Troubles with sins

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Christianrailroadguy said:
I'm sorry if I come across as a pervert but I am anything but. I've never had sex before and I have no "skeletons" in my closet. How many of you guys can say that? Also who calls themselves ugly and has a creepy eye for a post? We can all judge and think evil of others but before you do look at your sexual history and tell me you haven't sinned... for those that are acussing me I ask you to take a look at Canada and see how far I live in Saskatoon from anywhere in B.C. I know a preacher/evangelist who is a very Godly man. He knows good Christians in probably every town in B.C. I also know a very Godly couple in Kamloops I'd like for this young girl to have a good Christian support. That is why I put my # here. God Bless you all in Jesus name.
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Since you keep wanting to bring up your expertise, along with how disgusting everyone else is, yeah, here's a clue. I was a counselor at a drug and alcohol rehab after going through it, and then a counselor at a runaway/throwaway shelter. I really do totally get you are saying exactly what a pedophile would say. And, yeah, I also get both of you could be playing troll together.

But, just in case you're not, and she's not...

Annabelle, stay away from this guy!

Did I miss anything yet?
 
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Maxwell you do have a good point there. The thoughts crossed my mind to start with and I should have thought about it more.
 
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Christianrailroadguy said:
Maxwell you do have a good point there. The thoughts crossed my mind to start with and I should have thought about it more.
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Well, it's not gospel... it's just how things seemed to Willie and me.
 
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Part of me has a two count, but what if I'm wrong?
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Exactly. But, since she hasn't answered me in private chat, I'm kinda assuming a hit-and-run troll.
 
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Thank you all for the support, I do feel trapped I think the reason I have not talked to anyone is because he is the only family I know. I have no other blood relatives that I know of. Im scared to be put into the foster system, my friend is in the foster system and she goes from home to home.
 
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I was away from any computer since I posted. Those who think this is a troll thats fine, Ill be having a sit down with my priest on Sunday to try and tell him.

Thank you again for those who gave me the advice you did.
 
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God bless you lil sis :) youll be fine ((hugs))

annabelle2-2 said:
Thank you all for the support, I do feel trapped I think the reason I have not talked to anyone is because he is the only family I know. I have no other blood relatives that I know of. Im scared to be put into the foster system, my friend is in the foster system and she goes from home to home.
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annabelle2-2 said:
Thank you all for the support, I do feel trapped I think the reason I have not talked to anyone is because he is the only family I know. I have no other blood relatives that I know of. Im scared to be put into the foster system, my friend is in the foster system and she goes from home to home.
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I won't lie to you,
Foster care sucks,
But rape. You can't live with that.
I know. Trust me dear. I am only a year old than you, I've been in your place. You can't be there. Rape is not okay....
 
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This is typical narcissistic troll behavior....... "I'll bet I am good enough to bring just about every one of these suckers back to feeling sorry for me... even though I almost tipped my hand."
 
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Willie, even if she IS a troll, it doesn't hurt for us to give advice on this matter. Several others here are going through the same thing..
 
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blue_ladybug said:
Willie, even if she IS a troll, it doesn't hurt for us to give advice on this matter. Several others here are going through the same thing..
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Because this is the kind of approach I have worked with over the years, I have come to find that I look at things a bit differently.

I seldom give much advice up front. I prefer to encourage the client to talk and tell. You would be surprised how much you can learn about what you are dealing with when they are sort of 'forced' to talk about what they originally wanted YOU to give them all sorts of answers for. (And do Christians ever LOVE to dole out the advice and their ideas of 'answers' when they are still dozens of questions (posts) away from actually even knowing what is really going on.)
 
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I knew you would understand and appreciate that, Kody.
 
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Christianrailroadguy said:
Annabelle just want you to know there are people you can contact to help you and what your family member is doing is messed up. The Lord does not want this for you and this can lead to a lot of confusion and complications in your life, however Jesus Christ is the great healer and he can deliver you completely. I know how this can affect a family because it's happened to my own sisters. If you need someone to talk to I am from Canada and I know good Christians in most provinces who can help. Your welcome to call or txt me as well. My email is [email protected]. Ph # 306-370-4686. God loves you very much Child ������
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I agree with Christianrailroadguy. Annabelle, I PMed you.
 
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annabelle2-2 said:
Thank you all for the support, I do feel trapped I think the reason I have not talked to anyone is because he is the only family I know. I have no other blood relatives that I know of. Im scared to be put into the foster system, my friend is in the foster system and she goes from home to home.
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Someone I love dearly grew up in an abusive home. Every kind of abuse possible he lived with growing up (including he was raped by two cousins when he was 18 months old, his stepfather raped him at 14 years old, and his mother was "sleeping with" his brother/her son. So every kind of abuse.)

Years later he went for counseling and told his psychologist that his mother used to threaten him and his brother with "I could send you to an orphanage."

Much to his surprise, the shrink laughed. Then he said, "I wish she had because anything is better than what happened instead."

It was a moment he finally was released from that his mother's effect.

So, honestly? Really. Foster care IS better than what you have now! Report the jackass and let someone help you!
 
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Willie-T said:
Because this is the kind of approach I have worked with over the years, I have come to find that I look at things a bit differently.

I seldom give much advice up front. I prefer to encourage the client to talk and tell. You would be surprised how much you can learn about what you are dealing with when they are sort of 'forced' to talk about what they originally wanted YOU to give them all sorts of answers for. (And do Christians ever LOVE to dole out the advice and their ideas of 'answers' when they are still dozens of questions (posts) away from actually even knowing what is really going on.)
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And, in the kind of approach I had to use IRL we had three days to figure out how to help the runaway. Guaranteed we weren't sending them home if they cried rape/incest, but this isn't IRL and I'm really not into letting a girl stay in that environment if it is true to satisfy my desire to know if I'm being played. (And, it was about 50/50 with the runaways on if they were gone from homes because someone was truly abusing them or they weren't getting their way.)
 
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I am so glad you are going to see someone and tell them what is happening. This is a very bad situation you are in sweet one. Please seek help. If you want you can call this number 855-382-5433. It is to Focus on the Family, the licensed Christian Counselor will call you back and help you work through this situation. The call is free and confidential. Please call. I am praying for you!
 
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