its like she tries to embarass me in every way possible. ive always been such a shy person and she knows that i blush easily and she makes me blush infront of alot of people i feel like she thinks she can control my life and i just need to tell her to stop! i just dont know how becuase i dont want her to get mad !! or is it that im just being too nice??? maybe thats why she think she can just do anything with me because i wont say anything?
 
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Evan15

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That is the work of the ENEMY. I feel you need to get out while you can. Don't let her discourage you.
 
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Ugly

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Well, she Can control your life as long as you worry more about secrets and her getting mad at you.
Your choices are A) let things continue as they are or B) decide that standing up for yourself is worth more than anything she can do against you.
She's controlling and being a bully. There is no way to tell her to stop acting that way that isn't going to make her mad. If you don't do what she wants, and act how she wants, she's going to get mad.
So you have to figure out what is your priority here.
And she obviously has zero concern for you or your feelings, yet you're worried about upsetting her? No wonder she treats you this way, you've trained her that she can walk all over you. Making people mad isn't the end of the world. And if that person walks away because you spoke up for yourself, or if they get mad, that's their problem, not yours. And you're better off without them.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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I think you need to end this farce of a friendship, and stop telling her your "secrets". Loose lips sink ships. :/
 
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Tinuviel

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Man, "friend" is a loose term. We call Jesus, the perfect Son of God who took our place on the cross and endured Hell for us our friend, and we call people like that a friend. That doesn't sound like a healthy atmosphere to be in. Be polite to her if you have to interact, but chuck the friendship and secret telling overboard.
 
Willie-T

Willie-T

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Let's see...... I know someone will blab anything I tell them. So, I tell them things I want kept confidential?

What's the word for still going ahead and doing that?
 
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