I am new and was just trying to see if I could possibly get answers from actual Christians that know the bible. I simply am not very happy with where I am today. A few years back I was in an unhealthy abusive relationship. After a year apart we've gotten back together and are trying to work on things a little more. Things are much different now and much easier to handle but now the person I'm with has been having heart problems. She'll get really light headed and nearly pass out. I pray all the time about asking god to protect her and watch over us and honestly I just have been feeling so ignored all over again. I'll pray and keep my faith but then something falls through and fills me with so much doubt and anger. I've just been through a roller coaster of emotions these past three years. Ive had my ups and downs and now I'm just so confused and wondering what all this effort in life is for if its just meant to fall through my hands anyway. I just don't know why I should hold on to the same things in life I seem to keep losing and it saddens me that the only thing I might experience in life is a river of loss and pain. I have no one really to speak to. So I hope that someone can tell me what this could mean and why its happening. Specifically because the first year we had been together and things were so a busive a stranger had stopped me just to tell me I was a blessing. She told me not to forget..it just seemed as though she had a vision of me. But yet I forget nearly every day what it was she said. How could it mean anything when all I see is alot of hurt and misfortune. I just don't understand. So I hope someone hears this and can pray for me. Maybe there's someone around who's prayers are much stronger than mine. I pray nearly every night and always feel like god only hears half or just sets me aside for later and its not fair. All everyone wants is to be fulfilled and now that me and my lover have been on good terms it just seems the devil wants to still take things away from me or that god just doesn't want me to have good things.
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To begin with, God does NOT want you in a homosexual relationship. You belong with a man, not a woman. Break off the relationship and make God happy. Secondly, God hears ALL prayers. He always answers, but sometimes his answer is NO, and you need to accept that. Change your lousy attitude from this one, to a more positive one. God wants you to have good things, BUT he does NOT want you in a same-sex relationship. Repent of that lifestyle and believe that God will forgive you and answer your prayers. If your partner gets lightheaded and dizzy, then she needs to see a doctor.
You guys are wrong. Who are you to tell me that god won't answer my prayer because I have a homosexual relationship. This does not have to even do with our relationship as a whole. I simply am trying to help heal someone that has problems. God does not discriminate others for their choices. Its a shame that some of you on here call yourselves Christians and yet you sit here and tell me god is ignoring me because of my sexual orientation. Shame shame
I will not shame you for your orientation. I won't personally attack you. I wont call you names.
But I will assure you...it is sin. And it has consequences. You can try to convince yourself it isn't sin, you can tell yourself you're fine, you can point a finger at everyone else. But until you come face to face with the sin in YOUR life...God won't bless you. And putting it aside is well worth it in the long run. Well worth it.
But I will assure you...it is sin. And it has consequences. You can try to convince yourself it isn't sin, you can tell yourself you're fine, you can point a finger at everyone else. But until you come face to face with the sin in YOUR life...God won't bless you. And putting it aside is well worth it in the long run. Well worth it.
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There is no one around who's prayers are stronger than yours because God hears all of our prayers. He said call upon him and he will answer. He is always faithful to do that.
Nobody here knows your heart, but God does. He can show you what it is that keeps pulling the rug out from under your feet and causing your life to keep feeling like it's going off track. We all have deep things buried in our hearts that God can shed light on and help us to grow in grace and in strength.
I recommend you spend time in quiet meditation alone with the Lord and ask him to please reveal anything that may be holding your life back. I pray with you that the Lord God open your eyes and heart and help you release all your cares and worries to him that this discouragement and grief not rule your mind. May the light of God shine in your life and make you free, in Jesus' name.
Nobody here knows your heart, but God does. He can show you what it is that keeps pulling the rug out from under your feet and causing your life to keep feeling like it's going off track. We all have deep things buried in our hearts that God can shed light on and help us to grow in grace and in strength.
I recommend you spend time in quiet meditation alone with the Lord and ask him to please reveal anything that may be holding your life back. I pray with you that the Lord God open your eyes and heart and help you release all your cares and worries to him that this discouragement and grief not rule your mind. May the light of God shine in your life and make you free, in Jesus' name.
