my older sister did okay in school and she really worked.
i excelled and barely cracked a book.
when the report cards came home, mom would say to my older sister, why can't you be more like ellie? (yuk!)
oh, how i disliked that. it hardly made for good sibling relationship.
thank God, many years later, my sister forgave me and we're friends now, but all the sibling rivalry i can do without.
(i do get your point, it just reminded me of that, lol)