I need advice bad

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Mar 22, 2016
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Thank u so much i forgot to say thank u this message was so thoughtful ncie and caring all i ask is u keep me in ur prayers and me and her r still friends and she forgave me i am working on the weight loss thing and everything but my spiriitual decline is literally hanging on a thread and i do many bad thigns and get angry thoughts and even lash out and it feeels like it is uncontrollable plz pray for me and get some others tto pray for me because i feel as thought God is angry and i read soem scary verses about revelation and i do not want to be scared all the time ;/
 
Sep 17, 2016
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Thank u so much i forgot to say thank u this message was so thoughtful ncie and caring all i ask is u keep me in ur prayers and me and her r still friends and she forgave me i am working on the weight loss thing and everything but my spiriitual decline is literally hanging on a thread and i do many bad thigns and get angry thoughts and even lash out and it feeels like it is uncontrollable plz pray for me and get some others tto pray for me because i feel as thought God is angry and i read soem scary verses about revelation and i do not want to be scared all the time ;/
Well, first I would say there is no scripual evidence He would be mad at you. No one can give you the opinion He would have except, but the scriptures say over and over He cares for you, and understands more. This understanding sees you, it has awareness of what you are, who you are, your challenges and struggles, your gifts and your strengths. It understands you have where your capabilities end and your lack of desire begins, you have weight loss going for you, the girl forgave you, she does not have as much ability to forgive as jesus most certainly and having this means there is a message of forgiveness for you to have in your struggle, you should be happy these things are going well in your life. The limited being you are, do you really think He who is all knowing expects you to be perfect from the start, no, this lesson can be seen even in chapter 3 of bereshiet, the first book in the Bible, Adam and Eve were content on the Earth, And He said, do not eat (imbue) yourself with the tree of knowledge of good and evil, this is to say, do not seek learning even what these things be, it can be seen with reason when they learned the knowledge of these things, He was angry because knowing good and evil, people would end up feeling guilty and like they should be despised like you, and so many other people do, and He did not want it to happen. So, to think He would also be mad at you when, you know but were born with it, and you are trying to make progress, even with this comment, in trying to be better and not do the things you have found as bad, would it not make more sense you are trying to find a way out of the experience you are in, rather than angry for what you are asking help turning away from? There's no reason to think it.

Now, I hope I have helped show you the reasons why you should not assume you are causing anger. I want you to rest and remember you are not perfect, and it is known. You can let the pressure from feeling you are unloved and have to be perfect release off, and feel comfortable in the things you are doing which is to your credit, which are pleasing for hearing of and good for you. Remember the scripture is usually against condemnation, and is promoting forgiveness. With this hearing you are free to feel good, like you were before you ever had these things in around you. You fight doing them, for the times you do not overcome the urges, jesus would say if he were standing there, "you are forgiven, follow me". Let this not be words or far off concepts for you, understand the simple idea of forgiveness, and also comprehend this means what comes to contradict and make you feel condemned, is the enemy, of jesus, you, always. With this let go of your feelings of guilt, anger, condemnation, for your jesus came to tell you these things are not something needed. And remember, not as a far off concept, this person did this for you to be forgiven, it may have been a long time ago, but someone on this website helped you or a person around you helped you, you would feel accepted and loved by the person, well, just as real as I typing you this message, a real person found a way for you to be forgiven, and did that for you just as real as any other help you seen in your life.

So instead feel loved and accepted, and let the feeling go through you and guide our actions, seeing you are loved and respected, go show these things to the world and act with them so you can have happiness.

It is better than what the enemy is doing to you, making you believe your hated, which was putting pressure on you making you upset, making you lash out at people, adding to the reasons you should be more upset with yourself, nah man, stop the cycle, you are forgiven, the pressure on you is to remind you to better and especially now your trying, you are being commended.
 

RoseRed

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Look, you made a mistake but here's the truth, if she was just caught up in your appearance, she wasn't that great to begin with. Definitely tell her the truth now. If she rejects you for that, at least you have been true to yourself.

BTW, text me on here sometime. You sound like a thoughtful and interesting person, I would like to get to know you. :)
 
Mar 22, 2016
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Look, you made a mistake but here's the truth, if she was just caught up in your appearance, she wasn't that great to begin with. Definitely tell her the truth now. If she rejects you for that, at least you have been true to yourself.

BTW, text me on here sometime. You sound like a thoughtful and interesting person, I would like to get to know you. :)
Yea definately :) Yea i told her already and she was actually cool with it she told me she done the same thing cuz she was scared of what people would say since kids can be cruel sometimes so i built up the courage to tell and show her :) i added u!
 
Mar 22, 2016
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Thank u so much! It means a lot to me and ur message here is very caring drop me amessage sometime :)