Suicide Help

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laoshanlung

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Apr 21, 2015
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Nothing I enjoy is useful to anyone, or worth doing. I have few friends. I'll never have a girlfriend because I'm such a coward. I'm horribly arrogant. I've wasted my childhood playing video games and playing piano, which I dropped after ten years. I wanted to be a zoologist, which is a useless occupation. Studying animals never helped anyone. I've worked too hard. Everyone expects things of me that I'll never be able to accomplish. I fight with my mom, who only ever wants what's best for me. She wants me to grow up, but I know I can't. I'm weak, and I wanted to be stronger, but I know that that's useless too. Strength only lets you live longer, and the longer you live, the more you have to do. And I don't want to do anthing but die and be done with it. Can anyone suggest a painless way to go? I'm scared to die, but I don't know what else to do. Please help me in any way you can.
 
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MadParrotWoman

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Nothing I enjoy is useful to anyone, or worth doing. I have few friends. I'll never have a girlfriend because I'm such a coward. I'm horribly arrogant. I've wasted my childhood playing video games and playing piano, which I dropped after ten years. I wanted to be a zoologist, which is a useless occupation. Studying animals never helped anyone. I've worked too hard. Everyone expects things of me that I'll never be able to accomplish. I fight with my mom, who only ever wants what's best for me. She wants me to grow up, but I know I can't. I'm weak, and I wanted to be stronger, but I know that that's useless too. Strength only lets you live longer, and the longer you live, the more you have to do. And I don't want to do anthing but die and be done with it. Can anyone suggest a painless way to go? I'm scared to die, but I don't know what else to do. Please help me in any way you can.
Hi loashanlung,
You sound pretty normal to me - a young man struggling to find a way in life and fighting with their parents. Does anyone know which direction they want to go at the tender age of 16??? Some folks still don't know when they are 30 and many change careers after the age of 40. Schools put too much pressure on kids to choose a career when they are still unsure. Don't all kids waste their lives playing video games? A Zoologist sounds like a wonderful career, what could be better than spending your life helping animals? My youngest son in 18 now and he has had very few girlfriends, at your age I think he was in the same position as you. Plenty of time for all that stuff and as for friend, one or two "quality" friends is far better than dozens of distant ones. Everything you have said seems totally normal to me, you are just a sensitive young man struggling to find his way but it doesn't last forever so take heart. Sit down, take stock and have a heart-to-heart with your mum, also give it all to God who will prompt you.

16 is a difficult age, you are emerging from a child to a young adult. Please don't even consider ending your life, it is a sin against God who placed you here for a purpose. Think what your death would do to your family and think where you would end up by taking your own life. You have your whole life ahead of you. There are plenty of people here who would be willing to chat with you and help you find your way. God bless you.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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I too have been in a state where I have been looking for a painfree way to go. The truth is:
There are few, if any "good" options. Most methods include a good chance of survival (with potential lasting damage) and / or much pain.

Please try to find something good to cling to. Talk to God, a pastor, a family member. Or, if that feels to "close", try the Samaritans:

If you are in crisis or suicidal and need someone to talk to call the Samaritans branch in your area or 1 (800) 273-TALK.

Samaritans USA

Know that no matter how worthless you FEEL, that does not automatically become true. You are of great worth!
 

JennaLeanne

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Dec 26, 2015
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Yes Amen to the 2 previous posts.. You have been created and formed by the mighty hand of God (psalm 139:13)
God cannot create a mistake. Everything he makes is of great worth.. You my darling have been made for a purpose. . I pray now that you will stop fighting with yourself, that you will see yourself as your heavenly father sees you. One of a kind.. The apple of his eye.. The issue here is the thoughts u think towards yourself... The lies says "your nothing, you have no worth," The truth says "your of infinite worth because Jesus took nails in his hands and feet for you" Let that sink in for a minute. Does that not make you see what a special special bring you are? I pray protection over your mind in the name of Jesus.. Change your thoughts with God's thoughts about you. Jeremiah 29:11 I know the thoughts have have for you declares the Lord. Plans to prosper and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future xxxxx
 
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Russel123

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Nothing I enjoy is useful to anyone, or worth doing. I have few friends. I'll never have a girlfriend because I'm such a coward. I'm horribly arrogant. I've wasted my childhood playing video games and playing piano, which I dropped after ten years. I wanted to be a zoologist, which is a useless occupation. Studying animals never helped anyone. I've worked too hard. Everyone expects things of me that I'll never be able to accomplish. I fight with my mom, who only ever wants what's best for me. She wants me to grow up, but I know I can't. I'm weak, and I wanted to be stronger, but I know that that's useless too. Strength only lets you live longer, and the longer you live, the more you have to do. And I don't want to do anthing but die and be done with it. Can anyone suggest a painless way to go? I'm scared to die, but I don't know what else to do. Please help me in any way you can.
Hi man , I don't think many people feel what you are feeling but the night is just as dark before the dawn , I know you can get through this rough patch if life. Gl man if you want to talk to me personally email me at xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx and just tell me how your day was :)
 
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blue_ladybug

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Feb 21, 2014
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I have asked a mod to remove the email address from your post. Giving out personal info on here is an absolute invitation to all the weirdos, pervs and pedophiles who are on here. :/
 

blue_ladybug

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Feb 21, 2014
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First of all, when a person is totally serious about committing suicide, they do NOT come on a christian forum and ask other christians what the best way to do it is.. Second, EVERY THING you do has value to God. :) Suicide is the coward's way out. And you're not a coward. Life events make you strong, and each event strengthens you even more. Now stop with the poor-me pity party.. You want to be more positive, get off your butt and do something about it!! You WILL NOT find the solution to killing yourself on this forum, or from any of these people.