Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
Results 21 to 35 of 35
Like Tree40Likes

Christian Teens Forum

Teenage Jesus freaks (and Jesus freak wannabes): join/start a discussion here; give/seek advice and encouragement.

Thread: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

  1. #21
    Senior Member missy2014's Avatar
    Join Date
    August 20th, 2014
    Age
    28
    Posts
    2,919
    Blog Entries
    7
    Rep Power
    16

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by missy2014 View Post
    Warning she'll smooch ya all over with red
    Sharing Gods love all this love in the house girls group hug : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bxIYgjtveFs
    Romans 14:11 [Full Chapter]
    For it is written: “As I live, says the Lord, Every knee shall bow to Me, And every tongue shall confess to God.”

  2. #22
    Senior Member missy2014's Avatar
    Join Date
    August 20th, 2014
    Age
    28
    Posts
    2,919
    Blog Entries
    7
    Rep Power
    16

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by TemporaryCircumstances View Post
    I was a mistake to my parents,
    Not a blessing.
    As much as I would like for this to be true it's not.
    I was a blessing to God but a mistake to my parents.
    Truth hurts sometimes
    your very strong lil sis youve been thru a hellish life and look what the Lord has done hes a great Saviour, God father and freund just threw in a bit of German for ya be rewarded for you hanging in there now and in heaven
    Quote Originally Posted by TemporaryCircumstances View Post
    I was a blessing to the Father,
    A mistake to my parents.
    Romans 14:11 [Full Chapter]
    For it is written: “As I live, says the Lord, Every knee shall bow to Me, And every tongue shall confess to God.”

  3. #23
    Senior Member missy2014's Avatar
    Join Date
    August 20th, 2014
    Age
    28
    Posts
    2,919
    Blog Entries
    7
    Rep Power
    16

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by 1meBERMUDA View Post
    Will some men ... be the fathers and support the children instead being in front a judge to decide their fate. BE MEN...

    will some women not be deceive by smooth and charming men with hot air... then never be swept off their feet... instead be on welfare assistance or just living life and maintaing without babies' fathers...

    children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..


    DO the math

    in the house. Take away the .., and there u have left .
    Try not to be a know it all you should be more sensitive God is an uncomparable God who I love to drops to my knees and worship He is so caring. im getting distracted but I expect more from a 40 year old.
    Romans 14:11 [Full Chapter]
    For it is written: “As I live, says the Lord, Every knee shall bow to Me, And every tongue shall confess to God.”

  4. #24
    Senior Member TemporaryCircumstances's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 29th, 2016
    Age
    14
    Posts
    4,019
    Blog Entries
    2
    Rep Power
    69

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by Demi777 View Post
    *smooches lil sis all over the face with red lipstick and turns her toward a mirror
    Your loved! Your a blessing not just to our Father but many people here. He made you our strong lil sister and we love you to bits. Greater is the one who is in you than the one who is in the world.
    ((huuuugs))


    Thank You Demi
    (Hugs)
    Demi777 likes this.
    God Bless,
    Natania ♡
    Your Frog President
    #froglivesmatter
    #greenlivesmatter

  5. #25
    Senior Member TemporaryCircumstances's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 29th, 2016
    Age
    14
    Posts
    4,019
    Blog Entries
    2
    Rep Power
    69

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by missy2014 View Post
    your very strong lil sis youve been thru a hellish life and look what the Lord has done hes a great Saviour, God father and freund just threw in a bit of German for ya be rewarded for you hanging in there now and in heaven

    Thank you Missy
    missy2014 likes this.
    God Bless,
    Natania ♡
    Your Frog President
    #froglivesmatter
    #greenlivesmatter

  6. #26
    Banned
    Join Date
    December 22nd, 2016
    Age
    41
    Posts
    120
    Blog Entries
    5
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by TemporaryCircumstances View Post
    I was a mistake to my parents,
    Not a blessing.
    As much as I would like for this to be true it's not.
    I was a blessing to God but a mistake to my parents.
    Truth hurts sometimes
    It's amazing that you got what I had type unlike some other Christians with their pharisee like attitude - self righteous.

    Amen

  7. #27
    Banned
    Join Date
    December 22nd, 2016
    Age
    41
    Posts
    120
    Blog Entries
    5
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by missy2014 View Post
    Try not to be a know it all you should be more sensitive God is an uncomparable God who I love to drops to my knees and worship He is so caring. im getting distracted but I expect more from a 40 year old.

    Obviously u r a pharisee like minded Christian..

