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Pardon me for posting on here, but I need etiquette lessons, and couldn't think of anyone better to ask for help.
When is someone no longer "a kid?"
I distinctly remember being shocked when I was in my 20's and Dad told of a story that happened when I was 16 and my younger brother was 5. He ended it with, "And here I was all by myself with two kids in the house."
You probably understand why that was shocking. I looked back at 16-year-old-me with fresh eyes, because 16-year-old-me never conceived I was a kid still, but 20-something-year-old-me did. But that younger brother is still 11 years younger than I am, and he's still "my kid brother." Something weird there when an almost-50-year-old is still imagined as a kid.
So where's the question of etiquette? Do y'all have a concept of how old you have to be to no longer be considered a kid? Maybe it's not an age. Maybe it's something you have to do first. Mine was I was taking care of the house and the "kid brother" after school until Dad got home, so I was doing the duties of a woman -- not some kid. So I do get it could be something other than age.
And would you be insulted if a 60-year-old called you a kid? Dad thinks I'm still his kid, and I accept that gladly, so I'm just trying to learn from the experts what you think of the word "kid?"
Any help is appreciated, because it's been such a long time since I was a teen.
When is someone no longer "a kid?"
I distinctly remember being shocked when I was in my 20's and Dad told of a story that happened when I was 16 and my younger brother was 5. He ended it with, "And here I was all by myself with two kids in the house."
You probably understand why that was shocking. I looked back at 16-year-old-me with fresh eyes, because 16-year-old-me never conceived I was a kid still, but 20-something-year-old-me did. But that younger brother is still 11 years younger than I am, and he's still "my kid brother." Something weird there when an almost-50-year-old is still imagined as a kid.
So where's the question of etiquette? Do y'all have a concept of how old you have to be to no longer be considered a kid? Maybe it's not an age. Maybe it's something you have to do first. Mine was I was taking care of the house and the "kid brother" after school until Dad got home, so I was doing the duties of a woman -- not some kid. So I do get it could be something other than age.
And would you be insulted if a 60-year-old called you a kid? Dad thinks I'm still his kid, and I accept that gladly, so I'm just trying to learn from the experts what you think of the word "kid?"
Any help is appreciated, because it's been such a long time since I was a teen.