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Th0mas

Th0mas

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Monnkai said:
I find this sentence to be highly disturbing, especially directed at a 16-year-old. CocoPuff seek God and Righteousness and everything else will fall into place. You are not alone.
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I didn't say anything wrong. If you said to a teenager of any sex "I want to listen to you", do you think it's right that you should be accused of being a pervert ?
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Th0mas said:
blue_ladybug

I have evidence that the person who started this thread sent me a private message after I put my first post in this thread.

I have sent a message to ask for your post to be investigated.
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You're supposedly a 35 year old man, and you accepted and probably replied to a 16 year old? Now THAT is scary. Very scary..
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Th0mas said:
I didn't say anything wrong. If you said to a teenager of any sex "I want to listen to you", do you think it's right that you should be accused of being a pervert ?
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That is just an outright lie. NO ONE on this thread has called you a pervert..
 
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Monnkai

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Th0mas said:
I didn't say anything wrong. If you said to a teenager of any sex "I want to listen to you", do you think it's right that you should be accused of being a pervert ?
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I never called you a pervert even if there was no ill intent it should have been worded differently. You got to be careful when addressing minor's.
 
Th0mas

Th0mas

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1 Timothy 5:

Part of 1 Treat younger men as brothers,

2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Th0mas said:
1 Timothy 5:

Part of 1 Treat younger men as brothers,

2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.
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In public, yes, with other people around. NOT in a PM with a minor child.
 
Th0mas

Th0mas

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blue_ladybug said:
You're supposedly a 35 year old man, and you accepted and probably replied to a 16 year old? Now THAT is scary. Very scary..
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There's no law against a 35 year old Christian talking to 16 year old girl.

Who has 14 year old TemporaryCircumstances been talking to in thread "Speak Your Mind" in Bible Discussion Forum ?
 
Th0mas

Th0mas

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I have evidence that 14 year old TemporaryCircumstances sent me a private message when I didn't ask for it and I was willing to listen and talk with her to share my experience of serving Jesus Christ with her.

Do you think I should have told her she was wrong to send me a private message ?
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Th0mas said:
There's no law against a 35 year old Christian talking to 16 year old girl.

Who has 14 year old TemporaryCircumstances been talking to in thread "Speak Your Mind" in Bible Discussion Forum ?
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She doesn't randomly PM men that she doesn't know, like the OP here did. Nor do the grown men randomly PM her. For one, it's inappropriate, and two, MOST of the men here feel it's best to avoid the appearance of evil.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Th0mas said:
I have evidence that 14 year old TemporaryCircumstances sent me a private message when I didn't ask for it and I was willing to listen and talk with her to share my experience of serving Jesus Christ with her.

Do you think I should have told her she was wrong to send me a private message ?
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This isn't about TC. YES, you should have told her you didn't feel comfortable with speaking to a young teen. If she wants to share experiences about Jesus, then she can do it either in an open forum, or in a PM with us LADIES.
 
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Th0mas

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Cocopuff

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I'm being blamed? I'm sorry I wrote this thread
 
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Cocopuff

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I can read everything thats written. I DIDN'T even know
 
Th0mas

Th0mas

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blue_ladybug said:
This isn't about TC.
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She, a 14 year old girl sent me a private message.

blue_ladybug said:
YES, you should have told her you didn't feel comfortable with speaking to a young teen.
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I disagree, I'm a teacher for the Lord Jesus Christ.

blue_ladybug said:
If she wants to share experiences about Jesus, then she can do it either in an open forum, or in a PM with us LADIES.
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Older men may teach young women in Christianity. I don't judge TemporaryCircumstances was wrong to discuss with me privately.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Cocopuff said:
I'm being blamed? I'm sorry I wrote this thread
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NO, Cocopuff, no one is blaming you. :) Just please be more careful and don't PM men that you don't know. Not everyone on this site has good intentions.
 
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Tinuviel

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Good night! What happens on here when I leave? :p No Cocoapuff, this is in no way your fault.
 
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Monnkai

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Th0mas said:
I didn't say you called me a pervert.



I didn't say anything wrong to the person. What may you think proves precisely that I did say anything wrong to the person ?



I know better than you how to talk to people.
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"I want to listen to you" Read that a few times then tell me that's not an odd thing to say. Maybe you do know how to talk to people better. (Although I'm not seeing it) It's not really the point. It's about being respectful to who you're talking to.
 
Th0mas

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blue_ladybug said:
That is just an outright lie. NO ONE on this thread has called you a pervert..
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I didn't say anyone did call me a pervert. What may you think proves precisely that I did say that ?
 
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