Troubles with sins

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Lady blue I really don't care about what you think or how many people call/email. I'm a little more concerned with helping this little girl from a pervert then your 2 sick cents
 

blue_ladybug

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She needs to tell someone in authority then. Cop, priest, somebody.. And how is her calling you going to help her? :confused:
 

blue_ladybug

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Sick cents, huh? Didn't know money could be sick.. :)
 

Tommy379

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I found the sentence, "Choke the life from them and sleep like a baby afterwards" to be mildly disturbing, but I'm just gonna say this...there's a reason God made some sins punishable by death. There is no excuse for this stuff. It makes me sick and do you know what is worse? There is often such a thing as repeat offenders.
Well as long as it was only mildly disturbing, I guess we are still good.
 
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Because I know a good Christian family in B.C. And I also know that there aren't a lot of good people out there. If she can tell the cops great, but someone in her position might have a hard time doing that. Have some understanding can you amagine if your father or close relative is doing something like this to you at 13 how hard that could be to tell the police? You probably don't, but if you want to discuss then email or call me cause I think a lot of the comments on here probably are just scarring her. Have some understanding.
 
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Lady blue I really don't care about what you think or how many people call/email. I'm a little more concerned with helping this little girl from a pervert then your 2 sick cents
Actually you come across as the pervert. Maybe you are sincere, but the BIBLE does say 'avoid all appearances of evil'. Clearly people view your request to have a minor privately contact you as looking evil. And that rather than expressing an understanding you lash out at people who express concern for this, making your motives and character look even more suspect. If you don't have a level of understanding to see how wrong your offer looks and treat people respectfully who question you over it, not to mention try to give you an awareness that your information could be public, in an effort to help you, then what about you reflects any qualities that would be of benefit to this young girl? You have only served to make yourself look worse, both in the eyes of the users, and possibly in the eyes of the moderators.

I have reported your post asking a minor to contact you privately, and i'm sure i'm not the only one.
 

blue_ladybug

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Because I know a good Christian family in B.C. And I also know that there aren't a lot of good people out there. If she can tell the cops great, but someone in her position might have a hard time doing that. Have some understanding can you amagine if your father or close relative is doing something like this to you at 13 how hard that could be to tell the police? You probably don't, but if you want to discuss then email or call me cause I think a lot of the comments on here probably are just scarring her. Have some understanding.

Obviously you don't know me very well, since you just joined. I've been in that situation, so don't tell me to have some understanding. She isn't alone in this, but the people here can't physically help her and take her to the authorities to report this guy. I know exactly how she feels, as do some of the other teens here who have gone through the same thing as her. Read my rape testimony sometime.. The same guy who raped me, turned out to be my cousin on my step-aunt's side.. And I didn't find THAT out until several years afterward..
 
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Because I know a good Christian family in B.C. And I also know that there aren't a lot of good people out there. If she can tell the cops great, but someone in her position might have a hard time doing that. Have some understanding can you amagine if your father or close relative is doing something like this to you at 13 how hard that could be to tell the police? You probably don't, but if you want to discuss then email or call me cause I think a lot of the comments on here probably are just scarring her. Have some understanding.
Annabelle do NOT contact this man. He is a complete stranger and shows a lack of character. His motives are Not proven to be honest and the more he speaks the more suspect he becomes. If he had a true concern for your well being he would not need to be rude and disrespectful to others looking out for you. And he could potentially find a healthier, safer way to find you help if he were sincere.

If he tries to message you privately report him to the moderators.
 
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Um...maybe if we want to carry on this discussion elsewhere we should make a different thread? this is pretty serious stuff and we should probably be restraining our comments to the OP.
 
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The lack of understanding in the comments on here disgusts me.

I do not know if you are over 18 or not. But if you are. giving a 13 year old your phone number (no matter what the circumstances or reason is) who is being abused by another man, is not a very good idea, It is not christlike, It sounds like you are a pervert yourself *we are told to be ABOVE REPROACH)and I believe in the United states could get you in serious trouble with the law.
 
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Hello all,

I am a new to the christian world. I really don't know how to put it.

I know its a sin to have had sex before marriage, but what if its rape? even by your own relative?
He says its not sinful that he is just teaching me how to be obedient for when i get married. I have no other close family, and don't know where to go.
He's a rapist. He's already a no good, creepy degenerate, so why would you trust him?

Report him!!! I don't care if you tell your pastor, the cops, a teacher, just report and keep reporting until the jackass is taken away in handcuffs never to return again.

And, no! Rape isn't sex, so it can't be adultery. It is a crime by a very sick disgusting jackass. It's not even sex to him. It's controlling you. It's like being kidnapped. Do you think someone targeted for kidnapping is also breaking the law? Noper. Neither are you.

But let me be clear, if you haven't caught on to what I'm telling you, that guy is a sicko, piece of crap, jackass. Stay away from him until you can have the cops haul him away!

I'm not fond of the children's care in the US, (and don't know how Canada does), but it cannot be worse than what you have now. Let the authorities find you a place to go. Anywhere is better than there.
 
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Annabelle, do NOT contact the guy who gave you his email address. Pedophiles do that. No sane man of God would ever do that online to a young girl being raped at home.
 
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Actually you come across as the pervert. Maybe you are sincere, but the BIBLE does say 'avoid all appearances of evil'. Clearly people view your request to have a minor privately contact you as looking evil. And that rather than expressing an understanding you lash out at people who express concern for this, making your motives and character look even more suspect. If you don't have a level of understanding to see how wrong your offer looks and treat people respectfully who question you over it, not to mention try to give you an awareness that your information could be public, in an effort to help you, then what about you reflects any qualities that would be of benefit to this young girl? You have only served to make yourself look worse, both in the eyes of the users, and possibly in the eyes of the moderators.

I have reported your post asking a minor to contact you privately, and i'm sure i'm not the only one.
​You aren't.
 
Jan 3, 2017
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I'm sorry if I come across as a pervert but I am anything but. I've never had sex before and I have no "skeletons" in my closet. How many of you guys can say that? Also who calls themselves ugly and has a creepy eye for a post? We can all judge and think evil of others but before you do look at your sexual history and tell me you haven't sinned... for those that are acussing me I ask you to take a look at Canada and see how far I live in Saskatoon from anywhere in B.C. I know a preacher/evangelist who is a very Godly man. He knows good Christians in probably every town in B.C. I also know a very Godly couple in Kamloops I'd like for this young girl to have a good Christian support. That is why I put my # here. God Bless you all in Jesus name.
 
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Am I the only one here with effective Troll-Radar?
 

maxwel

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#38
Am I the only one here with effective Troll-Radar?
Yeah.


I don't think a lot of 13 year old girls go on Christian forums and casually chat about being some old guy's pedophilic sex slave.


But hey, maybe it's just me... maybe this is perfectly normal.
 

maxwel

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Let me clarify.

Young girls get abused; that's real.
Abused girls need help; that's real.

But, this particular post just didn't seem believable to me.