    Proverbs 31:28 ►

    New International Version
    Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:

  8. #28
    Senior Member Ugly's Avatar
    Join Date
    April 19th, 2011
    Age
    41
    Posts
    18,113
    Rep Power
    121

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by 1meBERMUDA View Post
    Obviously u r a pharisee like minded Christian..

    Proverbs 31:28 ►

    New International Version
    Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
    Seems your translation of 'pharisee' is anyone who disagrees with you. So a woman encourages you to be more sensitive, talks about how God is incomparable and she falls to her knees and worships Him, to you, is pharisee minded?
    When various people are all giving you the same response, speaking against your post, it's all of them that are pharisees, and you are the one that's right. Then you call Them self righteous.
    Then to prove your humble yet superior spiritual status you quote a scripture about a married woman to a single woman... though that scripture has no relevance to anything being discussed.

    You, who showed up on this site and immediately took on the role of teacher, believing it is your obligation and right to inform all others as to the correct way to live spiritual lives. And deeming those who are not your disciples as 'pharisee minded'. Now it's all coming together.
    Give me a new voice
    Give me a heart for repentance and make it stay
    Cause I've idolized my words
    It's all my fault
    But it's comfortable
    ~Poured Out, Rival Choir~

  9. #29
    Senior Member Desertsrose's Avatar
    Join Date
    October 24th, 2016
    Age
    63
    Posts
    1,531
    Rep Power
    89

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by TemporaryCircumstances View Post
    I was a mistake to my parents,
    Not a blessing.
    As much as I would like for this to be true it's not.
    I was a blessing to God but a mistake to my parents.
    Truth hurts sometimes

    So true! It hurts!

    My father divorced my mother for a woman 15 years younger than he was. It's been passed around within the family that he left because he didn't want all of us kids.

    After he left, we never saw him again, he never wrote, no birthday cards, no phone calls. I was around 8 and although I continued to do all the things kids do which is to adapt to whatever life brings them, there was a deep hole in my heart that stayed empty. I felt so unloved, unwanted, rejected.

    The weird thing is that out of those 8 years, I only remember one interaction with my dad. It was my birthday and he whispered in my ear, always wish for this, that you will always be a good girl.

    This might sound corney, but every year thereafter I remembered his words and always wished for that same wish year after year and even into my late adult years.

    Oh how much we need the love of our parents, if only they could remember what it was like when they were young.

    But our parents were broken people without the Lord. And sometimes parents are still very broken while knowing the Lord. We don't heal right away. It's all a process of growing and maturing in the Lord.

    As parents to our own children, my husband and I were broken people, both with parents who were divorced. We didn't parent perfectly either, but we did love our kids very much!

    I saw where you mentioned how important the relationship with our father is whether good or bad. Another, how true!

    So much so that I ended up idolizing my dad, worshipping him to the point of raising him to pedestal status. For years I did that, I so wanted him to show me love, I just wanted to be loved.

    I'm sure my mom loved me, but she had her hands full with 7 of us. And now she had to go to work.

    Also, I was born a year after one of my sisters and so my mom couldn't give her attention to both of us. My older sister ended up mothering me and as a teenager with her own problems, she didn't really know how to or even want to love on me. So I missed out on the love of a nurturing mom too.

    Hopefully some day your parents will change. I wanted to share my story with you and let you know how hurtful it was to go beyond desiring fatherly or motherly love to the point of allowing it to become obsessive. I allowed it to become too important and began idolizing him even after becoming a Christian.

    In looking back, as a believer, I needed God's Fatherly love, not my dads anymore.

    When I hear God is my father and read the scriptures that actually call Him, 'Father,' it does something inside my innermost being. That love melts away past anger, the past hurt and the loneliness.

    He fills me with so much, love, joy and peace knowing that I have a real Father in heaven. It's supernatural. He's always available, He's the essence of love. If I feel alone, He reminds me He'll never leave me, He'll never forsake me.

    I'm so sorry that you're parents don't see you as a blessing. *HUGS*!

    My guess is that they don't know the Lord yet? Are they divorced? Do you still live with them?

    I'll be praying for you and your family, Natania. I don't feel your particular pain, but I share in it with you and grieve with you!

    Much love!