B
How many people in this world do you think are worse off than you or your friend, rather it be Christians or not.?
Or about life in general in third world countries or people who have major problems as well,,, like a heart that has failed already and they are waiting for a heart transplant that may not come in time. Or missing limbs etc..
when ever I think WOW my life is in the toilet there is always someone else who's life went down the toilet real fast.
Or about life in general in third world countries or people who have major problems as well,,, like a heart that has failed already and they are waiting for a heart transplant that may not come in time. Or missing limbs etc..
when ever I think WOW my life is in the toilet there is always someone else who's life went down the toilet real fast.
You are walking as you see fit, instead of seeking the Lord on His will for your life. Is it any wonder it is in shambles? True peace is found as you walk in the path the Lord has set. He loves you dearly, you are a pearl. He showed me a pearl and many horses shooting out from underneath it. He also showed a pearl as a spider came from underneath it and it attacked the pearl and cracked it. It seems to me you have a choice to make and you could be a blessing to many or continue in the path you have set... cracked.
The Father truly loves you, dearly. You think that He is out to punish you, but in actuality He wishes to shepherd your life, guide and protect you as like a lamb. Remember, Jesus came to save not condemn the world. The Lord cares for the well-being of both you and the one you love. It very well may be His will for you to separate from this person, and as hard as it might be it is for the better. If you truly care for this person, separation may be the most loving thing to do so that they may walk uprightly and in God's righteous standards so that they may live a life with a sense of fulfillment.
Are you into charity or giving? Maybe in this way you are meant to be a blessing. I get a feeling you love kittens and cats. Animals in general, it seems. It kind of just perforates your heart, pierces. I am not sure why that was highlighted but you'll know. I hope this ministers to you in some way. Seek the Lord and His plans for your life. In that you will find joy and peace. VVhere you are now you have experienced what your own decisions lead to, so why don't you try God? God bless.
The Father truly loves you, dearly. You think that He is out to punish you, but in actuality He wishes to shepherd your life, guide and protect you as like a lamb. Remember, Jesus came to save not condemn the world. The Lord cares for the well-being of both you and the one you love. It very well may be His will for you to separate from this person, and as hard as it might be it is for the better. If you truly care for this person, separation may be the most loving thing to do so that they may walk uprightly and in God's righteous standards so that they may live a life with a sense of fulfillment.
Are you into charity or giving? Maybe in this way you are meant to be a blessing. I get a feeling you love kittens and cats. Animals in general, it seems. It kind of just perforates your heart, pierces. I am not sure why that was highlighted but you'll know. I hope this ministers to you in some way. Seek the Lord and His plans for your life. In that you will find joy and peace. VVhere you are now you have experienced what your own decisions lead to, so why don't you try God? God bless.
Mini... I don't judge people. I can tell you love God, and are a kind and loving person. But it is a sin to be homosexual. Now don't get mad, I am simply trying to make you aware
levitacus 18:22"do not lie with a man as with a woman, that is a detestable sin
levitacus 18:22"do not lie with a man as with a woman, that is a detestable sin
NO ONE HERE has said that God isn't answering your prayers because of your sexual preference. BUT he is NOT happy with you being in a gay relationship. You need to let God heal your friend, and let him heal YOU also. No one here is gonna tell you what you WANT to hear, which is that being homosexual is alright. It's NOT alright, and you as a "christian", should know that. End the relationship, get right with God, and then maybe you'll be able to hear him speak to you. Don't blame us for calling attention to the wrongness of your same-sex relationship, you NEED it pointed out to you so you'll know that it IS an abomination to God. You CANNOT be a christian AND be an active lesbian also. You cannot serve God and satan at the same time.
K
None of us can tell you God wont answer your prayer, God says he wont answer your prayer. You cant willfully disobey God and then expect him to answer your prayer. Im sorry,but someone has not told you the truth. God does discriminate when it comes to willful sin. Whoever is telling you God is ok with you being gay has lied to you. And it is a dangerous lie. I hope you will look into the Bible for yourself and really seek the truth. Your life is a mess? There is only one answer. If you accept Jesus He will heal you and your friend. But He cannot accept willful sin. He loves you and He has a better path. Seek the truth.