    He has told you, O man, what is good;

    And what does the Lord require of you
    But to do justice, to love kindness,
    And to walk humbly with your God?
    Micah 6:8




  10. #30
    Senior Member Tinuviel's Avatar
    Join Date
    June 6th, 2015
    Age
    18
    Posts
    2,847
    Blog Entries
    3
    Rep Power
    37

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by TemporaryCircumstances View Post
    I was a mistake to my parents,
    Not a blessing.
    As much as I would like for this to be true it's not.
    I was a blessing to God but a mistake to my parents.
    Truth hurts sometimes
    Oh...I am so sorry Natania! I love you, sis!
    Demi777 likes this.
    Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.
    ~James 1:17

  11. #31
    HisHolly
    Guest

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Unfortunately not everyone cares about the byproduct of sex which is children.. they just want to feel good..
    Demi777 likes this.

  12. #32
    Senior Member TemporaryCircumstances's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 29th, 2016
    Age
    14
    Posts
    4,019
    Blog Entries
    2
    Rep Power
    69

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by Desertsrose View Post

    So true! It hurts!

    My father divorced my mother for a woman 15 years younger than he was. It's been passed around within the family that he left because he didn't want all of us kids.

    After he left, we never saw him again, he never wrote, no birthday cards, no phone calls. I was around 8 and although I continued to do all the things kids do which is to adapt to whatever life brings them, there was a deep hole in my heart that stayed empty. I felt so unloved, unwanted, rejected.

    The weird thing is that out of those 8 years, I only remember one interaction with my dad. It was my birthday and he whispered in my ear, always wish for this, that you will always be a good girl.

    This might sound corney, but every year thereafter I remembered his words and always wished for that same wish year after year and even into my late adult years.

    Oh how much we need the love of our parents, if only they could remember what it was like when they were young.

    But our parents were broken people without the Lord. And sometimes parents are still very broken while knowing the Lord. We don't heal right away. It's all a process of growing and maturing in the Lord.

    As parents to our own children, my husband and I were broken people, both with parents who were divorced. We didn't parent perfectly either, but we did love our kids very much!

    I saw where you mentioned how important the relationship with our father is whether good or bad. Another, how true!

    So much so that I ended up idolizing my dad, worshipping him to the point of raising him to pedestal status. For years I did that, I so wanted him to show me love, I just wanted to be loved.

    I'm sure my mom loved me, but she had her hands full with 7 of us. And now she had to go to work.

    Also, I was born a year after one of my sisters and so my mom couldn't give her attention to both of us. My older sister ended up mothering me and as a teenager with her own problems, she didn't really know how to or even want to love on me. So I missed out on the love of a nurturing mom too.

    Hopefully some day your parents will change. I wanted to share my story with you and let you know how hurtful it was to go beyond desiring fatherly or motherly love to the point of allowing it to become obsessive. I allowed it to become too important and began idolizing him even after becoming a Christian.

    In looking back, as a believer, I needed God's Fatherly love, not my dads anymore.

    When I hear God is my father and read the scriptures that actually call Him, 'Father,' it does something inside my innermost being. That love melts away past anger, the past hurt and the loneliness.

    He fills me with so much, love, joy and peace knowing that I have a real Father in heaven. It's supernatural. He's always available, He's the essence of love. If I feel alone, He reminds me He'll never leave me, He'll never forsake me.

    I'm so sorry that you're parents don't see you as a blessing. *HUGS*!

    My guess is that they don't know the Lord yet? Are they divorced? Do you still live with them?

    I'll be praying for you and your family, Natania. I don't feel your particular pain, but I share in it with you and grieve with you!

    Much love!



    I feel ya!
    Just another wonderful example of how you're never alone, there is always someone out there who feels what you're going through.

    My parents:
    My father is abusive, he tried to choke me while I was in the hospital, he constantly used "physical punishment methods" at home, he duck taped my mouth constantly when he wanted me to be quiet (which is actually what took me out of his house, because apparently being beat with a weed Wacker isn't bad enough)

    My mum married an alcoholic who had awful anger,
    He would constantly throw things at me, chairs, beer bottles, when he was mad he would get up in the middle of the night and throw at the food outside so we had nothing to eat.

    My and my mum can't be in the same room without arguing,
    Heck I jumped out of a moving car a few weeks ago because of how bad the arguing got.

    My step mother,
    and step father who I currently live with half the time....
    Welll....
    That's complicated

    I now live with my mom half the time which is a new arrangement
    God Bless,
    Natania ♡
    Your Frog President
    #froglivesmatter
    #greenlivesmatter

  13. #33
    Senior Member TemporaryCircumstances's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 29th, 2016
    Age
    14
    Posts
    4,019
    Blog Entries
    2
    Rep Power
    69

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by Tinuviel View Post
    Oh...I am so sorry Natania! I love you, sis!
    It's all good sis,
    I've got a wonderful Father who loves me and you very much
    Tinuviel likes this.
    God Bless,
    Natania ♡
    Your Frog President
    #froglivesmatter
    #greenlivesmatter

  14. #34
    Senior Member Desertsrose's Avatar
    Join Date
    October 24th, 2016
    Age
    63
    Posts
    1,531
    Rep Power
    89

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by TemporaryCircumstances View Post
    I feel ya!
    Just another wonderful example of how you're never alone, there is always someone out there who feels what you're going through.

    My parents:
    My father is abusive, he tried to choke me while I was in the hospital, he constantly used "physical punishment methods" at home, he duck taped my mouth constantly when he wanted me to be quiet (which is actually what took me out of his house, because apparently being beat with a weed Wacker isn't bad enough)

    My mum married an alcoholic who had awful anger,
    He would constantly throw things at me, chairs, beer bottles, when he was mad he would get up in the middle of the night and throw at the food outside so we had nothing to eat.

    My and my mum can't be in the same room without arguing,
    Heck I jumped out of a moving car a few weeks ago because of how bad the arguing got.

    My step mother,
    and step father who I currently live with half the time....
    Welll....
    That's complicated

    I now live with my mom half the time which is a new arrangement
    I'm so sorry, Natania! I hope you're safe now! Do you have siblings? Are the safe?

    Without going into details I personally understand the choking and how scary that is!

    One of our foster children had a dad that was an alchoholic and he use to beat him. Another tough little guy had a mom who married a murderer. Like yours, there's so many heart-breaking stories out there.

    So you have a mom, a mum, a stepfather and step mother? If I may ask, how did you come to know the Lord? If I'm being too nosey, just say so or if you don't want to talk about things just ignore my questions.

    I will be praying that this new year truly brings you a peaceful home life filled with love.

    I don't intend to bring a false hope or white wash anything either. But - All things are possible with God. And it looks like you have an army of supportive prayer warriors here.

    He has told you, O man, what is good;

    And what does the Lord require of you
    But to do justice, to love kindness,
    And to walk humbly with your God?
    Micah 6:8




  15. #35
    Senior Member TemporaryCircumstances's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 29th, 2016
    Age
    14
    Posts
    4,019
    Blog Entries
    2
    Rep Power
    69

    Default Re: children are never mistakes... instead they are BLESSINGS..

    Quote Originally Posted by Desertsrose View Post
    I'm so sorry, Natania! I hope you're safe now! Do you have siblings? Are the safe?

    Without going into details I personally understand the choking and how scary that is!

    One of our foster children had a dad that was an alchoholic and he use to beat him. Another tough little guy had a mom who married a murderer. Like yours, there's so many heart-breaking stories out there.

    So you have a mom, a mum, a stepfather and step mother? If I may ask, how did you come to know the Lord? If I'm being too nosey, just say so or if you don't want to talk about things just ignore my questions.

    I will be praying that this new year truly brings you a peaceful home life filled with love.

    I don't intend to bring a false hope or white wash anything either. But - All things are possible with God. And it looks like you have an army of supportive prayer warriors here.

    Haha
    Lots of questions,

    Yes I have siblings of whom I love very very much.
    Yes they are safe


    Well, my father married my mom got divorced, and then married my step mom and later divorced her as well (which is who I live with half time now, her and her husband who I call my step father)
    And then my father is now married to another person, so my second step mom.
    And my mom married of course my step father.

    Well, my step mother used to be Christian and she took me to church and my Pastor became like my father figure so even when she stopped being Christian and going to church he kinda kept me there

    Yes,
    I am truly blessed to have so many wonderful people praying, and encouraging here
    God Bless,
    Natania ♡
    Your Frog President
    #froglivesmatter
    #greenlivesmatter

Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12

Similar Threads

  1. Mistakes
    By AzureAfire in forum Christian Singles Forum
    Replies: 19
    Last Post: May 6th, 2013, 05:11 AM
  2. *BLESSINGS! I am SO blessed! What are your blessings?
    By BlessedLovedByGod in forum Miscellaneous
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: April 16th, 2013, 06:27 PM
  3. Who Would You Be Without Your Mistakes?
    By seoulsearch in forum Christian Singles Forum
    Replies: 23
    Last Post: April 5th, 2013, 03:17 PM
  4. Others mistakes
    By Pinemeadowsgeorge in forum Christian Young Adults Forum
    Replies: 13
    Last Post: February 11th, 2011, 10:16 PM
  5. Mistakes
    By sensitive in forum Bible Discussion Forum
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: February 5th, 2011, 03:01 PM